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perverseangelic -> RE: Just joined and (5/10/2005 11:34:54 AM)
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You are paying professional dominants for a service. ~shrug~ If it doesn't work for you, don't do it.
It doesn't work for me. I want a realtionship with my dominant partner.
That said, that isn't what some people want. Some people are in it for sexual thrill, as you said, or for a temporary respite from their lives. To that end, they seek someone who can provide that service. Just as they'd go to a massage therapist for that kind of service. Would you say a massage therapist is a prostitute? Massage invovles hands over the entire body, and could be construed as a sexual act.
Sure, there are -tons- of sexual acts that don't invovle PIV or PIA or PIM penetration or any permutation of penetration/genital contact at all. However, under -law- they aren't prostitution. If you choose to view professional domination as prostutition, heck, go for it! However, don't badmouth those who don't view it in such a light.
I'm, personally, not a fan of "tribute" mistresses/masters, simply because financial dominantion isn't a kink for me. I see this as VERY different from pro-domination. In my veiw, one pays a professional for a service, so in essence, the professional is doing what the submissive person wants. One gives service to a financial dominant because the service pleases them. I dunno, maybe that's a weird view.
Still, though, if you don't like it, but it isn't hurt you or someone else, ignore it!
I can say with some assurance that a large percentage of power-exchange people aren't invovled in the sex industry. You don't seem to have read the message boards very much, because you'll see that many of us do the relationship thing. Yup, many of us are also professionals.
Re: getting tribute from dominant people
Go for it!!! If you can get a mistress to give you tribute for serving her, more power to you. This one is a supply and demand thing, though, so I doubt you'll have much luck.
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