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RE: wife found my profile - 5/11/2007 3:25:09 PM

KatyLied

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Wait, I'm starting to get impressed.....

This is the second DUI arrest for McNair. In May 2003, McNair was arrested in Nashville on charges of driving under the influence and illegal gun possession. The charges were dismissed after a judge threw out the evidence, stating police did not have sufficient reason to pull him over.

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/11/2007 5:17:45 PM

MagiksSlave

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ORIGINAL: draba

Some how may account is still active, altough I closed it.
Pixel, thanks for your advice. I always liked your posts. You had the most usefull advice. Yes, I wll take everyone's advice. You all are helpfull.

It was a CB 2000 and my wife was out of town. Mistress did not want me masterbating. Yes, I do have ED with my Mistress. I dunno why. It was the saving grace in my relationship with my wife. See saw that I can not use my cock out of wedlock and was relieved that I never F--- another woman. That she knows of.
Thanks again
draba

the entire problem is messed up but this really got to me
that she knows of?? WTF

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/11/2007 6:15:12 PM

Red82

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yes, i caught that one too.

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/11/2007 6:30:22 PM

MissSCD

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Well, I am sorry, but I hate cheaters. Not only that, I hate cheaters who cheat on Dommes.
My advice to you is to stay with your wife and get off the net, player.

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/11/2007 6:32:35 PM

AquaticSub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

quote:

ORIGINAL: draba

Some how may account is still active, altough I closed it.
Pixel, thanks for your advice. I always liked your posts. You had the most usefull advice. Yes, I wll take everyone's advice. You all are helpfull.

It was a CB 2000 and my wife was out of town. Mistress did not want me masterbating. Yes, I do have ED with my Mistress. I dunno why. It was the saving grace in my relationship with my wife. See saw that I can not use my cock out of wedlock and was relieved that I never F--- another woman. That she knows of.
Thanks again
draba

the entire problem is messed up but this really got to me
that she knows of?? WTF

Magik's slave

Bragging of conquest without actually confirming it so that if called on it, he has vague deniablity. Very stereotypical male locker behavior.

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/11/2007 10:46:19 PM

pixelslave

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

quote:

ORIGINAL: draba

Some how may account is still active, altough I closed it.
Pixel, thanks for your advice. I always liked your posts. You had the most usefull advice. Yes, I wll take everyone's advice. You all are helpfull.

It was a CB 2000 and my wife was out of town. Mistress did not want me masterbating. Yes, I do have ED with my Mistress. I dunno why. It was the saving grace in my relationship with my wife. See saw that I can not use my cock out of wedlock and was relieved that I never F--- another woman. That she knows of.
Thanks again
draba

the entire problem is messed up but this really got to me
that she knows of?? WTF

Magik's slave

I wouldn't take the "That she knows of." literally, but more in what I'll refer to as "draba context". His use of the english language in general is very poor and often unintelligble to many if not most on CM. Although I cannot speak for him, he may have actually meant that she knows he didn't have intercourse with another woman, but didn't use the proper words to convey that message. With draba, you never really know exactly what he means in his posts...

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/12/2007 11:49:24 AM

NaturistServant

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SHE IS ONE SMART WIFE DUDE! WHEN IS THE DIVORCE? YOU CANT WIN WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN BECAUSE EVEN THE MOST STUPID OF THEM IS SMARTER TGHAN THE AVERAGE MAN.

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/12/2007 11:50:51 AM

MellowSir

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If you weren't having your needs met by the one you married then what the hell are you doing with her...........

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/12/2007 11:57:52 AM

Politesub53

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Taking the wife and Mistress aspect out of the equation for a second, how would carrying on the deception after being caught out help in any way. Surely the best way forward is to now be honest with both ladies and decide the best way forward. If your wife says no more, then i suspect its accept that or leave. I doubt you can have both in your life still.

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/13/2007 5:02:29 PM

MagiksSlave

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I wana know if the Mistress knows that she was helping him cheat of if she thought his wife was ok with it or if she even knew he had a wife!?!?!?!

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/13/2007 6:13:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: MellowSir

If you weren't having your needs met by the one you married then what the hell are you doing with her...........

Nothing in BDSM is worth getting a divorce for. It's transient as hell. Leave it behind.

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RE: wife found my profile - 5/14/2007 6:24:31 AM

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It's very nice that you and your wife have discussed it clearly--that is, that she has outlined your choices, and described her likely reactions. If your wife generally means what she says, and if she had this conversation with you in a measured, calm, rational manner, then I wouldn't bank much on changing her mind.

That said, it's still a difficult choice. You should use whatever analytical tools help you decide most effectively. Making lists of reasons for and against generally helps me. Consider practical reasons as well as emotional ones. You should also be aware that while your wife will not remain married to you if you continue your relationship with your mistress, you can also end your marriage to your wife and end your relationship with your mistress--or, your mistress could end her relationship with you, possibly for independent reasons.

You shouldn't choose hastily, but it won't help anyone to linger too long. Then, when you make your choice, clearly communicate it and stick to it.

Good luck to you.

I couldn't agree more with this post.

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