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ORIGINAL: Valyraen

..... Having someone being constantly obedient or constantly a pain in my ass gets old and boring, not to mention very irritating. Besides, people are people and need to be able to express themselves in changes of mood and projection... there're plenty of human robots out there already.

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ORIGINAL: cherishedgirl
i was wondering if You would rather have a good sub/slave or brat?

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

I cannot stand brattiness.  However, I want a woman who is not only my intellectual equal but who has the ability to engage me on that level in CIVIL discourse, and by ability I mean not only intellectual horsepower but the verbal skills and confidence to express herself clearly.  I want a woman other men lust for not because of her fine ass but because she just knocked their socks off in a conversation about a subject they thought they knew.  I want a woman who can spot when I am being inconsistent or otherwise full of shit and call me on it respectfully.  I want a woman who can challenge my ideas and make me reexamine them and or look at them from a different perspective.  In short, I want a woman who enriches my life not just engorges my cock.

Lucky bastard that I am, my woman offers all that to me and more!

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ORIGINAL: cherishedgirl

Hello Sir's/Ma'am's ...

i am new to this site, but not to the lifestyle.
i was wondering if You would rather have a good sub/slave or brat?

i am not sure which i am sometimes i am really good and other times, i am a PITA...

all answers would be very welcome

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ORIGINAL: sabba

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ORIGINAL: Valyraen

..... Having someone being constantly obedient or constantly a pain in my ass gets old and boring, not to mention very irritating. Besides, people are people and need to be able to express themselves in changes of mood and projection... there're plenty of human robots out there already.

greetings Master Valyraen;

Why does being constantly obedient have to mean boring? A slave can be obedient, yet still maintain her intelligence, wit, charm, charisma, etc. Pleasing her master should be the number one goal, but no one said that one has to be boring or emotionless to do so. When a slave disobeys her master, especially on purpose for "punishment" it's really a plea for attention. Are there realy slaves who set out to disobey? Being obedient just means that the girl is following her master's instructions, and isn't that what all slaves should do?

well wishes,
sabba{CB}

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Disobeying to get a "punishment" isn't always a plea for attention. Sometimes, and always in our relationship, it's an invite to play and a way of alerting him that I'm "in the mood". If he doesn't want to play, I get ignored, told to do something else, or, if I persist, sent to the corner. If he does, then we both have great fun as he "punishes" me for how "bad" I was. 

And no, masters don't get the crotch-reading power of always knowing when their pet is in the mood for playtime.

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ORIGINAL: sabba

greetings Master Valyraen;

Why does being constantly obedient have to mean boring? A slave can be obedient, yet still maintain her intelligence, wit, charm, charisma, etc. Pleasing her master should be the number one goal, but no one said that one has to be boring or emotionless to do so. When a slave disobeys her master, especially on purpose for "punishment" it's really a plea for attention. Are there realy slaves who set out to disobey? Being obedient just means that the girl is following her master's instructions, and isn't that what all slaves should do?

well wishes,
sabba{CB}

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ORIGINAL: Valyraen

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ORIGINAL: sabba

greetings Master Valyraen;

Why does being constantly obedient have to mean boring? A slave can be obedient, yet still maintain her intelligence, wit, charm, charisma, etc. Pleasing her master should be the number one goal, but no one said that one has to be boring or emotionless to do so. When a slave disobeys her master, especially on purpose for "punishment" it's really a plea for attention. Are there realy slaves who set out to disobey? Being obedient just means that the girl is following her master's instructions, and isn't that what all slaves should do?

well wishes,
sabba{CB}

Sabba,

It doesn't, and by no means was I saying that such is the case for everyone. It is for me, though... like I said in my previous post on this thread, I'm a happy guy when Aqua flashes me some sass, or manages to pop off a zinger and shrink my head back down small enough to fit into my hats. I don't have any interest in maintaining a relationship with someone who doesn't challenge me, and I don't see any fun in a relationship with someone who won't do anything but what I tell her to. To be honest, I don't always want Aqua to obey... Hell, if I wanted that, I'd train a puppy, not a submissive! I thrive on the dynamic that our relationship provides, as does she, and part of that dynamic is the fact that I encourage her to question - especially to question me.

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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

But is being a brat the way to do it? Being a feisty and spirited is totally different

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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

That didn't answer the question. I dont care of others definitions. Being feisty is different than being defiant and disobedient. I'm sure you know.

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

That didn't answer the question. I don't care of others definitions. Being feisty is different than being defiant and disobedient. I'm sure you know.

That's the best answer I think you will ever get. Someone will view my playful sassing of Valyraen and ask "Why do you tolerate such bratty behavior?". The answer is that he doesn't view it as as bratty.

I know what my definitions of feisty and bratty are. Yours may be considerably different.