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RE: Tattoos - 5/13/2007 1:38:33 PM

slaveish

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ORIGINAL: amy87

I was thinking a handprint on each breast and large writing underneath, all in black. Not sure what wording to have, 'slut' or 'whore' or something like that. Any suggestions?

Omg. Don't do that. Amy, you are a young woman and you will change. Your Dominant (or other partners later in life) may find this sort of tattoo an affront, not to mention what it would do to you to always know you have such a thing on your body (talk about negative self-talk - geez). Wait. Give it some time.

And if not ... I hope it was worth the money.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/13/2007 1:43:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: amy87

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ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

Hmmm...take into consideration the things that the other posters have said. They make very valid points. Also, and it was kind of already said in a way, but why not allow your Dominant to decide that when you have one (if you don't already)...Some really don't like them (like mine, and i have 3) So keep that in mind.

I don't have a dominant at the moment, and anyway this is something i want to do for me, rather than another person.

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If you still decide you want to get one though, how about on your tummy? (I have one there and it hurt like hell to get it, so that can add to it for you maybe). Also, there are the breasts of course. Both of these places would allow you to see them but also be able to cover easily for career.

I was thinking breasts and tummy. The pain isn't such a great thing for me, since i have low pain tolerance.

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As far as what would be humiliating, that would all depend on you and what you find humiliating. It really is a personal thing, what humilates me may not phase another person.

So what do YOU find humiliataing?

I was thinking a handprint on each breast and large writing underneath, all in black. Not sure what wording to have, 'slut' or 'whore' or something like that. Any suggestions?

To be honest, i don't know whether i will go through with this, i do like the idea but would definitely be put off by the pain. Also explaining to the tattoo artist what i wanted might be difficult.

Thanks for all the responses so far.

Hello amy87. I would not recommend it but if you must? ''Slut and Whore'' are very tame, if you really want 'humiliation' you should add adjectives like 'dumb' and 'stupid'. I would modify your tattoos with check boxes with the checks in them. Hope this helps! RL.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/13/2007 3:06:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: amy87

I was thinking breasts and tummy. The pain isn't such a great thing for me, since i have low pain tolerance.

I was thinking a handprint on each breast and large writing underneath, all in black. Not sure what wording to have, 'slut' or 'whore' or something like that. Any suggestions?

One thing to remember is that if you have children you will have to explain it to them. And no I do not run around butt naked all the time in front of mine but I have girls and we get dressed together sometimes and see each other naked. As much as they know I live a different lifestyle for me I'm not sure how I would ever explain something like that to them, the still don't understand the cutting on my back but then again it doesnt say slut or whore.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/13/2007 8:51:18 PM

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I suggest you skip the tat and go for something temporary. I have taken a marker and written things like maggot, pig, etc. on various parts of the body. Using a temp tat or henna is a good thing as well. Henna will last longer if done correctly yet it will go away.

Good Luck!

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RE: Tattoos - 5/13/2007 9:14:16 PM

pashun8flame

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if you don't have a Dom/me why get something humiliating; that should be a Dominant's call. i want to get another tattoo but my Master wants to have a say in what i get and where i get it (and that's how it should be) i have a very tiny heart on my left arm which was a waste of money and Master would like me to get it covered up with something bolder, on my right arm i have pegasus and my children's names but i got those tatts long before i even met my Master. when i wanted to get a tribal on my lower back Master took me to get it and he also had a say on it's positioning as well as the size. i think maybe you should wait until you are collared to a Dom/me and let them decide if you should get a tattoo or not.
good luck...

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RE: Tattoos - 5/13/2007 10:10:30 PM

MellowSir

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Just use symbols or other languages, chinese looks nice and so does arabic script.....and make sure it's well done in a studio, jailhouse tats are just plain ugly lol

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RE: Tattoos - 5/13/2007 11:04:59 PM

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I do not see why an unowned person can't deside to get a whoreish tatto, or other "humilation tatto's. She's free makes her own descions she shouldn't have to wait to get a dominant man so she can get her tat.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 3:08:56 AM

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I would really suggest you don't do it. I just had one covered this past Friday night, one that at the time I loved and that was from a past relationship. I decided it was time to let all of that part of my past go, and with it the tattoo.

If you want something like that, perhaps you can have it done in henna or with a marker for awhile. While fun for you at first, it won't be something you probably want in your future. If you are concerned about the pain from the tatt...just think about the pain from having it removed (10x worse). You will also have the rest of your life just going to the Dr and having them see if every single time you have a check-up. There is humiliation, it can be a lot of fun....then there is just something that is always there and will probably get tiresome after a short time.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 3:09:26 AM

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Sure Feline, she's free to do what she wants, but she seems so young for this. Also, when/if she has a child in the future it could be difficult to explain. There are always moments that your child might spot you coming out the shower or whatever - how awful would that be!!!!!!!! Or even if breastfeeding (as she said she wanted tat on breasts maybe), that would just be so crass, actually sick really. At her age, she should wait. Having a child in the future will change her mind about many things, and she will regret it.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 3:19:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: amy87

I was thinking breasts and tummy. The pain isn't such a great thing for me, since i have low pain tolerance.

Crikey, you're young, you're pretty and I can't think of a greater sacrilege than women with tattoos - most esp when they vandalise their own "breasts and tummy"! Hopefully the feral fascination women, esp the young, have with tattoos will end soon, as do all contemporary "fashion accessories". Trouble is, you don't get to give them away when the novelty wears off....

Of course it's your body to deface however you choose! And I much prefer feminine "girly-girl" fem/subs - bite me! lol Seriously, 20 gets you into clubs and adult sites - it does NOT qualify you as mature. So why not concentrate on finding a Dom first, and get his input, too. Tattoos are forever no matter what they tell you about laser removal; it's called a scar then....

Here endeth the old fogey rant....

Focus.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 4:56:18 AM

Lashra

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Get a tat above your pussy with an arrow pointing down that reads "Warning! STD positive enter at your own risk." That should make whoever reads it come up with some interesting commentary.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 7:39:49 AM

MistressLorelei

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I would suggest you take a marker and in draw the tattoo you desire on your breasts with the "whore, slut... whatever and then go to your ob/gyn for a check up, change at the gym... and then see if you want to live the feeling forever. Also consider whether children might be in your future. Life today is usually not life tomorrow. As a Dominant, I would question the common sense of a submissive who had such a tattoo.

If you get the tattoo with the right awareness of what it may bring... and it brings you joy.... then I hope that that joy won't fade over time, but I would bet it would. Make the most informed decision you can, it will effect your life forever. It's easier to divorce out of marriage mistake than it is to get rid of a tatttoo gotten in haste.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 8:46:09 AM

JSin

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There is nothing that is impossible to cover some stuff is more challenging but nothing is impossible... sorry to burst your bubble.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 8:54:37 AM

JSin

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As a tattoo artist of many years I likely would not do the work... But please if you insist go ahead... when you are ready to cover it then pony up again. Generally covers take twice as long and have to encompase double or more of the space the original you are hiding covers.This varies by piece but by the sound of what you want to do I think that would be about right.. Oh and by the way hell yes it hurts.

If you crave humiliation in the tattoo community... Get a Taz on the arm or a tweety bird... Then go to a convention and show it off.

If you wanted something interesting perhaps something inner theigh.I have a friend that is looking for an old fake Kanji flash page that the actual translation of the work is "This dish is Cheap but tasty"

JSin

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ORIGINAL: amy87

quote:

ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

Hmmm...take into consideration the things that the other posters have said. They make very valid points. Also, and it was kind of already said in a way, but why not allow your Dominant to decide that when you have one (if you don't already)...Some really don't like them (like mine, and i have 3) So keep that in mind.

I don't have a dominant at the moment, and anyway this is something i want to do for me, rather than another person.

quote:

If you still decide you want to get one though, how about on your tummy? (I have one there and it hurt like hell to get it, so that can add to it for you maybe). Also, there are the breasts of course. Both of these places would allow you to see them but also be able to cover easily for career.

I was thinking breasts and tummy. The pain isn't such a great thing for me, since i have low pain tolerance.

quote:

As far as what would be humiliating, that would all depend on you and what you find humiliating. It really is a personal thing, what humilates me may not phase another person.

So what do YOU find humiliataing?

I was thinking a handprint on each breast and large writing underneath, all in black. Not sure what wording to have, 'slut' or 'whore' or something like that. Any suggestions?

To be honest, i don't know whether i will go through with this, i do like the idea but would definitely be put off by the pain. Also explaining to the tattoo artist what i wanted might be difficult.

Thanks for all the responses so far.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 10:54:52 AM

amy87

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ORIGINAL: ICGsteve

The photos are hot, I would love to have my wife like that, but that girl is never going to be taken seriously in the business or professional world.

The photos are definitely hot. I can't see a problem with being taken seriously at work, as long as i wear suitable clothing. As far as the impact on relationships... well that's kinda the point. :)

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 10:57:06 AM

amy87

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ORIGINAL: darkinshadows

As you do not want the image visable to the public, I am not really sure if it is humilation you seek, or rather a visable reminder on who you are and where you belong - that is just my take on such a thought anyway.

I think its both. I would have something visable to the public if it wasn't for wanting a career.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 11:00:56 AM

amy87

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ORIGINAL: Tuomas

Ah! So it's like.. yeah, I see. Hehe, neat idea. Of course it probably be more fun if a Dominant did it -but just having one tattoo doesn't forbid you from getting another.

Good point.

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Also, since this is for your own personal enjoyment, not only would you want it someplace you can see, but specifically a place you can see while masturbating. I don't know how you do this, so I can't suggest a specific place. The theme should be along the lines of the things you think of while masturbating.

Well what i was thinking of last night was the hot girl in the photos lol.

Interesting idea,,but sadly it wont work as i'm usually in bed with the lights off.. so nothing to look at anyway.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 11:41:14 AM

amy87

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ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

I would suggest you take a marker and in draw the tattoo you desire on your breasts with the "whore, slut... whatever and then go to your ob/gyn for a check up, change at the gym... and then see if you want to live the feeling forever.

it wouldn't be an entirely new experience, as i already have scars on my legs from were i used to cut when i was younger (and no, that's nothing to do with why i want tobe marked now).

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 12:28:27 PM

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I'd suggest putting one low on your hip. You could see if, but it wouldn't stretch if you got pregnant and you could cover it up.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 1:41:12 PM

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since you're not going to let people talk you out of it...
Get it in the bikini zone on your mons pubis. That way it's not visable to anyone except yoru intimates and if you ever decide you don't want to see it you can let your pubes grow out and kinda cover it.
The pain would be exquisite and having to sit with your legs spread or an hour for a stranger would be humiliating.
But uncoverbale and unerasable is impossible with todays inks and lasers.

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