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Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/15/2007 7:15:36 PM

MzMia

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Okay, I answered one of the 5 threads going about outfits, clothes, etc.
I was talking about this last week in the chatroom here on CM.
I was stating that if I usually dress for the submissive who is in charge here?
I am not talking about women that desire to wear fetish wear a lot because THEY like it.
I am talking about women that FEEL they should or need to wear it because their submissive likes it.
I have no problem with giving a submissive a wardrobe "treat" now and then, especially for good behavior
and really good service.
But, I have never felt compelled to dress to please a submissive.
I have a demanding career and a very busy and hectic real life, when I come home, I often shower and put on
my nightgown and slippers.
This ain't going change on the day that I collar and gain a live in submissive.
I am not in this lifestyle feeling I must dress in costumes or put on performances on a day to day basis.
When I get a submissive it will be just like when I got married.
What you see is what you are going to fucking get.
You damn sight better love me no matter what I wear.
I am curious, who dresses totally for herself around here, or do you feel you need to dress up to please a
submissive?
And, IF you live with a submissive and you manage to dress up on a daily basis, my hat is off to you!

Especially those that live with their submissives, it is a lot easier to play dress up when you do not live 24/7.
We all know that when we are "dating" we go out of our way to look our best all the time, and honey that does
change when you live with someone.

For some strange reason, I can't think of many Dominant men that put on leather pants or dress up around the
house on a daily basis.
I don't see this as a right or wrong question, just curious and wondering if I am the only casual, laid back,
comfy cozy slippers Dominant woman around here?
My dream these days is to have floggers that match my slippers.

< Message edited by MzMia -- 5/15/2007 7:19:45 PM >

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/15/2007 7:25:56 PM

LadyPact

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MzMia, nope, you're not. Personally, I love fetish wear, but I also love lingerie for the softer side of Me. The thing is, I wear what I feel I'm in the mood for, even if that's just a silk robe.... and definitely the slippers! (Especially true with no boy at My feet, because they get cold.) I even own a (control the shock) pair of sweatpants that I've been known to wear once in a while. Ok, so it's once in a GREAT while, but I still do it.

I agree with the "hat's off" to anyone who can be top dressed every minute of every day. Personally, I know My feet were meant to have both heel and toe on the floor once in a while, not always in high heels. I'm not a big t-shirt person, but every once in a while, it's great to just throw on something comfortable, and I think the right submissive will appreciate the difference.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/15/2007 7:33:13 PM

MzMia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

MzMia, nope, you're not. Personally, I love fetish wear, but I also love lingerie for the softer side of Me. The thing is, I wear what I feel I'm in the mood for, even if that's just a silk robe.... and definitely the slippers! (Especially true with no boy at My feet, because they get cold.) I even own a (control the shock) pair of sweatpants that I've been known to wear once in a while. Ok, so it's once in a GREAT while, but I still do it.

I agree with the "hat's off" to anyone who can be top dressed every minute of every day. Personally, I know My feet were meant to have both heel and toe on the floor once in a while, not always in high heels. I'm not a big t-shirt person, but every once in a while, it's great to just throw on something comfortable, and I think the right submissive will appreciate the difference.

The RIGHT submissive has no fucking choice BUT to accept it.
OMG, the sweat pants! LOL I happen to collect pajama's so I have a lot of them.
I have a lot of cute flannel pants and matching tops.
Now, sweat pants? I am going to report you to the Dominant womens patrol fashion police!
JK, I am glad you are free and feel comfortable wearing whatever the hell you want to wear.
After I typed this, I realized that I would NOT have typed this if I was 15 years younger.
But at this stage of the game I want to be comfortable, happy, healthy and live to be 99.
My home is my santuary, and I love to float and be comfortable as I run around.
...mumbling...sweat pants is just wrong......

< Message edited by MzMia -- 5/15/2007 8:08:13 PM >

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/15/2007 7:37:49 PM

LadyPact

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<Laughs> And what's worse.... They are really old sweatpants. I've had them forever, because they only make it out of the closet every now and then.

I realized after I typed the above that My new purple flogger actyally does match My purple fuzzy slippers! AHA!

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/15/2007 7:52:26 PM

MzMia

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I don't expect many answers on this thread, but I am soooo laughing my ass off.
Actually, wearing old sweat pants would be a great punishment, make him worship them!
Sweat pants domination!
LMAO

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 2:41:00 AM

LadyEllen

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I thought sweatpants, along with those shell suit things had been banned under UN resolution 736/05?

Mind you I should talk. 3-99 jeans from Tesco, 1-99 T-shirt from Tesco and some old, old shoes that are so comfy it should be a crime; just a shame they have holes in them LOL!

Dressing up is special, and it wouldnt be if it were every day.

E

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 2:52:52 AM

LadyPact

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Lady E, what can I say, I am rouge. I'm sure they will kick Me out of the club. <laughs>

MzMia, don't worry about the thread not getting a lot of responses. A lot of the crowd can't handle the idea of a Domme who might not literally spend morning, noon, and night, 365 days a year in fetish wear. When you find the ones that can.... they are worth having. And, like Lady E said, if it was done ALL of the time, it wouldn't be special anymore.

Edited because I can't spell before morning caffeine. Where are those boys with My diet pepsi?

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 2:58:02 AM

farieanne

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Ok i'm not a Domme so i hope You don't mind my input. One of my "jobs" is when my Master comes home i am to have His shower ready. That means the towel out His clean undies, t-shirt, and PJ pants, and water warm and ready. It does not bother me in the least that He dresses comfy in the house. i like it and i like that i can help make Him comfortable. He does not put to many dress codes in the house on me either other than clean, neat, and no shoes.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 3:05:23 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

My dream these days is to have floggers that match my slippers.

Thats done it ! Now i have a visual of shops full of matching slippers and flogger sets, in the shops at Christmas time.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 4:34:34 AM

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Hi MzMia I posted on the other thread that I sometimes dress in domme attire for my boy becasue I like to see the look on his face when Im dressed like that. I would add though that thats for my benefit not his primarily. I love to see the look on his face and when I see that it makes me feel good.

I guess its my way of teasing him. If i really want something from him I like to go at it in full force Its just another tool to get what I want

I definatly dress to please myself. My boy has a weird phobia of buttons

lol I thought he was winding me up till I saw a program about people with the same phobia and I still wear clothes with loads on if I want because I will wear what I want when I want it and he has two choices!!!
I take my hat off to others too that spend their days in full regalia, I imagine it must be uncomfortable and boring after a while.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 5:08:42 AM

Lashra

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My daily wear consists of jeans, athletic shoes and a shirt of some kind. This is nearly every single day. I hate skirts/dresses and the last time I wore one was on my wedding day and that was years ago! I have dress slacks and dress pant suits for dress up meetings/occasions.
Once I get home I get on my pj's or nightie and I am barefoot. My sub knows this and happily accepts the fact that I am comfortable. When we play sometimes I dress up and sometimes I do not, it just depends upon my mood at the time.

~Lashra

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 5:53:32 AM

DommeChains

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Well, I do have crocs that match my floggers lol. They are my version of fuzzy slippers. And, yep, I have worn my black crocs to parties and events. The only comments I got were kewl idea and I bet your feet are comfortable.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 6:03:14 AM

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When I dress, I dress for the occasion, myself and my man in that order. I do sometimes take into consideration his preferences when dressing especially if I am really wanting to get him all hot and bothered. Mostly I dress and choose outfits when shopping based on my own personal taste and style. I always dress to suit the occasion. If I am at home, going nowhere sweat pants, shorts, jammies work for me. If I am going to a business function, suit. Play party fetishy wear.

I definitely do not dress up on a daily basis and the times I dress specifically to play are only a small percentage of the time. Aside from the times that are based around a particular event, play is usually a bit more impromptu or going to happen after we have done something else like a day on the town or dinner. I will play wearing whatever it is I am at the time and that is typically not fetish wear. Besides, it all usually comes off eventually anyway.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 6:13:28 AM

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Usually if I want to "dress up" for my slave, I just put on a set of kitty ears cause he loves catgirls.

Otherwise I dress for me.

It feels very powerful to have a big strong man go down and kiss my teddy bear slippers.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 6:17:23 AM

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Hi MzMia and everyone,

I’m a funnel pj bottom, sweat pants person. I get home and put them on. Would I dress up for someone? Yes, but it would have my comfort in mind and it would be for a special day.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 6:20:19 AM

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quote:

It feels very powerful to have a big strong man go down and kiss my teddy bear slippers.

It does. Insert Eeyore slippers for me and I am right there with ya.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 6:45:52 AM

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I dress up for parties. At home I'm a T shirt and shorts kind of girl...except mornings which I'm a big terry cloth rob kind of gal.
But I don't dress up in fetish clothing all the time.
And my slave has to understand that he's not getting a barbie doll to dress up. He's long since learned not to buy me fetish clothing. If he wants to buy a D/s thing he buys me toys. Clothing is not something he gets to buy.

But when I play...I play naked. I like to feel their skin, I like them to feel mine. Which is where I prefer to play at home rather than at parties (don't go naked at parties)

Just my two cents.
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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 6:56:31 AM

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I do love leather but am not into special fetish wear or costumey stuff. I dress as I wish, when I wish.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 7:02:39 AM

MsSonnetMarwood

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I'm strictly comfort at home. Otherwise, I'm a college student, so it's mostly jeans, pullover shirts, flip flops or loafers (I don't care to wear sneakers other than at work).

I have a couple corsets and the like, but the only time I really wear them is for large fetish events.

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RE: Any other comfy, cozy bedroom slippers Dominant women? - 5/16/2007 7:46:12 AM

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As soon as I get home from work it's off with everything and on with either a long t-shirt or short nightgown. In the winter I perfer mens sleeping pants and a t-shirt and my pink fuzzy slippers.

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