Switcheroo1983
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Joined: 1/29/2013 Status: offline
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I know this is going back a ways, OP, but you have a damned good point. I met a man offline months ago who wanted to play. We are both bondage and tickle fetishists (no, this is in no way wank fodder) and he wanted to play. Ok. Fine. Upon meeting he tells me he wants to be tickled and spanked for one full-hour, no safe-word. No. I always play with safe-words, and the safe-word is always "safe-word", as nothing else sounds like it. He relents. Great. Now remember, he was adamant about a solid hour and swore he would not safe-word....EIGHT MINUTES IN he is screaming "safe-word". I didn't "scold" him or rub in it, I gave him some dignity, but Jesus, imagine if he had "got what he wanted". I'm sure we can all share stories like this, but the I've noticed people who that have the most unrealistic lists of wants watch A LOT of porn.
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