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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

You've contradicted yourself here.   I dont think he did !

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ORIGINAL: WeyrlingMaster
And I would point out that I am ONLY looking for those who say that they are interested in Dom/Dom(me) couples and are bisexual. 

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ORIGINAL: WeyrlingMaster
And any sub/slave would NOT be expected to do anything with My partner UNLESS THEY WANTED AND AGREED to.

According to your profile you do expect them to do things with your partner.

Here's the rub....even if you're saying to the new submissive that she doesn't have to do anything with the Domme, the Domme is still involved in the realtionship and on top of that has her own exclusive relationship.

The fact that you never state what role the submissive would be in your life, other than "serve Me primarily but also my Partner at times." You heartily state that you love your partner and won't leave her for anybody. That's nice, but it leaves the new submissive feeling second class and as something easily thrown away. Would you volunteer to go into a relationship that will be effected by the whims of someone not in it? If you expect someone to invest in a relationship with you, you need to invest something as well. You never once address what you offer and where this person fits in. Personally, I would have passed on you as well, based on your profile.

Just because someone isn't interested in you and deletes or doesn't respond, doesn't make them lairs or fakes. It just makes them someone who is not interested in you.

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ORIGINAL: WeyrlingMaster

LaffayeteLady - Thank you sooooo much for your wonderfully incisive comments about my psychology.  If you can find any evidence to back up your claim that I expect a response simply because I am a Dom, please do.  And a question for you, Faramir and the others claiming that I am simply whining, blubbering or whatever. 

When did it become such a crime to ask a question or state an opinion?

And Faramir - love the ivory tower - and the wonderful use of the english language, takes a real man to swear and where on earth does construction come into it?

It seems that english comprehension is somewhat lacking as well, for reading all of my posts here plainly point out that I AM looking for a specific type of person witin a specific set of search parameters.  Given that I would - as would most people I would imagine - at least expect the message to be read or my FULL profile to be looked at.  If you wish to see that as whining, whinging or being a crybaby, fine, go ahead.  At least that gives me a supurb heads up on who not to contact anyway.

For the record:

I DO NOT EXPECT ANYONE TO FALL AT MY FEET BECAUSE I SAY I AM A DOM NOR EVEN EXPECT A REPLY TO A MESSAGE.  THIS THREAD WAS STARTED SIMPLY BECAUSE I WANTED TO ASK A QUESTION AND GIVE AN OPINION.  AND I SEEM TO HAVE UPSET SOOOOO MANY PEOPLE FOR HAVING THE TEMERITY TO ASK THIS THAT IT MAKES ME WONDER WHY I BOTHERED.

For those who have decided to launch a personal attack on me via messages - and I wont name them - how sad and pathetic you are.

I have met many people through the chat rooms on here and made many friends here and in person throughout the years.  All of them know that I call a spade a spade.

To those of you (2 people specifically guess who they are) who want to call me names without responding to my original question, I simply say this.  GET STUFFED.  I have always and will continue to voice My opinion about whatever I want to.  If you don't like it, tough.  I really couldn't care less about what you say, it has been tried by better people than you and they failed too.

If you don't like what I write, toddle off and find someone who will only write what you find acceptable to you.  But as this is a place where opinions are allowed, I will continue to voice mine.

And thanks to those who have messaged Me with nice things to say.

Damn typo's!

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Apparently it is OK for YOU to ask a question or state and opinion, but when others respond in a way that you don't like, it would certainly appear that in YOUR opinion, we are not entitled to our opinion.

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ORIGINAL: shyinini


Dawn, I was reading your posts over on the Gor site, trying to explain YOUR truth about your "identity".......might I say MHO?
why is it so hard for people to just accept we are multi~faceted people~ not liars and dishonesty and fakes?
Loki and the Mistress have plans for you ... you accept them.  I respect that.
But why the hell do others need to antagonize like you are not who you say you are...... I dont get it. 
 
You go girl...you just be who you are and let the others drool with W/E that they aint you !  [:)] 

Sirs adored pet

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ORIGINAL: WeyrlingMaster
Perhaps I am being too sensitive or critical.  I don't know.

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ORIGINAL: MellowSir

I agree for the most part. There sure are a lot of people here that say they're looking yet fail to respond and put their money where their mouth is. Just do what you can to hang in there and eventually one will come along who is what they say they are.....the rest can just be here taking up space like they have been for months or years, they talk the talk but sure don't have the nerve to walk the walk lol

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Just do what you can to hang in there and eventually one will come along who is what they say they are.....the rest can just be here taking up space like they have been for months or years, they talk the talk but sure don't have the nerve to walk the walk lol

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ORIGINAL: MellowSir

There sure are a lot of people here that say they're looking yet fail to respond and put their money where their mouth is.

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ORIGINAL: shyinini

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

You've contradicted yourself here.   I dont think he did !

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ORIGINAL: WeyrlingMaster
And I would point out that I am ONLY looking for those who say that they are interested in Dom/Dom(me) couples and are bisexual. 

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ORIGINAL: WeyrlingMaster
And any sub/slave would NOT be expected to do anything with My partner UNLESS THEY WANTED AND AGREED to.

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serve Me primarily but also my Partner at times

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ORIGINAL: Faramir

Hollllllly crap this is a great thread--I'm dying laughing over here.  I'm actually crying.  "Your mangina is showing, you need to put it back under your slip, cowboy up and quit sniffling" is priceless, and a crybaby doms section would RAWK.

Dude, you gotta chill.  You asked a really, really stupid question that reflected petulance on your part.  You asked your "question" with a rhetorical purpose in mind: you hoped to persuade people that you were noble and being victimized, and you hoped for validation.  You didn't get that--you are apparently lower and less mature in your social skills than the forum members here, and your intent was nakedly obvious.  A bunch of us who undestood your rhetoric, and had contempt for it, told you so in very direct terms.

Now, that's all water under the bridge.  By continuing to defend a completely untenable position, by repeating what you know to be false over and over again, you are exposing yourself to greater and greater ridicule--the exact opposite of your intent here.  If you had, or if you will, stop stonewalling and just admit the truth, you would immediately be perceived in a better light, because the ability to admit a mistake, to recognize a self-failing, is a hallmark of maturity.

If your next post was something like, "You know, I was really steamed last nigth, and I decided just to step back for a day and come back, and I do see how my post looked now.  I guess I was just disspointed in all these people not giving me a chance to talk, but then again, I do see that it isn't dishonest on their part.  I guess just dissapointing," you would win some friends here, cast yourself in a positive light.  Before you post again, just think about it.

I'm sorry I was confusing with my "construction" comment--I used the word in a particular sense that not everyone is or should be familiar with.  In the humanities, we use 'construction" to mean beliefs or cognitive modes that we create, as opposed to being organix or "natural."  An example would be in Victorian England, the idea that women were "naturally" weak, irrational, morally superior to men.  What the Victorians saw as a natural turth, we would generally see now as a social construction, and a false one at that.  It can also be used in a personal sense, in Personal Construction Theory.

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ORIGINAL: WeyrlingMaster

I do 'go out into the local community' and meet people.  And as I say in My profile, My partner has Her own slave who I don't play with.  And any sub/slave would NOT be expected to do anything with My partner unless they wanted and agreed to.

On further reflection, I would have thought that this site is here to facilitate meeting people from a wider area rather than the 'local' area.  Or am I being thick?