soultoshare
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My son got fractions in the 3rd grade, i never saw them until like the 6th grade. They are starting kids on the basics too early when they don't retain what they learn. As far as teaching skills, i don't remember seeing him get a reading assignment from school at all. Trust me, I tried to instill a love of book with him as an infant, we'd read, I'd get him books on thing that interested him, but alas, once he dscovered sports, the reading went by the wayside. I read voraciously, i'll even re-read my favorite books....I've worn out two copies of The Stand by Steven King, and Rose Madder is looking a tad worn. The objection I have about schools today is that instead of teaching the basics of math, they are teaching kids to use the calcualtor instead. I bought one for my son when he was in the 8th grade....damn thing must have had 30 buttons on it.....I'd need a college semester class just to figure out how to turn the thing on! But ny son could use it very easily. I once asked him what he'd do if his batteries died during a test....he said "No problem, Mom, we all carry extra batteries!" HE WAS SERIOUS! Another luxury is the computer and all the equipment with it. I started out with WebTV...yes, I know, ancient....but anyway, the first time my son saw it, he was looking around, I asked him what he was looking for, he said the printer! When I told him he'd have to use a pencil and paper, he looked at me like i had another head on my shoulder! Today's kids have NO idea how to use something as simple as an encyclopedia...remember using research BOOKS in school to do reports? And pens and longhand? Then there were the old manual typewriters that you used if you wanted extra credit on the report......in our high school, you couldn't use the electric typewriters unless you had taken typing 2. I was lucky because I worked for the Biology teacher, he had an electric typewriter.....but no delete keys! Had the typewriter eraser that usually ripped a hole in your paper. Oh my.....how far we have come....? I know teachers are seriously overworked and underpaid. The disparity of the economics involved in the school systems is a tangible problem. Added to that, you have teachers teaching 2 or 3 different classes at a time. I'm a big proponenet of year round school.....teachers spend the first month just trying to get the kids to remember the last year. Anyone who can take on thetitle of teacher deserves NOTHING but respect, they definitely aren't in it for the money, so you know they do it for the love of the job. And as it was stated, parents need to take steps in working with their kids too, granted, I couldn't help my son with his math (my worst subject!), but i could still do the Science and English. If nothing else, it helped us build a bond that I don't see in many parents and kids anymore. Even tho he's in IL, and I'm here in AZ, he knows that he can talk to me about anything, and I won't judge him, or criticize him. I cherish that relationship more than any other I have. well, there's my .02. m
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