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RE: Advice for New Dommes - 8/28/2008 8:16:28 PM

LadyHibiscus

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And here is a lovely link to a related thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_2099303/tm.htm that I hope works. It's over in the Ask Master zone, Advice For New Dominants. Just change the genders around a little, and guys, read the parts that are directed to you regarding WOMEN.

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RE: Advice for New Dommes - 8/29/2008 5:38:02 AM

Satyr6406

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

I'm very glad you reposted that in this thread Michael! I think it's something that new dominants also need to understand. Much of what you've posted I feel applies to me personally as well; not just as a submissive who's actions would reflect upon his dominant, but as a human being with similar core values. At the same time, I couldn't serve a dominant that didn't have values similar to what you've posted.

Thank you again for sharing.

- pixel

Thank you for the kind words and your admonishment of me ("Much of what you've posted I feel applies to me personally as well; not just as a submissive who's actions would reflect upon his dominant, but as a human being with similar core values.") was WELL deserved. In my defense; the original was posted in a thread about dominants "whining" and I wanted to make as few changes as possible but, you're right; these ARE qualities that we would hope ALL human beings aspire to, at the very least.

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RE: Advice for New Dommes - 8/30/2008 8:18:55 PM

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I'm a sub in training to be a Switch so all of that was very helpful, now it doesn't seems as hard as my Mistress makes it sound lol. don't tell her I said that tho lol

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RE: Advice for New Dommes - 9/1/2008 3:59:30 PM

ElanSubdued

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Wow! I just want to thank *everyone* who replied to this thread. I'm trying to catch up on some things offline so I'm not sure when I'll get back to post in this thread in a meaningful way. At the risk is missing and/or offending anyone, I'll quickly reply to a few people.

MoGa: your words are so very kind and TOTALLY FUCKING GOOD FOR MY EGO! Thank you. :-)

Akasha and pixelslave: thanks for adding the "protocol and management sub-topic in the thread.

wickedgame916: you're welcome! You are not nearly as new at this as your post implied! I'm glad a small modicum of what I wrote was helpful.

Satyr6406: I really enjoyed your sub-topic on a dominant's responsibilities, standards, and ethics.

LadyHibiscus: what do you mean "don't encourage him"? :-) Thank you for your contributions to this thread (and for your advice, both online and off).

Elan.

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