tamaka -> RE: LGBT compared to having anorexia (11/17/2016 12:15:51 PM)
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ORIGINAL: tamaka If you had a loved one suffering from anorexia would you help them to see themselves as fat and encourage them to get lyposuction? http://www.charismanews.com/opinion/clarion-call/59565-the-entire-lgbt-narrative-just-crumbled I'm not sure your point, here. My niece jumped on my back when she was 12 yrs. old and weighed ~ 120, "I'm getting fat, huh uncle Ed?" I don't remember what I said, I just threw her on the couch like I always did. She lived in my house for a few years when she was younger, and I never preached to her about anything, but did turn her head from the idiotic stuff at the grocery check-out line, etc., and otherwise just accommodated her and her wonderful boisterous spirit. She is, my guess, ~ 135 now, just got married to a skinny guy, both of them 28. My youngest sister is unmistakably ... plump. I could tell that my mother had a special place in her heart for her first cousin who was 'gay', this being well before that was accepted at all. His parents had no issue with it either, that being another exception for the time. At the wake after my mom's passing, I recall him answering to someone's question: "Well, we sing at my church one week, then we sing at his church the next week." Catholic and Methodist, I think, but point being they didn't give a crap about the theology, they just wanted some place to sing every week, such as to the structure they grew up with, and suiting natural inclination all at once. And yes, he had a tremendous voice that others took note of, just like his hetero dad. I truly wish this was a more common thing, but if you are afforded the luxury of good family, 'fat' or 'homo' is neither any big issue. That's who we is, aside from the hetero skinny runts like me. I don't have 'A point'. I just thought it was an interesting perspective. I've never thought about comparing anorexia to being homosexual (or perhaps even transgender) but it certainly has some merit... i would think even moreso on the transgender issue than the homosexual issue. It makes some sense when looking at the statistics for suicide, etc that one would want to help a loved one to try to overcome it if they could. Personally, i think the fact that i really am a slave and not a sub helps me understand the thinking of homosexuals and transgenders. It is just what i really, truly am at my core being and anyone who tried to 'help me' by reassuring me that i'm not what i know i am (because somehow i would be 'better off") does more damage than just allowing me to accept and enjoy what i am in this life. Thank God i got past the fear of burning in hell eternally for being my true self.
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