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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 8:16:18 PM   
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With all her money I wonder why she chooses to live in S. Calif?

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 8:38:46 PM   
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With all her money I wonder why she chooses to live in S. Calif?


I do not know if you have ever been here (at least the pretty places) but parts of So Cal are heart pounding beautiful. Every day I spend down there with my Daddy is a day I soak in all the beauty.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 8:47:02 PM   
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The thing though with Paris is that she is doing exactly what 90% of girls would do in her shoes. You give a girl $200 million dollars and I asure you she will go on a shopping spree and buy every thing she possibly can without any care of the cost. And if you had all that attention and fame, are you telling me you wouldn't go out and party? I mean...come on...be honest here.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 8:50:11 PM   
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Maybe it's cause it's late and I'm tired, but I'm not following you, CD.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 8:51:05 PM   
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Wonder why she never paid someone to drive her around. She could have avoided the trouble. She didn't think that through.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 8:52:23 PM   
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Maybe it's cause it's late and I'm tired, but I'm not following you, CD.


I think that some people are jealous of her. That's my point.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 8:53:29 PM   
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With all her money I wonder why she chooses to live in S. Calif?


I do not know if you have ever been here (at least the pretty places) but parts of So Cal are heart pounding beautiful. Every day I spend down there with my Daddy is a day I soak in all the beauty.


I agree parts of So Cal are very beautiful. I always enjoyed it.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 9:02:00 PM   
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Maybe it's cause it's late and I'm tired, but I'm not following you, CD.


I think that some people are jealous of her. That's my point.


No doubt.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 9:11:45 PM   
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Yes she is enormously wealthy but has a total disregard as to the law.  She didn't even bother to read her sentance to her previous offense.  To me this is a total disregard for the law.  She is not superior based on her wealth and she thought she was.  Hell my parents are wealthy and guess what i know i have to believe and follow the law.


I'm not certain that she actually ever comprehended the law in the first place; now, this is of course not considered an excuse in most countries (which is why a guy up here just came back from his holiday in Iran with 100 lashes from a cable and needed days in the hospital and will still need weeks to heal up).

As for not reading her sentence, it could be that she's overreliant on the people around her to do that kind of thing for her (interpret the real world), or simply that she's clueless.

I don't think it's necessarily fair to assume that she thought she was superior.

"Never attribute to malice what can adequately be explained by incompetence."

That, and I have a total disregard for the law myself, except insofar as I consider there to be a risk of getting caught and that affecting anything I care about. I go by my own ethics instead; the law is too fickle and capricaceous (sp?) for me.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 9:13:33 PM   
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Sir it has nothing to do with being wealthy or not.  It is basically respect for the law which she thinks she is above.


No need to quote recursively, minnetar.

Anyway, I wasn't saying the topic should have anything to do with being wealthy. I was pointing out that the poster I replied to had, as I saw it, implied that it did have a bearing, either on the case, or on whether Paris was to be pitied or not. I saw it as relevant to neither of those.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 9:20:22 PM   
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Fuck Paris Hilton....She should be the poster child for all that is wrong with America...It's not illegal immigration, the war in Iraq,  or the looming threat of terrorism....It is the fact that more people know her by name than could point to the Middle East on a map.  Whether this skinny, talentless cunt lives or dies is of no concern to the real Americans of this proud land, like myself.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 9:25:12 PM   
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The fact that she is rich and spoiled has little to do with it, IMO. I think you are sugesting she recieve special treatment in regards to jail, because she is who she is.


No, I'm saying that giving a $100 fine to a guy that makes $1K a month and to a guy that makes $1M a month isn't equality in regards to the law, but in fact special treatment. Just along those same lines, I think you'll find that slapping some random person in jail for 45 days will be a lesser risk than if you, instead of a random person, choose someone who essentially has a "kick me"-sign (or worse) on their back in the minds of the people.

I'm not for special treatment for the rich. Quite the opposite. Which swings both ways.

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Her fear, anxiety and trauma is no different than the same fear, anxiety and trauma I would experience if I were ever sentenced to jail time and no one is going to give me a special deal. I face the same risks she does if I go to jail.


I'm not talking about her worries. I'm talking about the more objective ones. I know a few people (not my choice) who would not give you a hard time if you were behind bars, but would be more than likely to give Ms. Hilton the "grand tour", and I doubt they're the only ones in that regard.

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I have absolutely no sympahty for her. I have a friend who was sentenced and served 6 months in jail for driving on a suspended liscense. Not DUI, not driving to endanger, not reckless driving. Pulled over in Boston because the cops recognized him from years ago when he had a drug problem. He, I felt sympathy for, not Ms. Hilton.


Hey, I've had friends lose their licence permanently for reckless driving (in the 120-200mph range past a traffic photo box in a 40mph zone in one instance), and I've no sympathy for that. If they owed money to someone in jail, I might be more sympathetic. Same thing if someone in jail hated their guts up front, which kind of applies.

Just before I met neph ... a friend and crush of mine was hit from behind.

DUI and DOA.

Brain dead, at least. They kept her on life-support until the parents could fly over and say their goodbyes, under the condition that the hospital got to harvest her organs.

I take DUI pretty seriously, also in Ms. Hilton's case.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 9:28:05 PM   
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Just because the rest of us do not feel sorry for her don't whine to me. And hello! the smiley is meant to be sarcastic. Go bug someone else.


Oh, sorry, my mistake.

I misread your post, then, for which I apologize.

If you could do me the kindness of pointing such out in the future without resorting to "whine", "bug someone else", etc., I'd be very grateful.

P.S. That's a sarcastic smiley, IIRC.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 9:34:14 PM   
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I think you need to consider a different angle. Perhaps peoples feelings towards paris hilton have nothing to do with money, and everything to do with behaviour? I'm not an American, but from what I've seen of the culture paris hilton seems to fit the Jerry Springer white trash label, if her family didn't have money?


Yeah. I misread things, for which I apologized.

Cultural difference.

Up here, people bitch about it whenever someone makes it big, and they always make them out to be the "bad guys", regardless of their actual behavior.

I just ended up transposing that interpretation erroneously.

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What would give you the idea he had provided for his offspring to the best of his ability? She seems far to spoilt and bratty to have been provided for with any ability?


Well, we don't know that this isn't as well as she could turn out, do we. (Yes, that was me indulging in a bit of Paris-bashing, too. ).

The point was irrelevant, as it was yet another faux pas, regarding how people up here always hold inherited money to be "worse" than earned money. Again, my mistake.

Quite as an aside, I just read the WP article, which claims he didn't leave her any money, originally, which might be "dad trying to do right by his girl" by bringing her down to earth for a while. Apparently, a lawyer got involved and had the will overturned or something. That's distasteful, IMO.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 9:59:30 PM   
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1. a rather nasty idea? i don't understand that statement at all. the jail is not there only for offenders that are poor. i dont think people who break the law should be punished differently just because they have money. this isnt about giving her a "step down" from the glamorous life she is used to, its about punishing her for breaking the law.




What I was trying to get across, was that people shouldn't be punished any harsher for having money, either, not that she should be punished less. And putting her in a regular jail is just begging for something "above and beyond" to happen, which is "harsher".

Is equality issuing a fine of $100 to a guy making $1K/mo and a guy making $1M/mo for the same offense, or making it $100 and $100.000, respectively? The former is an equal measure, the latter is an equal punishment. Which swings both ways.

More importantly, the latter is an equal discouragement.

Which is what the law should be all about, IMO. Punishments should be a means to an end, or else you're just feeding the downward spiral. What has been said for violence in this regard, equally applies to jail.

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2. do you honestly believe that the wardens would treat her in any way that the law does not allow? dont you think if she was treated in any way that was inapproperate she would be on the phone to her father? in fact i Highly doubt she would be in the general public at any time.


First off, it's not exactly unheard of (some would claim it is, in fact, common) for wardens to overstep the boundaries of the law.

Second, keeping her from the general public of the jail is the only thing I was getting at. I just didn't realize that US prisons had the capacity to do that, except through solitary confinement, which is, again, worse than regular jail in the general case.

Third, her father is dead, though I'm guessing her lawyer would substitute.

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3. i think it will improve her attitude that she is above the law.


I'm not sure she has any real awareness of the law, and how it applies to her, and I don't think this is going to correct that. If the actual problem is that she regards herself as above the law, however, it might correct that, granted.

However, if one wants to go after the "above the law" attitude, the place to start is busting Hollywood stars getting high off the "good stuff", rather than the small-time people that are the current focus of law enforcement world-wide.

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4. i dont find that to be justice at all. it isnt about making her happy. the goal of punishment is not to make the offender happy.


First off, I consider punishment a tool of a judicial system, not a goal (I think I erroneously said "justice system" first time around). "Justice" is too abstract and vague a term to go into here, IMHO. Society should be concerned with prevention, not retaliation.

Second, I never said the goal should be to make her happy. I said the goal should be to make her not repeat the offense.

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5. on one hand i feel bad for anyone who is experiencing anything unpleasant. on the other hand untill the system is changed All should face the same consequences for their actions.


I can certainly sympathize with feeling bad for anyone experiencing anything unpleasant. I myself feel bad for any being experiencing something unpleasant that they did not give informed consent to up front, to the point where swatting a wasp is a problem for me.

However, I don't think the right way to go is to say that everyone should face the same consequences. Let's say the punishment was chopping off their right hand instead. A person missing their right hand would then never be treated equally to one who didn't. Equality, to my mind, is equal impact (straight equality), or equal deterrent (equal preventative effect).

I've never meant to state or imply, in any way, shape or form, that some people are above the law, or conversely that a law should only apply to some people. It is my firm position that, provided the law is handled in a manner similar to what is typical in western societies today, it should apply to all citizens, regardless of status.

Hope that clears things up somewhat.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 10:02:09 PM   
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I'm such a bleeding heart, I feel sorry for just about anyone going to jail, though I recognize some people do pretty hideous things to get there.


Nothing wrong with having a bleeding heart.

Cherish and nurture it. They are quick to wilt, and restoring them is hard work.

As to what people do to get to jail, that varies, and the conditions leading to it will vary as well, but this debate isn't about any specific prison systems per se, although I do think rearing and social factors apply to the debate.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 10:04:37 PM   
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I do not know if you have ever been here (at least the pretty places) but parts of So Cal are heart pounding beautiful. Every day I spend down there with my Daddy is a day I soak in all the beauty.


There's definitely some nice scenery on your side of the atlantic. If some political and judicial matters were different, I'd consider moving. Of course, that's just wishful thinking, so I might as well hope for the same in Japan, and get a cottage in one of their sacred forests.

Ever seen the scenery around the museum modelled after the story of Peach Blossom Valley?

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 10:05:51 PM   
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And if you had all that attention and fame, are you telling me you wouldn't go out and party? I mean...come on...be honest here.


Honestly? I think I'd crawl under a rock somewhere, with a portable TV, and wait for my face to stop showing up all over the place. Then again, I'm not much for the kind of parties she appears to enjoy.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 10:07:53 PM   
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Wonder why she never paid someone to drive her around. She could have avoided the trouble. She didn't think that through.


Seems to me that not thinking things through is the problem, and quite possibly the only problem in this case. Not saying I like her persona, as portrayed by the media; quite far from it.

But I really don't think she had a clue what she did was wrong, and I don't think it's got anything to do with feeling she is "above" the law, just not "getting" it.

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RE: Paris Hilton Is `Distraught' And `Traumatized' Over... - 5/15/2007 10:11:56 PM   
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Fuck Paris Hilton....


Mind if I don't?

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She should be the poster child for all that is wrong with America [...] It is the fact that more people know her by name than could point to the Middle East on a map.


I'd definitely tend to agree with this point.

Don't think it's local to America, though. It may be just another facet of the human condition, or it may be something that's inherent in western culture, or maybe it started there and then spread through the global media.

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Whether this skinny, talentless cunt lives or dies is of no concern to the real Americans of this proud land, like myself.


I'm inclined to quote "For Whom The Bell Tolls" (no, not the Metallica song), but given that I fail to see how her loss would be ... well, a loss ... I guess that might be a waste of space.

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