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RE: Jealousy - 2/21/2006 7:33:27 PM

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Each to their own!

Indeed.

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RE: Jealousy - 2/21/2006 8:30:15 PM

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Hands Angelic another bottle of Advil... dealing with these quotes again I can tell is getting the best of you.... LOL

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RE: Jealousy - 2/21/2006 8:31:11 PM

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Hands Angelic another bottle of Advil... dealing with these quotes again I can tell is getting the best of you.... LOL

thanks true... and yes that and dealing with.... errrr... nm

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RE: Jealousy - 2/21/2006 8:32:32 PM

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i know that jealousy is wrong, it's not easy to get past

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RE: Jealousy - 2/21/2006 8:43:11 PM

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i know that jealousy is wrong, it's not easy to get past

There's alot of things not easy to get past Michael. But we all do still try.

But remember this... when you find something... not right with yourself... work on it.. for yourself.. not for someone else... because you have to be happy with you. Remember this... what is someones trash... is anothers treasure...

Others have stated that would prefer to toss one off to the side... than deal with the jealousy... but there's always someone out there... that feels that if you do get jealous... you are loving... caring... and concerned. (No this doesn't mean beccause you don't tolerate it that you're not the same way). But some see it as a plus.. not a problem.

Knowing you have a jealousy problem... make things easy on yourself... save the heartaches... tell them up front. If you do not have a jealousy problem.... and one developes... look at what happened... what caused it.... then deal with it...

If one doesn't want to deal with it... when it does come up... later in the relationship.....and you find it can't be worked out... thank your lucky stars.... and move on.. knowing to yourself... oh hell.. at least I tried... and be happy with that. (after a good amount of cussing the other out of course... in your thoughts... for being so self centered... lol)

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RE: Jealousy - 2/21/2006 8:51:26 PM

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thing is, i never used to be a jealous person, but, due to my past relationship with my former Mistress, it developed. i won't go into detail on this issue as it only tends to bring out the hurt, pain and loss. let's just say that i felt left out and tend to habor a bit of anomosity over the whole thing.

there's other issues that i also won't go into that have occured recently. i've attempted to hide these feelings through silliness, jokes and other random stupidity. it's not helping.

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RE: Jealousy - 2/21/2006 8:54:24 PM

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i've attempted to hide these feelings through silliness, jokes and other random stupidity. it's not helping.

Exactly.. you're hiding them... masking them... not dealing with them.. trying to work on them.
You will though... when you're ready too... and if you don't.. that's your choice. You have to live with the end results...

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RE: Jealousy - 2/21/2006 8:57:14 PM

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yeah, i know...it's just a difficult task to undertake.

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RE: Jealousy - 2/22/2006 12:42:29 AM

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i stated something way early in this post which i stand by you should really listen to a show called coast to coast.
i have been in the lifestyle for many many years. there are levels to growth to bdsm no matter if your a sub dom or domme
and it starts with you and were your feet are planted you can fallow all that goofy made up crap that you read or what someone tells you that maybe more blind then you are lol shrugs any how lifes path with do two things it will either bonk you on the head and send you in the right direction or for those that ignore those lessons put you in a lost state do with jealousy its a part of us a tool just like any you can use it for good or bad thats lifes education process remeber in lifes lesses for those that thing that the grass is always greener its not its still coverring up the cow shit it grows out of makes ya wanna go hummmm no everyone fits into the cookie mold of what a perfect relationship should be but play by the rules and dont be a full stay with someone that respects your feelings and you
thats the good stuff
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