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pinksugarsub -> Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 1:57:18 PM)
Can a Dom/me really be F/friends with a subbie or slave when He's/She's interested in more and she/he is not?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 2:03:38 PM)
Yes, though only if the "more interest" dies down.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 2:08:53 PM)
For me anyone who refers to themselves or others as subbies is someone who I would run away from.

earthycouple -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 2:13:20 PM)
Absolutely if everyone is honest with each other and themselves....and I agree with Michael....ewwwww.....subbie?

swtnsparkling -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 2:52:00 PM)
absolutely

HisSongstress -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 2:55:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael For me anyone who refers to themselves or others as subbies is someone who I would run away from. (I'm glad I am not the only one that doesn't like this term...)

pinksugarsub -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 2:55:32 PM)
i mustv'e missed the last memo. What on earth is wrong with "subbie"? BTW, i'd really like more of the thoughtful, reflective replies. Thankies.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 2:56:54 PM)
Pink nothing is wrong with it, just many people find it irritating, diminutive and stupid. Many don't. You've been hanging online long enough to know that and you've been through this before so stop acting surprised or offended.

HisSongstress -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 2:57:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub Can a Dom/me really be F/friends with a subbie or slave when He's/She's interested in more and she/he is not? I hope so....

earthycouple -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 2:57:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub i mustv'e missed the last memo. What on earth is wrong with "subbie"? BTW, i'd really like some thoughtful, reflective replies. Thankies. Subbie? It sounds giggly childish to me...but that's only my opinion. If you like it, go for it. I gave you a thoughtful reply...short, sweet, to the point and how I feel.

DrkJourney -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 3:06:43 PM)
I do try....even if we are not a fit I do offer friendship...I get some emails saying they are interested and I guess they see the part on my profile where I want to be friends first, so they lay it on thick, saying they want the same, not because I'm Domme but because I seem like a person they would want to get to know.....when I say I don't think we are a fit, but offer to be friends, usually disappear.....pretty much says it all. Some try to manipulate, saying ok, then after a few emails where they try to manipulate me into accepting them, or cybering, or phone, and it doesn't work, they take off as well...good riddance. I have found some great friends here (subs/slaves)...and as previous post stated, that usually happens after the initial "interests" dies down.

ShadowMster -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 3:15:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub i mustv'e missed the last memo. What on earth is wrong with "subbie"? I'll have to agree with some of the other posts as well. It might be one thing to be a pet name between master and sub, but as a collective term? No.. It's like the whole vanilla terms of my snuglly wuggly, or other such sickening pet names.. If you like Subbie, and want that as your pet name, knock yourself out. If you dom is willingto call you that, all the better. But lets not be childish here.. Signed: a non-snuggle -- crap, couldn't even bring myself to type it over again..

ShadowMster -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 3:19:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub Can a Dom/me really be F/friends with a subbie or slave when He's/She's interested in more and she/he is not? Yes. A dom can be friends with a sub. It depends alot on the overall aspect of the relationship. If the dom is one that can be soft towards the sub, and the sub is one who can stand tall near the dom, yes they can be friends. If the dom can't lower his eyes, and the sub raise hers, then there will never be eye contact, and it will simply never work. I have friends who are subs, and while we don't play, we do compare notes. But often friendship comes after the dismissal of D/s partners.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 3:24:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub Can a Dom/me really be F/friends with a subbie or slave when He's/She's interested in more and she/he is not? This has nothing to do with role and everything to do with people. If you think two people can be friends and have a healthy relationship when one is interested in developing more, then, yes. If you don't, then no. Master Fire

pinksugarsub -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 4:00:53 PM)
Well, ty. BTW if "subbie" is no use, what's the proper term? Always type out "submissive"? Thankies G/guys.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 4:22:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub Well, ty. BTW if "subbie" is no use, what's the proper term? Always type out "submissive"? Thankies G/guys. "Sub" is fine for just about everyone. There's also "s-type." Even shorter to type.

MissHarlet -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 4:25:14 PM)
Of course .. submissives and Dominants can be friends ... if there is honesty and communication and NO manipulation from one or the other .. hopeing more will develop.

Politesub53 -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 4:40:48 PM)
First and foremost Dominants and submissives are people. The problem of one wanting more than another from a friendship would be just the same if they were both vanilla, and accordingly, have the same problems and frustrations for one party. [;)]

Kinkypupper -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 5:19:00 PM)
No. The Dom will presumably always be a Dom, and if interested once they will continue that interest untel the relationship is ended or.. they get what they want.

shanaT -> RE: Friendships with Subbies or Slaves (5/18/2007 7:00:24 PM)
hi pinksugarsub Most definately Doms and sub/slaves can be friends. W/we are all just people after all. sh`ana wishes you well PS: 3 of my dearest friends are Doms...they are like big Brothers to me

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