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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 1:52:55 PM

glanstat

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One of the best I have seen is a little stick figure pushing a lawn mower over your bush.

Keep it rather small and use black ink. Easier to laser if you later decide to get rid of it.

I have had a few, lased a set of red lips and some black writing, kept the little rose and vine at end of penis. Nice private tat.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 2:10:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: amy87

The photos are definitely hot. I can't see a problem with being taken seriously at work, as long as i wear suitable clothing. As far as the impact on relationships... well that's kinda the point. :)

But word gets around started by friend and foe. Somebody who is intimate or was intimate with you will tell somebody else, and if you have really cool tats the story will be a very popular conversation topic. Or you will just once have a clothing malfunction or be drunk and careless and so on. If you do the humiliation part very well there will be no playing this off as "fun" or "sexy", you will be perceived as "scary" , you will be shunned and your employer will easily find a way to fire you.

You have to assume that your co-workers and employer will eventually find out, and you need to be OK with the consequences. Humiliation only works if people see it, if you do this you know you are going to show it off. Your intimate partners will probably spread the word, but even if they don't having a humiliation tat that only the one's who love you see is going to become boring, you will show it to others. You can't keep this safely in a box forever. The fact that you are even considering this proves that when push comes to shove you will not play safe.

BTW- your hunger for this is not "smart" or "safe" but it is wild. I am not saying don't do it, just be very sure before you do. There are advantages to living life on the edge, but you don't want to end up on the edge by accident.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 2:12:05 PM

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I'd suggest putting one low on your hip. You could see if, but it wouldn't stretch if you got pregnant and you could cover it up.

it depends. i have one right on the pelvic crest bone...and yes, one edge of it WAS affected when i had my second child. i got the work done when my first was 3.

kitten, who's not regretted any of her six tattoos, even though her mama tsk's about every new one.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 2:35:09 PM

Tuomas

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quote:

ORIGINAL: amy87

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Also, since this is for your own personal enjoyment, not only would you want it someplace you can see, but specifically a place you can see while masturbating. I don't know how you do this, so I can't suggest a specific place. The theme should be along the lines of the things you think of while masturbating.

Well what i was thinking of last night was the hot girl in the photos lol.
Interesting idea,,but sadly it wont work as i'm usually in bed with the lights off.. so nothing to look at anyway.

Hehe, likewise.

In bed with the lights off! That's like missionary. :p You need to be more kinky

So, if you do get the tattoo, will we get to see how it turns out?

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 4:36:12 PM

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Several people are very hung up on what the OP's offspring will think... did she even mention wanting any?

My suggestion (and i liked "pass around girl's" work) would be to have the word "CUMDUMPSTER" done in a heavy, but elegant black script on your lower belly, so that it would show when wearing a bikini bottom. But, i would agree with the recommendation to draw it on with a marker first, and wear it for several weeks to make sure you don't change your mind.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 9:08:58 PM

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I saw one today that would be perfect, no lie. This woman came in with a tattoo that consisted of her first boyfriend's name and the date she lost her virginity. She was hoping to get it covered up. Is that humiliating enough for you?

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 9:30:00 PM

kitriana

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I vote for Stupid Whore under the breasts (one word per breast) probably in a 16-18 pt basic font.. easily visible to you, easily covered, easily shown off if you like.. it isnt the most intimate of places, though i bet it will hurt like a bitch.

do as you like though, obviously you have thought about doing it and the risks involved that some people's bodies react adversely to the ink, and some people keloid up, and so on..

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 9:43:31 PM

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While everyone's advice regarding being careful and waiting to get a tattoo to make sure it's really what you want is certainly good and valid, I am completely appalled at the number of people who think you need to wait for some dominant man before making this choice. A woman's body is hers to do with what she pleases and implying that because she may oneday have a dom means that she shouldn't do what makes her happy now is absurd. Other than the fact that a tattoo is permanent (and really it's not considering they can always be covered or removed) this is about as valid of an argument as telling someone not to cut or dye her hair or get her ears pierced or choose a career because her future dominant might object. Plus, if this is important to the girl and she gets it done for a reason, then likely a dom who comes along in the future who can't understand that reason would have little chance of being compatible with her.

So in all seriousness, do be careful and think about what you want, but in the end it's your choice and do it for yourself. Just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons, hopefully because it's going to be something that makes you feel good (even if humiliated) when you see it.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 9:46:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

It's easier to divorce out of marriage mistake than it is to get rid of a tatttoo gotten in haste.

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. Because divorce is so quick and simple and inexpensive compared to the 6-8 laser treatments it takes to remove a tattoo.
Not "fun" by any means but as a child of divorce, I have to wonder about the logic here.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 10:34:49 PM

MistressBastet

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I would have to agree with this. Having gone threw a bad relationship and having an ex make me take out my piercings. Its hard.

But if its who you are then you will learn someone that does not like that about you or your choice then might not be wise for you at all.

Now like always with my typical tattoo speach I give. Just think about it and when you will know. It will come to you that this ink here on my body is truely what I want.

I have 8 each have there story and each have there reason. And the many more to fallow will all have there reasons.

But yes if you do so chose to get it done. Just talking with an artist and explaining to them why you want it and what it means to you should not be a problem. Most artists I know are very open minded people.

I am sure they will ask if you are absolutly sure that is what you want. And if it is and are confadent with it. Then you will get the ink.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/14/2007 11:40:36 PM

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Since you are asking for "advice and opinions" here is what I have to say.

Personally, I look at Tatoos as a form of artwork, and take enjoyment and pleasure in the asthetics of creative high quality tatoos. I checked out the link to http://www.bmezine.com/news/pubring/20061028.html and found it distasteful.  These are tatoos that would not bring me any pleasure in seeing on a submissives/slaves body.   In fact, I would be wanting the work to be covered up or removed.   I view tatoos as being a form of spiritual expression and branding upon the body.

I would recommend you not getting these tatoos for the same reason why you wish to have them done in a hidden place! That it might cause problems with your life a little later down the road. Since you don't want these tatoos effecting your Career, you should consider how they might effect your potential future relationships with any any Doms/Masters. Since you are Domless/Masterless at this point in time in your life, I would not advise branding your body with the types of humilating tatoos. You might encounter the perfect Dom/Master later down the road that will be displeased.   Some of us would rather see a tasteful artist tatoo in certain places.   Some of us Domly/Master types actually prefer to see no tatoos and would prefer to use tatoos as a means of branding even.

In short, I'd rather see your beautiful naked body and be turned on by it without being repulsed by the likes of seeing http://www.bmezine.com/news/pubring/20061028.html all over over your Tits and Ass. Seeing this Does not turn me on or exceit me one damn bit.

I have a bit of a body art fetish anyways and being able to draw upon naked bare flesh has more appeal to me. Where I get to place my own markings tempory here and there upon your body. Somebody elses permanent markings such as found on the website link ruins this for me.   Where it detracts from one of my own fetishes even.   Your Idea for this Tatoos may in fact detract from somebody elses pleasure they can take from you or wish to take from you.

My advice is for you to put off having any tatoo work done, until you are a "couple of years" into a long term relationship with a Dom/Master.   Yes, a couple of years behind a long term relationship, where you know for certain that whatever work you have done will not displease your Dom/Master.

Any Dom/Master that is into Tatoo Body Art Branding will Love and Appreciate your Virgin skin. So, keep your skin virgin for your future Dom/master.

In short your decision to get such tatoos can not only effect your future career but your future relationships. Don't expect for every Dom/Master to admire and love these cheap ass looking tatoos or find pleasure in them. If you think or believe that all Doms or Masters should embrace and accept these tatoos you have another thing coming. One of the key Aspects in D/s relationships is for the sub/slave to do thing that please the Dom/Master, not displease.

Keep your skin virgin and open to being branded or having tatoo work done later in life, in a manner to please your first Long Term relationship Dom/Master.   It will mean a lot to your Dom! In other words you are only thinking about yourself right now, and not thinking about your prosepective Dom that you are supposed to trying to please in a meaningful D/s relationship later in life.

These are my thoughts, views and opinions on this subject. I believe I'm being realistic about it...

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 3:40:07 AM

WhiplashSmile

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Another aspect to having a number of tatoos like this is that it can interfer with the illusions in certain role play activities. Where you play the role of an innocent or pure victim. Seeing Slut and Whore tatooed all your body simply shatters the theme or mood to certain types of role playing.

Another thought where having tatoos like these may effect something besides your career. They will/may have impact upon the type of BDSM role playing scenes being done in the future. These kind of tatoos can become complete turn off instead of a turn on. No matter how much your future Dom/Master may treat you like a whore/slut they might not get a charge out seeing it all over your body.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 3:45:27 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

While everyone's advice regarding being careful and waiting to get a tattoo to make sure it's really what you want is certainly good and valid, I am completely appalled at the number of people who think you need to wait for some dominant man before making this choice. A woman's body is hers to do with what she pleases and implying that because she may oneday have a dom means that she shouldn't do what makes her happy now is absurd. Other than the fact that a tattoo is permanent (and really it's not considering they can always be covered or removed) this is about as valid of an argument as telling someone not to cut or dye her hair or get her ears pierced or choose a career because her future dominant might object. Plus, if this is important to the girl and she gets it done for a reason, then likely a dom who comes along in the future who can't understand that reason would have little chance of being compatible with her.

So in all seriousness, do be careful and think about what you want, but in the end it's your choice and do it for yourself. Just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons, hopefully because it's going to be something that makes you feel good (even if humiliated) when you see it.

As one of those who made just such an "absurd" suggestion, I kinda looked at it as this being a BDSM rather than "tattoo forum" and that the woman you refer to is all of a year past being a freakin' *teenager*! And I get the feeling her own parents or other mature adult won't be sought out for any guidance here.

Nor do I share your blind faith in laser removal.... The ink may get "nuked" but let's not pretend the end result is just like there was no tattoo in the first place!

Of course I don't apologise for my own opinion that tattoos look feral and it's a poor indictment on modern society that the young seem to be conditioned to accept them as "cool" or a must have fashion accessory - sorta like smoking was 30 years ago.

Agreed it's her body to mutilate, but I'm sure as hell not gonna encourage it, esp for the reasons she's given. If she wants to humiliate herself, then be honest and get the horrible thing done where it shows because every tattooed female I see just makes me shake my head and wonder what tha hell they were thinking or taking at the time.... Isn't that close to the effect she seeks?

Disclaimer: While my prejudiced thought processes would prefer the bad habits (such as tattoos) being confined to the male of the species, yours truly has no tatts himself. I appreciate women for their soft and feminine differences and there is NOTHING sexy about women "butching themselves up" with tattoos!

Focus.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 5:14:58 AM

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Given the example that she wants to follow, which is extreme, I believe the following: if she does this without being aware of the lifelong consequences in all areas of her life then this action is stupidity, if she does it with awareness this action is self abuse. As a community I figure that we are against both stupidity and self abuse. However if it was done as part of BDSM then it could be very empowering

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 9:28:29 AM

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Part of me wonders how real this person is seeing as how she comes on here asking for advice and then shuns the advice we give her. Seems more like someone who came on here wanting to stir up controversy and see how many responses they could get.

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 11:39:16 AM

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... kind of off topic but the thread brought back the memory of one stripper at a place I was bouncer/doorman for a while.
Said lady had a small, the size of a quarter, celtic knot just above her bustline. If you looked close, it was ornate calligraphy in a circle with a message.
The message: "If you can read this you are too damned close"

Stefan

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 11:50:01 AM

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To be truly humiliating, wouldn't the tattoos need to be something that you would never choose for yourself? They may state what a slut and whore you may be, but they would be chosen by someone else--Master, Dom/me, Daddy

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 1:23:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pauliestl

Part of me wonders how real this person is seeing as how she comes on here asking for advice and then shuns the advice we give her. Seems more like someone who came on here wanting to stir up controversy and see how many responses they could get.

If so the plan failed. The responses have been amazingly uniform. I don't think it matters if the OP is real or not, either way this thread is helpful in the process of we as individuals and we as a community pondering where we draw the line between humiliation and abuse (to include self abuse).

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 1:26:53 PM

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My first master never wanted to mar my body with extra holes or tats . He loved the fact my blank canvas was his , only the temp redness of a good spanking showed .
My second master on the other hand wanted to tat me up and put holes all over the place ,with alot of thought on my part i made body modification a hard limit .
I have a slave friend who's been in the lifestyle a long time and has had many masters . She told me the other day" damn i'm running out of room to put the mark of my new master "maybe he'll accept the sole of my foot ? we laughed but it was reality she regrets alot of her tats and stands by me being a blank canvas .
Here's my fear having one of my relatives having to look at my cold lifeless body and seeing my ink .I know why care but I do
I must add I think tats can be beautiful art and a rare mark of special circumstance my personal preference is not to get any.
I've had open heart surgery and felt once i would tat over my scar but having that surgery makes me prone to infections. ~~~Doll

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RE: Tattoos - 5/15/2007 2:51:58 PM

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Doll, I have also had open heart surgery but never thought about covering it with a tattoo. I am not sure how big your scar is but for mine it would take a very large breast piece to cover the whole thing. I have one tattoo on my lower back but it is a design that I chose for myself. And it is always a personal choice whether to have piercings or tattoos and everyone has set their limits where they feel comfortable. I myself would set a limit on any body art that is visible...I prefer to have all mine coverable. With my job, I like to keep a clean cut image.

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