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MsCara -> Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 2:59:18 PM)

Just a question .. I am curious .. I know, it killed the cat.   I pose this question to the women on the board.    Has the way you "look", "feel", "relate" to men in this way of living affected the way you "look" at vanilla men?   I don't necessarily mean in a relationship .. just in general ..
 
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spanklette -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 3:10:09 PM)

Nope...I'm a flirt from the gound up...kinky, vanilla, or any mix. But, sometimes I do wonder about some of the men I meet...sometimes I wonder if they know what wonderful uses a riding crop can be put to...



jayded34 -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 3:13:22 PM)

constantly a flirt........doesnt matter one way or another.......



MsCara -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 3:16:06 PM)

LOL .. What a great way of looking at it !    I ask the question because it has occured to me that I really have no respect for vanilla men.   It's kind of like a cat with mice .. oh. I might bat them around for a bit but eventually I get bored and move on.     



jayded34 -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 3:17:58 PM)

i think the biggest thing is.....i am just natrually drawn to more Dominant men........those that carry themselves a certain way......that you can just see "who and what they are" even if they dont recognize it......those are the men i flirt with...on a general basis......



AmazonLady -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 3:24:48 PM)

I've always been somethign of a flirt - I like to feel sexual. I do it for me, not them - if they get something out of it - goodie for them.
However, the kind of flirting depends on weather I belive them to be vanilla or not. Often its a teasing, Domme, perhaps even disrespectful flirting with a vanilla man - I simply refuse to let them have the upper hand.
With a man who is Dominant, who has a presence - it's a diffrent kind of flirt compleatly. Weather they realize it or not. *grin*



Sirandlittle1 -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 3:28:08 PM)

Definately. But only as much, as it has changed my way of viewing everyone and their interpersonal relationships. Not just the men.
The only way i could say it has changed my view of vanilla men, is that living with a Dominant who'm i love, i note how 'a million miles away' the vanilla's are, to what i need.
I used to date vanilla's. And try to 'turn' them. Now i see that you just cant 'create' a bdsm fan. You can certainly encourage a top. But as for a D or a s, unless its there, your wasting your time and choice.



MsCara -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 3:33:05 PM)

Amen .. !   



moki1984 -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 5:21:48 PM)

i am a huge flirt no matter what but i ahve noticed that now when i meet people in a vanilla setting etc...i cant help but think "i wonder if he likes ponygirls? i wonder if he has ever been spanked? how kinky is he? "lol



Lashra -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 5:27:18 PM)

Nope, if he is attractive I always check his ass out and think "woohoo I'd like to be beating that".[;)] I respect men, vanilla or not until they give me a reason not too, thats all people really. The ones I loose respect for are the ones who treat women like brainless idiots. I have no use for morons like that.

~Lashra



slaveish -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 5:57:02 PM)

Nope, but Master has changed the way I look at men in general.



KeirasSecret -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 6:08:05 PM)

Yes, I used to loath most vanilla men, (the ones I’ve run across), the way so many of them act like they are something special, just because of what they have between their legs.

Now I just kind of feel sorry for them. [sm=m23.gif]

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MsCara -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 6:16:01 PM)

good point and now that I think about it I do as well .. I find vanilla men to be "weak" .. even as I say it I am telling myself that can't be normal.   <grins>   Heck, whats normal anyway?    Thank you all for your input.  



Kitte9 -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 6:20:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

Nope, if he is attractive I always check his ass out and think "woohoo I'd like to be beating that".[;)] I respect men, vanilla or not until they give me a reason not too, thats all people really. The ones I loose respect for are the ones who treat women like brainless idiots. I have no use for morons like that.

~Lashra

Brava Lashra, brava.




innatedesire -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 6:23:59 PM)

It does not affect me in the least bit; but as others have stated I am naturally drawn to dominant men.   I just smile inside when a vanilla trys to go out of his way to impress me and I think to myself " you have no idea, if you only knew what really gets me going you would probably turn 10 different shades of red!"



MsCara -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 6:34:21 PM)

I think is about the power for me.   Now you all have me thinking about this.   I find them powerless.   Was is it they say about perception?   One's perception is one's truth.        



MistressDoMe -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 6:36:14 PM)

Flirting is fun and a good thing.



MsCara -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 6:37:54 PM)

cripes ignore the typos ...



poisonedkandy -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 6:38:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Sirandlittle1

I used to date vanilla's. And try to 'turn' them. Now i see that you just cant 'create' a bdsm fan. You can certainly encourage a top. But as for a D or a s, unless its there, your wasting your time and choice.


I do what Sirandlittle use to do.  It's not something I intentionaly do but everytime I see a vanilla man I am attracted to it's a temptation too irrisitable to pass up!  Especially if I see such potential in them.  This probably has to do with the lack of quality when it comes to kinky guys in my area. 



MsCara -> RE: Question for the women .. (5/12/2007 6:40:02 PM)

Would you find a "vanilla" "date" interesting?  



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