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Punishments - 5/6/2007 9:03:58 AM   
danikadee


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i have been given the task by Mistress to come up with three adequate punishments for my transgressions in masturbating without Her knowledge and consent.  i am a quasi-pain slut/slave and have been trained to accept a certain amount of pain, but i think this time, Mistress expects me to remember the punishment. 

Does anyone have any suggestions for punishments to fit the crime?

danikadee
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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 9:05:39 AM   
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Do a search for "punishment ideas" on this site. We have a few of these threads start a week....I am sure you will find more ideas than you could use in three lifetimes.

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 9:42:47 AM   
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If you're a pain slut and she "punishes" you with pain, it's not really much of a punishment, is it? It will only reinforce your negative behavior by giving you what you want.

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 10:27:23 AM   
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You should be comming up with them on your own if that is how you have been instructed.

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 1:14:03 PM   
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Another punishment thread??  Been lots coming up as of late... wonder if it's cause springs upon us and the weather's changing

Punishment to fit the crime - be put into a chastity device and not allowed to cum for at least a month. 

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 2:06:28 PM   
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Just out of curiousity---not trying to start a flame war but whenever I do something that requires punishment my Master gives me the punishment. He knows what he is going to do and he does it. No need to ask for other people opinions. So why so many threads about punishment ideas??

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 2:06:50 PM   
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OFF WITH HIS DICK!!!  If that doesnt work, I don't know what will

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 2:25:32 PM   
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I've never understood turning to others for punishment ideas.  Probably never will.  If the point is to provide humiliation via message boards then I still don't get it.  Why would I care what other faceless people think about me?  Not like I'm best friends with anyone on here.  And would you really want to take advice from someone who doesn't know all your little quirks?  You never know what shadows lurk in someone's closet that might cause them to be harmed mentally if triggered. 

Just seems to me that punishment should fit the crime but should come only from the Dominant who has taken the time to sort through that shadowy closet.

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 2:38:05 PM   
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How about this:  find three punishments that you would really love as a pain slut.  Write them down.  She doesn't do them to you ever again.  That certainly would take any secondary gains out of it for you.

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 2:47:55 PM   
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I'd slap a Kali's teeth bracelet on it and lose the key for a few months. 

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 2:51:35 PM   
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Kneel on uncooked hard grits for a few hours.

You'll never forget.


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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 3:22:05 PM   
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writing sentences ... I usually do around 2000 ... the cramps in my hand make it hard to forget ... blah.

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 3:40:46 PM   
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In my particular case, i am not really adept at punishments and don't seem to have a vivid enough memory to design a clever enough one, not to mention three.  i asked for assistance with the knowledge of Mistress, and now regret doing that.  i will admit i was able to come up with a rather distinct punishment. 

After showering, i always put moisturizer on my face.  Sometimes i get alittle bit in my eyes and the stinging begins.  Sooooo, i thought of a punishment wherein Mistress puts a very, very small amount of dish soap on both of my forefingers, i am then to put them to the tear ducts on my eyes.  The punishment comes when i begin to blink.  You see, it's extremely difficult not to blink when you have soap in your eye.  Which each blink brings a hard slap/crop/paddle to my ass or other parts that are particularly sensitive.  Tearing can go on for quite some time, and so does the slapping/cropping/paddling. 

So, what'ya think?  Not bad for a beginner, huh?

danikadee

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 4:10:25 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BabyNyla

writing sentences ... I usually do around 2000 ... the cramps in my hand make it hard to forget ... blah.


Not all in one setting??

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 4:13:56 PM   
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Not a good idea. The tissue inside the eye is very sensitive and you wouldn't want to harm your eyes. The repercussions from this, if you damage the eye won't be worth it.

If you want a burn - my friend once told me she put toothpaste on her clit -she almost hit the ceiling in pain - i guess ben gay would work as well as ginger root - but keep them all away from the eyes!

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 4:18:40 PM   
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If the wrong soap is picked, just think of the poor little subby trying to explain that masturbation made her blind.

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 4:33:34 PM   
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I would subject the submissive to the ridicule and condescension from the masses of Collarme.com by having them come to the boards and ask for punishment ideas.

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 4:57:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedslave07

Just out of curiousity---not trying to start a flame war but whenever I do something that requires punishment my Master gives me the punishment. He knows what he is going to do and he does it. No need to ask for other people opinions. So why so many threads about punishment ideas??


Could be a few things:

1) unimaginitive lazy Dom/Dom wannabe who doesn't know what he is doing;
2) unimaginitive lazy sub who doesn't want to put the effort in to complete the assignment;
3) some troll who gets off hearing/reading about other peoples punishment;

The truth is that punishment is truly subjective.  It is whatever the person being punished doesn't like enough to deter them from exhibiting the undesired behavior.  Any Dom who takes on a sub should know prior not only what the subs likes and interests are, but what their dislikes are as well. 

Sincerely,
minxy

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 5:00:27 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: danikadee

i have been given the task by Mistress to come up with three adequate punishments for my transgressions in masturbating without Her knowledge and consent.  i am a quasi-pain slut/slave and have been trained to accept a certain amount of pain, but i think this time, Mistress expects me to remember the punishment. 

Does anyone have any suggestions for punishments to fit the crime?

danikadee


1)  Donate to the "Griswold Trust"  (I'm thinking $750.00 a month would be adequate to absolve you of your sins....12 months minimum, by the way).

2)  YOU SLUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  (I forgive you...see above proscribed #1).

3)  Bring me your girlfriend....I promise I'll keep her well.

(Honest).

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RE: Punishments - 5/6/2007 5:03:13 PM   
MasterGremlin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: danikadee

In my particular case, i am not really adept at punishments and don't seem to have a vivid enough memory to design a clever enough one, not to mention three.  i asked for assistance with the knowledge of Mistress, and now regret doing that.  i will admit i was able to come up with a rather distinct punishment. 

After showering, i always put moisturizer on my face.  Sometimes i get alittle bit in my eyes and the stinging begins.  Sooooo, i thought of a punishment wherein Mistress puts a very, very small amount of dish soap on both of my forefingers, i am then to put them to the tear ducts on my eyes.  The punishment comes when i begin to blink.  You see, it's extremely difficult not to blink when you have soap in your eye.  Which each blink brings a hard slap/crop/paddle to my ass or other parts that are particularly sensitive.  Tearing can go on for quite some time, and so does the slapping/cropping/paddling. 

So, what'ya think?  Not bad for a beginner, huh?

danikadee


Thought you said you liked pain?

Sincerely,
minxy

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