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Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/6/2007 6:15:39 PM

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Which do you prefer and why? And as for the well-dressed female sub, give us your opinions!

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/6/2007 6:26:03 PM

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bishop is a definite tomboy.Which is the way I like her to be.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 4:43:05 AM

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bronze is also a tomboy, which is also my preference.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 4:48:09 AM

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Unfortunately I have not had the opportunity to find out, but I think I would prefer the tomboy type sub. I tend to be very rough and most of the femme subs I've spoken to were not really into pain and the like. Though I am sure there are some out there.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 4:51:38 AM

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I prefer tomboys. Pretty ones, who can dress up and play the femme part if we chose to, but who are not afraid to get a little dirty if we go out either.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 9:26:55 AM

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I like both for different reasons, however, I am more attracted to Fem.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 9:31:10 AM

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i am very much in the middle. i love dresses and pretty panties, and makeup and being girly...but i love getting dirty, playing rough, and playing sports.
i can go either way, depending upon a Mistresses preferences :)

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 11:28:52 AM

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We also prefer a tomboy at heart, who can and will present herself as girly on a whim.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 11:39:29 AM

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I prefer a feminine girl.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 3:34:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kitte9

Which do you prefer and why? And as for the well-dressed female sub, give us your opinions!

Hi,
I like preppy sorority types; with a little bit of the tomboy throw in for good measure. But as always it really depends on the person.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 5:11:16 PM

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Any comments on how you like them to dress?

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 8:43:01 PM

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I am madly in love with a geeky/ gothy / androgenous girl. I like her best in geek chic, tho goth garb would go over pretty well in this camp. I am a sucker for dark hair and eyeliner.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 9:12:45 PM

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quote:

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Any comments on how you like them to dress?

Not sure if this was to me directly

Gap, Banana Republic that kinda thing.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 9:26:14 PM

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I prefer one who carries both aspects. I tend to get rough, so being a tomboy would help in deling with the pain issues and hard work I tend to put one through. Being fem would be good cause when I take a girl out on the town, I want her to look good and present herself in a manner fitting her being female

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/7/2007 11:05:37 PM

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Oh my...I am most picky about female subs. I want them cute not slutty. Femine not silly. Hot not horny. Average sized (or bigger) not scrawny. I want them comfortable in sweats and Ts around the house, jeans and a blouse out for the day and in a hot little skirt and thigh high boots for the night!

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/8/2007 2:16:54 AM

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Not had a lot of experience with fem subs, but as I mostly work with boys, I would want a girl who looks like a girl! Those I have played with were definitely all woman! Gotta have some nice boobs to work with, don't want slim and definitely not scrawny. A bit of meat on her bones! Something to grab hold of, and slap! And prefer her dressed (when she is!) in a skirt and loose top with a bra (to support those boobs) but no panties.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/8/2007 2:27:02 AM

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Its been a few years since I played with female subs. I have to say that I dont like butch ones at all lol or boi types. I definatly prefer the sophisticated look and I'm with MaamJay on Hot not Horny and nothing too scrawny. Nice boobs and a nice ass are defiantly the way forward

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/9/2007 9:58:21 AM

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quote:

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Oh my...I am most picky about female subs. I want them cute not slutty. Femine not silly. Hot not horny. Average sized (or bigger) not scrawny. I want them comfortable in sweats and Ts around the house, jeans and a blouse out for the day and in a hot little skirt and thigh high boots for the night!

What she/they said.
Petite women are usually what I am more attracted to, except for the exceptions of course.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/10/2007 6:31:53 AM

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I am generally attracted to girly girls, but there are some seriously sexy tomboys out there. I will go with the general consensus and say I want a girl who can do both.

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RE: Female subs: Tomboy or Femme? - 5/10/2007 7:18:01 PM

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I used to distinctly prefer femmes. Lately I've been nursing crushes on a butch woman (and a transman too, for that matter), although my attraction to the cleavage-busting, lip-gloss smearing expression of femininity has not faded, so I think my preference has simply broadened. I think different women are more attractive with different expressions of womanhood.

Dress? Hm...again, on a smaller scale, different women require different clothing looks just as they require different gender expressions. Wrap dresses are good on most people, and fit the minimalist, tailored, tidy look I like. The new skinny jeans are a favorite look on women who have the appropriate proportions. Clothing that is fitted to the body, and that reveals choice attributes, is most attractive to me--subtly sexy, to use a fashion-mag term. I dislike sloppiness and sluttiness in dress.

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