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RE: Just an Ordinary Rose - 8/19/2007 8:43:37 AM

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I am sorry to hear that you are injured. I hope you will be better soon.
As for being a sub, i make sure my Master is healty. I cook for him the healty foods, cut him down on his salt and sugars and if he is sick i will make sure that he has everything needed to get better. I will even take time of for work if that is needed.

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RE: Just an Ordinary Rose - 8/19/2007 11:47:42 AM

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You are very welcome! That is my part of life as my master's slave!

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RE: Just an Ordinary Rose: Update - 8/19/2007 5:00:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

I did not indeed tell any of the boys that I expected them to think ahead and do things wihtout asking---the curse of being in control of everything---and yet if one wants My favor, why should I?

That could be part of the issue. Some people don't want people to do things for them without asking. Perhaps you could be clearer as to what you desire from them.

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RE: Just an Ordinary Rose - 8/19/2007 6:01:02 PM

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I have many boys local and otherwise who are vying for My attention---begging to be seen as THE one, the perfect rose out of them all---Thursday evening I injured My neck badly---severe muscle spasms--the worst pain I have ever had---a miserable night led to a miserable next day--couldnt work, couldnt see My horses, couldn't drive to get meds or lotion, or even ice cream if I wanted it--that pain moved to My lower back--again severe spasms--heating pad and movies was about all I could stand---today, the neck is so so, but the back is in severe spasms again---I am not one to cry at pain, but this hurts like a SOB--everyone knows about it, My IM status indicates, My blog talks of it, I have spoken of it when we chat---and yet no one, not a single boy has offered a bit of help--not an errand, not an offer of grabbing to go food, get meds, not even a card, not even an e card,--this is the very thing we have discussed in other posts, would you still serve Me when...and today I feel the answer is--I guess not.

You expected people to come forth and do something altruistically for you and they failed your expectations. It's disappointing, but, this IS the age of blogging on the internet. Everyone shares their business with perfect strangers. Many of us are numb to it, the slaves included. If they're not directly in service to you, perhaps they didn't understand that your talking about the issue meant you were trying to hint at them stepping up to the plate to do something. If you posted that you asked them for help and no one obliged, perhaps I'd be more offended that they failed you. However, you've made clear that you didn't really tell any of them to do anything, nor asked for help. I can't really say that I have *any* expectation of the hundreds of people who read my blog to step forward and do something for me when I'm sick or have other issues "just because I talk about it." If I want something, I ask (or direct) and it's only of those who I have a vested interest in. Then, I think I'm justified to be bent out of shape if a friend has failed to respond to a reasonable request for assistance or a situation that they could have intervened on IF I made it clear that I wanted intervention. (Most of the time when I'm in pain, people know to stay the hell away from me!)

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RE: Just an Ordinary Rose - 8/19/2007 7:08:45 PM

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i am sorry for your pain, i have suffered back pain myself and it can indeed be incapacitating. i was once in a hospital in traction both cervical and lumbar spine for a week. The only good thing about that week was the generous percoset they gave me

Chiropractors are great. i went to one for years and i believe i am pain free because of it. Investing in a real good mattress will work wonders as well. After i did my back improved drastically. A bad mattress can wreak havoc on the spine.

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RE: Just an Ordinary Rose - 8/19/2007 9:41:47 PM

ocilla

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Hey.. just caught this post and am so sorry you've been in pain. I am glad you have a sweet UM that seemed to rise to the occasion. I do find that the vanilla fellas I have dated lately do this much better than subs I have meet ove rth elast year of exploration as a generalization - which are always full of trouble. But to date the subs I have encountered for the most part do have a hard time anticipating and acting without direction. As we get to know each other more and they learn what sorts of expectations I have and how to please me they definitely get better and more confident at taking initiative and knowing when/how to be strong. Good luck on your recovery and I am sure your horses greatly miss you too.

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RE: Just an Ordinary Rose: Update - 8/19/2007 10:06:47 PM

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I am sorry for the pain that you experienced with your back.It can be quite debilitating. It seems as if you have received good advice from two different sides of the coin. Some have stated that the subs you have contact with, possibly did not feel that they were special enough to you to be there, and some have stated that the subs could of stepped up to the plate and take the opportunity to shine in your eyes. To me it is hard to say ,what these subs that you know ,were thinking, or their place in your life (if any). To many unanswered variables, to truly make a call one way or the other, as to if they should of offered help or not. But if there, IMO was any kind of friendly R/L interaction, then simply as a decent human being, seeing someone in need should of been impetus enough...I hope for a good recovery. Hummm, maybe chiropractor will have a subbilicious demeanor for your enjoyment..and possible perusal?...

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RE: Just an Ordinary Rose - 8/19/2007 11:28:40 PM

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I'm sorry that you're not feeling well.
You've got mail.

P.S. I don't know about everyone else, but if someone I consider a friend/am trying to court, says "I'm in excruciating pain, cannot move or even pick up my pain meds," I would absolutely not wait for him to say "please come help me, I'm desperately in need." That is just me, and to that end, I will no longer be with anyone who isn't at a minimum a little empathic/kind/considerate, and will lend a hand, send a card, or flowers, or offer to do something to help me through a difficult time. I don't do unkind and inconsiderate folks, and will happily stop dating, if the only available folks are the ones I have to ask for help after telling them I'm in need. M

< Message edited by FullfigRIMaam -- 8/19/2007 11:40:41 PM >

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