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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 3:33:57 PM   
alivingdoll


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Status: offline 		My open heart was when i was very young it was a complication related to Turners ,so it's very large and not having breast's it's right there in your face so i thought a tat would be something to look at besides a flat chest lol in fact i joked with the doctor if i should have a nice rack tat on my chest lol.   ~~~~Doll
 

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 4:32:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: pauliestl

Part of me wonders how real this person is seeing as how she comes on here asking for advice and then shuns the advice we give her.  Seems more like someone who came on here wanting to stir up controversy and see how many responses they could get.


What... if i don't take your advice without question, i'm not 'real' ... ? how does that work?

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 4:35:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: petdave

Several people are very hung up on what the OP's offspring will think... did she even mention wanting any? 


No, and i don't.Although most people i know tell me i will change (or in some cases that i'll "grow out of it"). I suppose it's possible, but i don't think so.

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My suggestion (and i liked "pass around girl's" work) would be to have the word "CUMDUMPSTER" done in a heavy, but elegant black script on your lower belly, so that it would show when wearing a bikini bottom.


Nice idea.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 7:20:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: amy87

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ORIGINAL: pauliestl

Part of me wonders how real this person is seeing as how she comes on here asking for advice and then shuns the advice we give her.  Seems more like someone who came on here wanting to stir up controversy and see how many responses they could get.


What... if i don't take your advice without question, i'm not 'real' ... ? how does that work?



Welcome to Collarme.com. You should be aware that you're also not real if you don't answer their emails immediately, accept their chat requests, give out you IM screen names, agree to meet in real life after a maximum of one week internet chatting grace period, capitalize all words pertaining to a dominant, speak in the 3rd person tense, have pictures of yourself on your profile, and most of all, if you proclaim to be "real." Goodluck!


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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 10:53:01 PM   
justplainjava


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Status: offline 		the best advice that this one can give is dont, she wears a tat on her left breast, that states she is the property of a master, and once it was done, she became unimportant to him and now she is mark by a master who no longer has any use for her
so think and dont get one for they can not be errase very easy and all they end up being is a bad reminder and they leave an emptyness and lonelness deep inside
take care and be safre
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RE: Tattoos - 5/16/2007 2:22:09 AM   
Focus50


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ORIGINAL: pauliestl

Part of me wonders how real this person is seeing as how she comes on here asking for advice and then shuns the advice we give her.  Seems more like someone who came on here wanting to stir up controversy and see how many responses they could get.

I think you're missing the point of a public *discussion* forum here! 
 
I haven't exactly told Amy what she wants to hear but I have expressed MY PERSONAL OPINION on tattoos.  And Amy has done what I'd advise anyone seeking advice to do; ignore what's not relevant to her rather than (as too many do) go into rant mode over those not supportive of her situation.
 
Even if she sought my opinion in private, I'd still understand if she didn't take it - because she's NOT obliged to.  Frankly, I think she's generally handled herself quite maturely here (except for wanting tattoos). 
 
Apologies Amy, couldn't resist one last shot... lol
 
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RE: Tattoos - 5/16/2007 5:57:46 PM   
amy87


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ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass


quote:

ORIGINAL: amy87

quote:

ORIGINAL: pauliestl

Part of me wonders how real this person is seeing as how she comes on here asking for advice and then shuns the advice we give her.  Seems more like someone who came on here wanting to stir up controversy and see how many responses they could get.


What... if i don't take your advice without question, i'm not 'real' ... ? how does that work?



Welcome to Collarme.com. You should be aware that you're also not real if you don't answer their emails immediately, accept their chat requests, give out you IM screen names, agree to meet in real life after a maximum of one week internet chatting grace period, capitalize all words pertaining to a dominant, speak in the 3rd person tense, have pictures of yourself on your profile, and most of all, if you proclaim to be "real." Goodluck!



Ah... well that would definitely be me then... i gave up trying to read every message i got after i got something like 40 in a few hours.  And i don't accept many chat requests either.  Clearly not real...

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RE: Tattoos - 5/16/2007 6:26:10 PM   
amy87


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Status: offline 		Thanks to everyone who took the time to reply. I'm sorry if anyone feels i've ignored their advice,,i haven't, and i think that lots of the points made have been valid.

To everyone who said that i should wait until i find the right Dom/Domme to do this, i agree that that might make for a different experience, but right now this is something i want to do for myself, and by myself.  I accept that it might make it harder to form a D/s relationship later on (or any relationship, to be honest), but hey, that's part of what this is about i guess.

I also accept that this is something permanent,and something i might change my mind about later, but that too is part of what i want. part of the thrill for me is the knowledge that i *can't* change my mind later.  So in a way if i don't regret it a little bit later i'll be disappointed (but only a little! lol).

focus50 - i think we're just going to have to agree to disagree - i think tattoos look really hot, on women and men.  But thanks for your advice anyway.

lashra - "Warning! STD positive enter at your own risk."  Nice idea, but i want sex that's a bit humiliating, not non-existant!!

I've decided i'm definitely going to do this.  I'll definitely go with the handprints on my breasts, something written over each hip and something under each breast, but not all at the same time!  I will certainly be adding more after that.  The idea of writing stuff on in permanent marker is a good one, and that's something i've now done (badly, because i can't write well upsidedown), and i think looks great.

robertolapiedra - i like the idea of checkboxes I might inlcude something like that.

petdave - "CUMDUMPSTER" on lower belly is a good suggestion. i didn't like it at first (and still don't) but after thinking about it realised that something i don't like is a lot more humiliating than something i do. this is one of the two that i've drawn in permanent marker (the checkboxes one as well) and i love the effect seeing it has.  This made me realise that if i'm going to do this 'properly' then i will need suggestions from other people (which is sort of what mypath2lvgD said).  if anyone's still reading at this point, feel free to send me ideas... i pretty much guarantee to use your suggestions (as long as their not *too* inappropriate lol).

Thanks again for all your advice.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/16/2007 8:03:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		I may be new to THIS forum but I am not new to forum boards in general and one thing I have seen on other boards is people who come in with a fake persona and purposefully initiate controversial topics and pop in every so often just to see how long they can keep the topic going and see how much they can stir the pot.  Did I say she wasn't real because she didn't take my advice? No, I said she might not be real cause she wasn't taking anyones advice.  I could not personally  care less if she didn't take my advice. She could get cum dumpster tattooed across her forehead for all I care.  Am I ever going to meet her?  Probably not... 
I just thought i saw a common pattern emerging and figured I would say something. 
Excuse me for trying to be helpful. 

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RE: Tattoos - 5/17/2007 3:15:19 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		pauliestl, 
 
I think even if Amy had posted the topic under false pretences, it wouldn't affect the validity of the topic and I personally would've posted much the same words regardless.  I also have extensive posting experience at several sites and I know to post to the topic rather than look for conspiracy theories of the OP's motives.  If they're being "clever", I couldn't care less as long as the subject isn't a nonsense - in which case I simply 'X' outa there.  Hmmmm, the ghosts of "Bighunkydaddy" are rattling chains....
 
Mate, you've been here all of a week or two; until you've gained some local familiarity you could sorta give the rest of us the benefit of any doubt that we're not all fools.  That way if your help is seemingly shunned, you prolly won't find yourself getting all indignant about it next time....  And welcome aboard; more the merrier....
 
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RE: Tattoos - 5/17/2007 4:38:47 AM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		Tattoo Concept for you, for endless humilation and jokes at your expense!
"My personal choice for humilation branding tatoos if I had my way with your skin"

I have yet to see a Girl with a "Barbie" and "Matel" logo..  

Add  "Slave Barbie", "Cumdumpter Barbie", "Slut Barbie" in nicey styled letters for further branding effect. 

Add a "Sales Price", say $19.95 or something reasonable cheap, Talk about literally placing a price tag on a human being.  The next time somebody asks you what you are worth or talks about how valuable you are, you'll know what your price tag really is. 

Add "UPC Bar Code" on your ass cheek somewhere, so people can literally scan/check out your ass in more than one way. At least you'll be remind of this anytime you catch somebody checking out or scanning your ass with their eyes! LOL...

Also you can add "Ages 18+" age of consent plus to be able to play with you!  Call it a reminder of your being a literal sex toy. 

Now some people might find that humilating to be reduced to the likeness of a barbie doll for sale from a store.  These tatoos in a sense are a form of objectfication... you become reduced down to a cheap sex toy!   Not only are you a Cumdumpster.. you are a "Cumdumpster Barbie"...  

This is a twisted cross of something humilating and humorous..    Any Guy that would see your naked body would be making countless jokes about it.  Where in short you'd become the brunt of many countless jokes...  

Hell any Dom/Master/boyfriend or guy in your future would be able to verbally humilate you in front of others with Barbie Doll jokes and the amount of jokes that can come from it are vast.  Would even make for interesting Scene play, plus future Doms/Master would be more apt have fun with it and you and find it more acceptable.      

You'd feel like you were the constant living joke of any twisted sick comedy act...

Here's the 6 tatoo's I'd have done up on you... to make this totally work...
  • Barbie logo
  • "Cumdumpster Barbie", "Slut Barbie" or some identifier to the type of barbie you are.
  • Matel logo
  • Sales Price
  • UPC barcode
  • For Ages 18+

I'm certain a tatoo artist would get a charge out of doing this to you as well..  You'd probally be the talk of the Tatoo shop for weeks on end as well.  But this just my own personal idea and tastes in what I'd do with your skin! 

Another aspect to these tattoos, is that you can have some of them visable when you put on a bathing suit and hit the beach.  Where kids/Vanillas seeing the Barbie, Matel, sales price sticker, UPC and Ages 18+ will be able to make fun of your ass... and humilate you verbally with jokes.. and still be clueless about "Cumdumpster Barbie" or whatever else that hidden under your bathing suit...   Just another thought on expanding the humilation factor to include other people.   I think I'd get a charge off from showing you off at the beach in this manner!  Without all the Vanillas reading what kind of Barbie you are...

Any time you see Barbie anything you will be reminded of your tatoos.  So you could be watching TV and a commercial comes on, you'll be reminded.   Walking through the store if you pass by the Toy section and see a barbie.. you'll be reminded.. when you see store sales flyers with Barbie you'll be reminded.. when you see kids playing with barbie you'll be reminded...

Your choice
Just because you don't follow somebody elses opinion or advice does not mean you ignored it.  I think anybody, especially Dom/mes , should be able to relate to listening to others but in the end making their own decision.

You're real
In terms of your being real or not, I tend to think of you as being real. You asked for advice and opinions, and you were polite about it.

The Skeptics
Some people might be thinking to themselves "she'll find out in 20 years how she should have listened"..  Oh hell, everybody has regrets over some decision or choice eventually.  There are choices when I was younger that I regret now, while there are many I don't regret.

You are not Doomed
Besides I just saw on TV now, that they have new Lazer pens to remove multi-color tatoos.  Perhaps in 20 years technology will have advanced to the point that Tatoo removal will be a short simply procedure.   So, I don't look at your situation as being doomed.  Besides that, if you have a wonderul personality and sense of humor that should count for something in your favor regardless if you have Sponge Bob, CumDumpter, White Trash Whore or Barbie Tatooed on your ass..

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RE: Tattoos - 5/17/2007 5:35:53 AM   
pauliestl


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Point taken, thanks for the advice...
apologies to amy87 ...
Barbie logo, UPC code and price tag.... Nice....

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RE: Tattoos - 5/17/2007 7:41:29 PM   
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petdave - "CUMDUMPSTER" on lower belly is a good suggestion. i didn't like it at first (and still don't) but after thinking about it realised that something i don't like is a lot more humiliating than something i do.


i've always thought it was a great word... "whore" and "slut" are so... common, i guess, but that still has a nice ring to it. i could go for it as a tagline if i did guys.

i was also thinking of an Omega-style logo over the heart...
top arc "Life Support"
lower arc "For A Smelly"
and in the center, of course, "CUNT". Probably use a contrasting color for that

Or, in an arc across the chest
"Just Another Nameless Fuckhole"

While i certainly understand that you need to keep markings "under wraps" to avoid professional liability, i think the whole idea is a lot more powerful if it limits your wardrobe, and requires a conscious thought to not wear certain things in order to prevent them from showing.

This is fun. Maybe i should give the whole "dominant" thing a try

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RE: Tattoos - 5/17/2007 11:11:05 PM   
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Here's the 6 tatoo's I'd have done up on you... to make this totally work... Barbie logo "Cumdumpster Barbie", "Slut Barbie" or some identifier to the type of barbie you are. Matel logo Sales Price UPC barcode For Ages 18+


Brilliant! I love this idea. Even better, do you want to be on Miami Ink? I sort of have a hookup in the casting department. Please apply at www.miami-ink-casting.com, I think it would be a "very special" episode! Lol...now if only we aired on a premium channel where we wouldn't have to blur and bleep out the entire tattoo.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/18/2007 12:24:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		LOL That would be classic.  I could just see the comercial spot for that one lol.   But would you have to bleep out even the mention of barbie due to trade marks if it was on tv??



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RE: Tattoos - 5/11/2010 5:34:59 AM   
Ash2ash


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Status: offline 		I think I understand where you are heading: doing something humiliating and knowing you will still be humiliated in the future. An humiliation that will make you regrets doing it is your turn on or I am compleatly wrong. If you really are going to tattoo something, i will definitly want to see them.
My suggestions: Saw once a woman who had tattooed on her breasts a couple of Swallows (the birds) and written in big between them the word swallows. So every adulte will understand its meaning but childrens wont.
And for a place most visible would be the thighs like some explicit sex pictures or words so you can clearly see them when you masturbate (you would have to give up miniskirt while going to work tough)

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RE: Tattoos - 5/11/2010 6:23:05 AM   
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RE: Tattoos - 5/11/2010 6:28:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		Op- I would suggest something that has meaning to yourself, Say paw prints if your into being degraded and treated like an animal, or such. Something that relates to what you Find humiliating that can be depicted on your body so that not anyone seeing it will know. I understand the more obvious, but i am one for much more subtle things.

Everyone Else saying dont do it- I understand personal opinions and such heres mine. I currently have 5 tattoos and 8 piercings, and plan on getting at least 10 more tattoos. Im 21 years old and started 3 years ago placing them on my body. Every tattoo has meaning and was designed to compliment the area its on, all of them are hideable and no one even expects me to have them.

I will NEVER regret getting a tattoo that reminds me of my father or my mother, I will NEVER regret having something that to me, that i will always look at and see hope joy strenght and growth. I will never regret putting my own art, things i spent years and i do mean close to 8 years on all of them together so far, on my body.... I knew 8 years ago I wanted my designs, It took me forever to make them just right..... drawing countless versions tweaking and changing parts. drawing them on myself as best i could and using the transfer paper most tattoo artists use to make sure they looked perfect.

Please keep the Youll change your mind.. dont do it....your only a child malarky... to yourself, Scare tactics have no use in a discussion and Age really has little to do if something has great meaning to you...... Not everyone changes their mind as they grow older, My mothers currently 69 years old, and she still holds true to many of her convictions she made when she was 15 or 16 years old.



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RE: Tattoos - 5/11/2010 6:51:41 AM   
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