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RE: Shaving... - 6/11/2007 11:38:13 PM   
RealDom69


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I've a question for the Nair crowd  or those that use a depilatory cream. *deep breath, refusal to blush*
Okay here goes.

How close to the actual vagina can it be used? Is it for strictly external? Can you just slap it on willy-nilly or does one need a mirror?  If so, please explain precisely in small words  so that I understand where NOT to use it. Oy. Hmm I am blushing after all.


OK - you use it where the hair is - that's on the external lips. The vagina is on the inside, so unless you are careless, it doesn't go on to the moist pink bits. (Where the hair is, the skin is dry). I'd suggest a mirror to start with, but the way I do it, I feel for where the hair is with the fingers of one hand, then use the other hand for applying the cream. It's not as hard as it sounds. The worst place to get it is on the anus - it will sting (though not THAT badly) - you're more likely to "slip up" there than on your pink bits. Rule of thumb - the cream goes where the skin is dry and hairy, not pink and slippery, and then bath to soak it off, don't just shower. Is that clear enough? I'm not being sarcastic - ask for more info if I'm not using small enough words, LOL
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RE: Shaving... - 6/12/2007 11:03:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHeart

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ORIGINAL: cjenny

I've a question for the Nair crowd  or those that use a depilatory cream. *deep breath, refusal to blush*
Okay here goes.

How close to the actual vagina can it be used? Is it for strictly external? Can you just slap it on willy-nilly or does one need a mirror?  If so, please explain precisely in small words  so that I understand where NOT to use it. Oy. Hmm I am blushing after all.


OK - you use it where the hair is - that's on the external lips. The vagina is on the inside, so unless you are careless, it doesn't go on to the moist pink bits. (Where the hair is, the skin is dry). I'd suggest a mirror to start with, but the way I do it, I feel for where the hair is with the fingers of one hand, then use the other hand for applying the cream. It's not as hard as it sounds. The worst place to get it is on the anus - it will sting (though not THAT badly) - you're more likely to "slip up" there than on your pink bits. Rule of thumb - the cream goes where the skin is dry and hairy, not pink and slippery, and then bath to soak it off, don't just shower. Is that clear enough? I'm not being sarcastic - ask for more info if I'm not using small enough words, LOL
:))
LH


Yay thankyou! You said it just the way I needed to understand it hehehe.
Beware da pink bits. Got it.
Seriously thank you. Thats the kind of question where I wish I had an alternate nick

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RE: Shaving... - 6/12/2007 11:39:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

This is for all the Ladies and the subs who visit the Ask a Mistress forum...I'd love some input please.
 
My current playmate and I are considering shaving off all My pubic hair.  I'm not so keen to do it since the Goddess put it there for a reason, and I'm so afraid it'll look ghastly without hair.  I'm also very concerned about razor bumps, itchiness and butterfingers...I am liable to freak out completely if I get cut.
 
Having said that I know some men appreciate a shaved pussy and prefer feasting upon one that has been relieved of its hair.
 
But I'm still skeptical!!!
 
In your experience, has this worked for you?  And do you have any advice on technique and keeping razor bumps/itch away?
 
With kind regard,
~Kara


You get used to it and actually grow to prefer it.  Trust me, I speak from experience.  Also, it makes the desire to feast exponentially higher. :)

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RE: Shaving... - 6/13/2007 2:38:55 AM   
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I am in a liberated mood at the moment, growing My natural hair in various places, except the legs lol


I like your style.


Thankyou . I am Dominant, so it is fashionable and liberating to have a natural hair growing where I see fit. Many subs shave, which is fantastic, but I can take it or leave it to be honest.

I do like pubic hair on My ladies


Well, then, I suppose it's a Good Thing that I'm *not* dominant. I wouldn't let my sub ladies anywhere NEAR a razor.


Nowadays it is quite a nice surprise when a lady is natural/trimmed. Like the holy grail lol, a nice surprise to say the least.

God decided She place hair in the treasure box, leave it natural I say.


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RE: Shaving... - 6/13/2007 3:19:06 AM   
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I vastly prefer to be hairless and to have a male that is hairless too. Over the past 6 months of upheaval, Master and I got out of the shaving habit ... and I really didn't like the tangles down there! And it made sucking Him a bit trickier too, with the occasional break to spit out stray hairs. Not so romantic! So a real birthday treat for me was a mutual shaving session! We find it easier to do each others lumps and bumps, so much easier to see, and therefore feels safer. I'd rather trust He who can see than me who is waving a razor blindly around my sensitive bits! Being a kinky Avon lady, I have a shower first, and use their pre-shave wash to make sure the area is scrupulously clean. Master and I have decided old fashioned shaving soap and brush and NEW razors are the best option. Have a bowl of warm water handy to rinse the razor very often and work from top to bottom and outside in. Finish with a nice gentle wipeover with a fresh warm facecloth. I then use Avon's post-depilatory moisturiser and that seems to help a lot. I still get the odd pimple in the next few days ... but Master just loves that LOL! (Anyone else do pimples as bdsm play??). I tend to just make sure I am very dry before getting dressed, with a fresh towel, allowing some air-drying time or even using the hair dryer on warm to dry out the skin folds around legs etc rather than using powder. I have a tendency to a yeast-like fungal infection in skin folds so have to be wary of powder.

Good luck!
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RE: Shaving... - 6/15/2007 11:22:29 AM   
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OH boy I wish I had read this thread a few weeks back. I love the feeling of being shaved but I hate shaving and go thru phases of it reminding myself everytime why I should keep it up, I hate the regrowth itch, sooooooo I thought I would try nair, I bought the sensitive skin version with aloe, did a skin patch test and waited till the next day,, everything seemed to be ok, so I slathered it all over, making sure nothing went on the pink bits. left it for the required time and then jumped into the shower, woooooooooo hooooo all smooth and silky. Woke up the following morning and I screamed,....... from the crack in my ass to the top of my mons was a burning screeching nightmare, swollen and raw, worse in the creases of my thighs  ..... it hurt for three days, I looked like I had ridden from one end of the country to the other, bowlegged and no knickers, I felt so sexy, NOT!!!! and by the time the pain was gone and things were feeling ok again, the bloody hair had started to regrow.  So I guess Im back to shaving again, altho I will be looking at trying the different things mentioned here, so thanks for all the advice.
Oh and Maam Jay I really enjoy popping zits, no matter where they are, and I would love to have a partner who would reciprocate on a regular basis. I also like peeling off sunburned skin on other people. its just another lil kink of mine:)
Again thanks for the advice everyone
Lucy


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RE: Shaving... - 6/15/2007 11:29:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

OH boy I wish I had read this thread a few weeks back. I love the feeling of being shaved but I hate shaving and go thru phases of it reminding myself everytime why I should keep it up, I hate the regrowth itch, sooooooo I thought I would try nair, I bought the sensitive skin version with aloe, did a skin patch test and waited till the next day,, everything seemed to be ok, so I slathered it all over, making sure nothing went on the pink bits. left it for the required time and then jumped into the shower, woooooooooo hooooo all smooth and silky. Woke up the following morning and I screamed,....... from the crack in my ass to the top of my mons was a burning screeching nightmare, swollen and raw, worse in the creases of my thighs  ..... it hurt for three days, I looked like I had ridden from one end of the country to the other, bowlegged and no knickers, I felt so sexy, NOT!!!! and by the time the pain was gone and things were feeling ok again, the bloody hair had started to regrow.  So I guess Im back to shaving again, altho I will be looking at trying the different things mentioned here, so thanks for all the advice.
Oh and Maam Jay I really enjoy popping zits, no matter where they are, and I would love to have a partner who would reciprocate on a regular basis. I also like peeling off sunburned skin on other people. its just another lil kink of mine:)
Again thanks for the advice everyone
Lucy




Yipes!!!!  *scratches Nair off list*
 
Thanks everyone for responding, I thought this thread had died a long time ago!
 
My partner and I have tried trimming the weeds for now and it seems to be working out fine.  OF course having him trim the hair and then wash Me up after then get to feasting is a brilliant thing.  We may try shaving later on, but for now we're both content.
 
Kind Regards,
~Kara

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RE: Shaving... - 6/15/2007 11:40:16 AM   
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i REALLY like a man thats trimmed, shaved is not needed so much . Seriously...if you want oral TRIM UP...nobody wants hair in there mouth! YUCK!!

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RE: Shaving... - 6/15/2007 3:34:32 PM   
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Definitely get the Brazilian wax instead.  It will get the spots around your labia and anus that shaving can't reach, and the smoothness is far, far beyond what even the best shave could deliver.

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RE: Shaving... - 6/15/2007 5:39:57 PM   
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i REALLY like a man thats trimmed, shaved is not needed so much . Seriously...if you want oral TRIM UP...nobody wants hair in there mouth! YUCK!!


i dont mind hair in my mouth, but trying to pull it from my teeth, yet trying to concentrate on the task at hand, really is difficult.

Edits to add i didnt mean men.... no offence guys but i just dont see myself doing it..

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RE: Shaving... - 6/17/2007 1:09:51 PM   
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It was fun to read the posts re: Shaving.
 
I like to do whatever I am in the mood for. I save the totally shaved days for a special event where I give it as a gift for my partner and myself, as it feels sooo sensitive, every sense is heightened! Shazaaam...
 
I use a single razor, usually with the soft conditioning lotion built in to the razor. Twice over, no more. A lot of products out there aren't good for skin that is sensitive, no matteer what they claim on the front of the bottle.
I have sensitive skin and the depilatories burn, and leave after-burn no matter what I have done, short times with cream on, bath instead of shower, etc.
It's fun to change it up, shaved, trimmed, soft and bushy, depending on my mood.
Re: Guys shaving anywhere. For contact that is regular, as in almost every day, I do NOT like shaved. The baby stubblies can be the worst kind of friction and can limit the amount of time for play. I love to have a man mix it up for his face, beard, goutee, and mustache. Might be an all day stubble, kind of soft and scratchy at the same time. Then a shave before round 2. One hour clean as a babies butt, the next some stubble which is good for added friction, all the way to soft and never longer than an inch.4 men in one. <snicker> I like a woman to mix it up also, and never longer than an inch.
I know, I digress, and guilty as charged. (grins)
 
M Irish
 
 
 
 
 
 

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RE: Shaving... - 7/19/2007 12:14:20 PM   
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What perfect timing!
 
I was about to start searching through the threads to find one on shaving/depilatory...and it just popped up in the scroller at the top!
WOO HOO CM!

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RE: Shaving... - 7/19/2007 12:25:32 PM   
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If I want to avoid a punishment I shave each and every day. If Master finds a single hair below my neck he plucks it with a pair of twezzers and gives me twenty lashes for each hair found. Doesn't take long to learn.

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RE: Shaving... - 7/19/2007 3:11:51 PM   
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I bet it's not very easy for a MAN to find a place that will give him a Brazilian wax. Does anybody know of places for this? How about in the Boston area?

I think a domme taking a sub in for a Brazilian wax could be a great pre-scene, or even a scene itself!

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RE: Shaving... - 7/19/2007 6:38:08 PM   
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as a beginner shaver stay away from the veet, start with the labia shave, trim method.  you will get bumps, when I started shaving years ago I would put desitin on afterwords and it really helped me not break out.  I love the landing strip, tightly shorn, I don't know, I just don't want my guy picking hair out of his teeth-personal opinion but  I know some LOVE hairy bush.

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RE: Shaving... - 7/19/2007 6:54:41 PM   
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I really believe some Males are like the Sampson and Delhila. Any such triming would be shear nonsence...
  But i have been in a converstion about the Brazillian wax, I cant seem to get the thought of passing out from the pain off my mind. Now that i see it like that, it may be something I should try...
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ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav

i REALLY like a man thats trimmed, shaved is not needed so much . Seriously...if you want oral TRIM UP...nobody wants hair in there mouth! YUCK!!

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