What are your biggest turn offs?

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PrincessEllie -> What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 1:27:42 PM)
I've seen a whole lot of topics about what people want from their Dom/mes or subbies, but I don't think I've seen one about what turns you away from a prospective partner. What are the top things physically that make you unattracted? What are the mental things that turn you off to a person? For me: Physical- I really dislike excessive body hair [and I mean really excessive], as well as any sort of flab. It sounds a bit hoitytoity, but looking at fat really does make me nauseous. Mental- I hate stupidity when it is an overarching theme and not just an occasional lapse of judgement. I also dislike when Doms don't listen to what I say just because they're Dominant and they think they're above criticism. [If this is a repeat thread, I'm terribly sorry.]

AAkasha -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 1:30:32 PM)
Poor hygeine, desperation and a lack of self worth. Akasha

MsKatHouston -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 1:44:45 PM)
Physically: Poor hygeine, obese Mentally: stupidity, poor manners, lack of self control, total arrogance, no personality, dull, no sense of humor, dishonesty

amaidiamond -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 1:46:26 PM)
Physically - Poor Hygine, very Obese, Lots of Body hair Mentally - Stupidity!

mnottertail -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 1:47:39 PM)
shit!!!!! I ain't gonna get me alotta girls out here then. Ron

amaidiamond -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 1:49:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail shit!!!!! I ain't gonna get me alotta girls out here then. Ron Awww Ron, I love ya!

PrincessEllie -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 1:53:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail shit!!!!! I ain't gonna get me alotta girls out here then. Ron Don't be so down, you're bound to find some hottie who'll love you!

ImperatorMaximus -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 2:03:37 PM)
Poor hygeine, very very over weight, bad eating habits and being rude to like the waitress or his mother grrr... Snobbish behavor or being just plain stupid. also if the words "get r done" ever pop out of his mouth, I'm running for the hills.

drawntothedark -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 2:05:23 PM)
ooops above comment was me blushes I was checking my Dom's account for him and for some reason it logged me in here too. GRRRR!!!

Tuomas -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 2:47:07 PM)
I generally find that physical attributes vary a lot according to personality, i.e. certain physical traits on some people will bother me, but on others with a different personality I find cute. I'm weird. Physical: Poor hygene. All-round, everyone agrees upon thing. Personality: Idiocy, in any of it's more prevailant forms. Unwilling to better themselves...

sleeptalker -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 2:53:21 PM)
Excessive laughter, police raids... usual stuff

littlesarbonn -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 3:25:25 PM)
Stupidity, but not the generic sense that I think a lot of previous posters are stating. The turn off for me is not because someone is not intelligent but because someone has no desire to learn more and thinks he or she knows everything that is needed to know. These are the sort of people who will argue over any subject, even if they know very little about it or read a synopsis of an article about the topic. These are the sort of people you see rolling their eyes because an actual intelligent response is too much work. These are the sort of people who make snap judgments of others based on stereotypes of others who they stereotyped before you. Physical: I'm generally turned off by excessive piercings. Yeah, I know a lot of people in our community have them, but at some point they become a bit much for me. They seem to exude a sense of "yes, I'm much cooler than you" and I'm comfortable enough with myself to realize that most people are cooler than I am, so I don't need a billboard trouncing that fact.

MsLadySue -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 3:27:17 PM)
Physically: shorter than me, excessive body hair, obese Mentally: stupidity, can't/won't carry on an intelligent conversation

daddysliloneds -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 3:34:59 PM)
physical turn-offs: body piercings mental turn-offs: blatant ignorance

JennyWench -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 3:35:30 PM)
Physically = bad hygeine, comb-overs (bald is hot, being in denial isn't), lots of body ink. Mentally/Emotionally = willful ignorance, intolerance, and (my all time favorite because I just a dump a Dom because of this) coldness and not being affectionate..

slaveish -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 3:37:10 PM)
Turn offs ... hm. Physically, I can't really think of anything if I have bonded with this person on a mental and emotional level. Otherwise, excessive and ridiculous control (constant and needless micromanagement) irritate me. Lack of consistency pisses me off. Lack of clarity will do it. Closed-mindedness. Refusal to learn anything from anyone (or worse, from one's own mistakes).

MsKatHouston -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 3:40:19 PM)
quote: Stupidity, but not the generic sense that I think a lot of previous posters are stating. For me, the stupidity I referred to was precisely how you put it.

domiguy -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 3:40:52 PM)
Someone who chew with their mouth open....Bad breath. In general unmodelesue attributes....And maybe one of those pussies with labia so huge and extended that you think you are visiting a deli when ever she removes her undies.

mstrjx -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 3:43:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PrincessEllie quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail shit!!!!! I ain't gonna get me alotta girls out here then. Ron Don't be so down, you're bound to find some hottie who'll love you! Miracles 'can' occur. Even without the Wizard of Oz. Jeff P.S. For what it's worth.... Smoking is my #1 or #2 turn-off.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: What are your biggest turn offs? (5/14/2007 3:44:07 PM)
physical - no skinny/rail thin men (i like guys with some meat on their bones) mental - arrogant, ignorant, egotistical, too hung up on race, under 30 (sorry but if you're the same age as my younger brothers, we have nothing in common), immature, lack of intelligence, no proper command of the english language and having no interests/hobbies outside BDSM . of course what others have said - poor hygeine, poor manners, etc.

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