GoddessDustyGold
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Joined: 4/11/2004 From: Arizona Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: lovetokissnylons Tigress, if you'd be willing to reply, it would be interesting to know why you've decided that way. What was it that they did consistently (or didn't ?) that turned you off ? Might be a lesson in this for some of us, if only to learn how to better get our own way. Thank you, I cannot answer for Tigress, but I wil answer for Myself, and perhaps that will give you one perspective. I am often contact by boys who wish to be feminized or insist that this is the way they want to live their life, even 24/7. I personaly have nothing against cross dressers, and even teach a class for those who wish to learn, or to participate in a safe environment. But as a relationship, it is not for Me. Because... These boys have tied an idea of submission directly into beign dressed as a female, being humiliated as a female, and being (oftentimes) forced into this situation. I do not consider this submission. I consider it a deep seated fetish that is sexually arousing to the boy, and has little or nothign to do with the participating FemDom. Everything revolves around being dressed, being made up, and even beign bejeweled as a female. In addition, it is usuallycionsidered exciting inthe sense that it is demeaning, and I do not care to see femininity being used as a from of humiliation. I love being Feminine, I am proud to be feminine, and I do not like it when boys think that being feminized is a thrill because it is humiliating to their manhood. It is a slap in the face, in My opinion, to the Female Gender. If I have a 24/7 live-in salve, I would certainly, at times, incorporate some feminzation play at times, when it might amuse Me. But to have to do this, all the time, because this is the only way the boy will submit...well, he is not submitting. It is just a lot of work for Me, because he won't even do it by himself, because it give him personal pleasure. I have to support him, permit him, and assist him in this fetish, on a constant basis. As you said yourself... quote:
Might be a lesson in this for some of us, if only to learn how to better get our own way. Bet you didn't even realize you put it that way...yet this is the least submissive thing of all.
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Dusty They that give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety B Franklin Don't blame Me ~ I didn't vote for either of them The Hidden Kingdom
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