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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 6:11:30 AM   
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i had one of my formers contacted me out of the blue wondering (being sneaky about it after the small talk) if i was up for some afternoon fun in his office. i told him i was happily owned and collared by Daddy(which he took as an insult) and i don't play with others anymore.  he kept insisting Daddy wouldn't mind sharing me and i told him Daddy is not one to share.  i didn't expect him to be happy for me but i expect his reply when he said it won't last.  he hasn't contacted me again.

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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 10:41:29 AM   
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Happy pervert what you said was totally uncalled for and i don't appricate being called a c**t.  I am neither dumb or stupid you don't know me well enough to say those things.  Things with my Master are not gonna change in 6 months or 6 years.  Even if they did, i still would not see this guy.  My mom always said if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all maybe you should heed her words.  I will just chalk it up to you having a bad day so you attacked someone else.

To all the others who responded Thank You!

Matt's littleone

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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 10:48:57 AM   
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quote:

Things with my Master are not gonna change in 6 months or 6 years.


How can you possibly know this?


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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 10:51:52 AM   
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I know this katy cause My Master says he i never letting me go which is good cause i don't want him to.  Thanks for your interest (and no i am not being sarcastic).

Matt's littleone

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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 10:54:23 AM   
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I understand him wanting you to feel secure in the relationship, but no one can know what the future holds or how things may change.

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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 11:35:02 AM   
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Happyperv, you give Dom a bad name... you stink!  As for the name calling, you owe Matt's lilone an apology and I wouldn't blame Matt if he wanted to kick your cyber butt.  Someone should.  Next time you pick on lil girls... why not choose this one...  How dare you call Another's lil one a name like that!  State how you feel... question things... point things out, but do it with respect you worthless excuse for a Dom!

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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 11:38:51 AM   
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quote:

Before i met Master i had a few play partners. When i decided i wanted to belong to Master i told them i would not play with them anymore. They seemed fine with it. Today after not hearing from any of them for months i get a call today he siad "Hi you still with your Master" i told him yes and very happy. He said want to get toghter and play? I told him i am not cheating on Master. And Not interested, he said we won't tell him. I told him I WILL tell him what you said. Then he hung up on me.

So what's with this do they honestly think they can get us to so easily cheat on our Master/Mistress?


I'm not sure why you feel the need to have comments from the general CM population about the fact that someone called you up on the phone and propositioned you.  I mean, seriously, is there really anything here to discuss?  Are you honestly looking for insights into a problem you're sincerely concerned about?  Or do you just want us to get in line and call him a bad boy one by one?




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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 11:44:12 AM   
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I guess maybe it's something to feel good about.  I think a lot of the subs here probably get calls and messages that are nothing but wishful thinking for sex submission.  I don't think it has much to do with one dom trying to steal your affections from another.

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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 11:57:16 AM   
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It was a guy trying to get a piece of ass. I get that stuff all the time. "Does he share you? " "Are you allowed to play" "He won't know"..I wouldn't give it another thought.

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

Before i met Master i had a few play partners.  When i decided i wanted to belong to Master i told them i would not play with them anymore.  They seemed fine with it.  Today after not hearing from any of them for months i get a call today he siad "Hi you still with your Master" i told him yes and very happy.  He said want to get toghter and play?  I told him i am not cheating on Master. And Not interested, he said we won't tell him.  I told him I WILL tell him what you said.  Then he hung up on me.

So what's with this do they honestly think they can get us to so easily cheat on our Master/Mistress?

Matt's littleone


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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 12:12:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

Before i met Master i had a few play partners.  When i decided i wanted to belong to Master i told them i would not play with them anymore.  They seemed fine with it.  Today after not hearing from any of them for months i get a call today he siad "Hi you still with your Master" i told him yes and very happy.  He said want to get toghter and play?  I told him i am not cheating on Master. And Not interested, he said we won't tell him.  I told him I WILL tell him what you said.  Then he hung up on me.

So what's with this do they honestly think they can get us to so easily cheat on our Master/Mistress?

Matt's littleone


It's not *they* .....it's *he*. It's not *us*...it's *you*.  He obviously thought there was a chance, yes. That's all it is. Don't worry about it.

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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 12:14:31 PM   
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I really don't care if anyone calles him a bad boy gypsy.  I did not expect nasty comments just for asking as simple question.

Lockit thank you

Matt's littleone

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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 12:40:11 PM   
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I'm really curious what kind of answers you expect.  The way you worded your original post, it seems that you think he's done something wrong and insulted your relationship.  Basically, the way I'm reading it is that you've constructed a straw horse.  Are you really looking for alternative points of view because you're genuinely puzzled?




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RE: What's with this? - 5/25/2007 12:58:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveish

quote:

ORIGINAL: happypervert

If you're dumb enough to ask "what is with this?", you're dumb enough to fall for it. That poor guy just happened to call at the wrong time. Don't be so smug about what a good little cunt you are, because if this guy or another calls in another 6 months or what ever the right time is, it may not seem so silly to you.


Good god. You certainly took it personally. Were you the caller? 


ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: What's with this? - 5/26/2007 12:48:50 PM   
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Greetings all,

Unfortunately these Men do exist, this girl has even had a Man tell this girl 'I am the only one who can ever train you, you can be my slave 24/7, you were always special to me' But the thing is, He had a girl friend and He didnt tell this girl. This girl was His bit on the side kinky sex lol. This girl would never think about being in another Man's collar, even one so interesting as that! Lol.

All you can do is laugh about it, and hope they find someone to be happy with.

Sweet wishes
kajira kara (A) x

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RE: What's with this? - 5/26/2007 1:17:04 PM   
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Hope springs eternal. nilla folks get the same problem. Some people (mostly men, but not all) just don't get that over means over. They cheat, they know others who cheat (or whom they can convince to cheat), so they figure everyone cheats.

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RE: What's with this? - 5/26/2007 1:23:04 PM   
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Well, the first two are perfectly legitimate.

The third is kinda sleazy.

The fourth is just stupid.

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RE: What's with this? - 5/26/2007 2:42:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I understand him wanting you to feel secure in the relationship, but no one can know what the future holds or how things may change.


I know that unless one of us dies I will be with my husband for the rest of my life.  My future firmly holds me in love with him.  I don't doubt that.  It's the first relationship I've ever been in in which I didn't doubt it.  I say for those of us who feel this way and are happy, why bother questioning it?  We don't.  If it's our own little fantasies, so be it.  We all have the right to fantasize *S*

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RE: What's with this? - 5/28/2007 8:32:13 AM   
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Good for you. Telling him No was the right thing to do. They think because one is submissive that the answer will always be yes. Your Master is the one who you serve and you should only say yes to him.
When I find a Domme, she would be only one I would say yes to.

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RE: What's with this? - 5/28/2007 10:00:34 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Well, the first two are perfectly legitimate.

The third is kinda sleazy.

The fourth is just stupid.

But any full witted dom should know that every sub online gets those questions about a dozen times a day for the most part and it's the quickest way to get an eye roll and ignored.

There are ways to get the answers to those questions without sounding like every other dork troll dom in the world.

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RE: What's with this? - 5/29/2007 11:37:04 AM   
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Man, some people can be really mean in here :S
Don't post if you have nothing but accusations to post... or insults. It was just a simple question. I've been wondering about this alot too... We'll, people should just be strong enough to say no, specially if they are owned. It's a shame when/if the submissiveness gets in the way though.

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