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Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 12:30:50 AM

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Why do most bi sexual women only want single women or couples but no single men? Do you think that these women have an attitude problem towards men? I also think its female chauvinism.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 12:42:33 AM

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I am have never had that issue, so I cannot be help there other than to be as proof... that it isn't all bisexual women.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 12:43:49 AM

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First off, I wouldn't call it chauvenism. It's their choice with whom they want to have a relationship. For instance, while I enjoy most European cars, I prefer to own BMW's. Does this mean I hate Porsches? No. It just means that I'm exercising my right to own whatever car I want.

So, by virtue of what you're saying, lesbians are female chauvenists and gay men are male chauvenists?

As far as my opinion goes, I don't think it very wise to alienate half the members with one's very first post on the forum...it doesn't lend itself to getting off on the right foot. It definately tells them alot about you, though...

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 12:46:49 AM

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I am bisexual, and I have a male partner in place, I do not need single men play partners. I am only interested in women or couple's, for that fact.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:01:31 AM

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Why is a man only good enough if he has a female partner? So a single woman is better than a single man? Thats chauvinism, it's that simple. You are basically saying that a single woman is superior to a single man and a man is only good enough if he has a woman to offer.

But you would never express it in them words.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:05:55 AM

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Interesting observation, maybe there is something to that, but lets leave the judgement up to higher powers.
It brings a question i have in to mind, how come the couckold couple/s/ do not wish to have the partner of the third party, /man/ in the picture even as a "look on"?
Any one?

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:28:17 AM

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quote:

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Why is a man only good enough if he has a female partner? So a single woman is better than a single man? Thats chauvinism, it's that simple. You are basically saying that a single woman is superior to a single man and a man is only good enough if he has a woman to offer.

But you would never express it in them words.

I can answer this one. And it has absolutely nothing to do with chauvinism or prejudice.

I am involved in a relationship. My Master is male. He is straight. I am Bi. He likes watching women together. He likes watching other men with me. Those other men absolutely do NOT have, nor will they ever have the right to do anything with me that would in any way, shape or form, resemble bdsm. He's possessive and admits it freely. It has absolutely nothing to do with whether you are submissive or dominant. As a male of any label, he would not allow you to spank, hit, flog, etc, me. On the other hand, sex is sex. He still controls everything that happens with me and everything I do. OUR dynamic is still very much in place, no matter what we do in that regard.

So...here's the thing. As a straight male and a bi female, we COULD find a single man to participate with us, but you tell me, as a straight man, where would his fun be? He's not doing this so that he can watch me have a good time like some eunich on the sidelines. WE are solidly in this relationship together. It's not, nor will it ever be just about me. With a woman, I can have fun, he can have fun, she can have fun. With a couple, I can have fun, he can have fun, she can have fun and he can have fun. With a single man, someone's going to be left out and since it's our relationship, it sure isn't going to be him. And since he's straight, it sure isn't going to be me.

So, doing the math, that leaves you my friend. You - a single male - would be the person left out.

And that's why we're not interested in finding a single male to play with.

juliet

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:31:48 AM

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Why is a man only good enough if he has a female partner? So a single woman is better than a single man? Thats chauvinism, it's that simple. You are basically saying that a single woman is superior to a single man and a man is only good enough if he has a woman to offer.

But you would never express it in them words.

I can answer this one. And it has absolutely nothing to do with chauvinism or prejudice.

I am involved in a relationship. My Master is male. He is straight. I am Bi. He likes watching women together. He likes watching other men with me. Those other men absolutely do NOT have the right to do anything with me that would in any way, shape or form, resemble bdsm.

So...we COULD find a single man to participate with us, but you tell me, as a straight man, where would his fun be? He's not doing this so that he can watch me have a good time like some eunich on the sidelines. WE are solidly in this relationship together. It's not, nor will it ever be just about me. With a woman, I can have fun, he can have fun, she can have fun. With a man, someone's going to be left out and since it's our relationship, it sure isn't going to be him. And since he's straight, it sure isn't going to be me.

So, doing the math, that leaves you my friend. You - a single male - would be the person left out.

And that's why we're not interested in finding a single male to be play with.

juliet

Thanks for your opinion but that is your situation. Does that situation apply to every bi sexual woman? What about the single bi sexual women who only want single women or couples?

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:36:14 AM

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Your attitude is as big a factor of who wants you as being a single male. It's Our right, any of us, all of us to choose what we want, and in these cases it's not a single man we want. That'd be our right to desire couples and fems only. Same as it'd be someone elses right to want men only and not women.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:38:48 AM

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Your attitude is as big a factor of who wants you as being a single male. It's Our right, any of us, all of us to choose what we want, and in these cases it's not a single man we want. That'd be our right to desire couples and fems only. Same as it'd be someone elses right to want men only and not women.

I know its your right to choose who you want but its still chauvinism no matter what way you look at it.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:42:03 AM

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I don't think so, I simply have no need for single males, since I have a male partner, and I don't have sex with other men, and I do not have a woman to play with, and I have sexual relations, or would with other ladies, since the thought appeals to my Dominant. Appeals to me to, the thought of dominating a woman makes my wild beast come out.

edited to add, it's a choice of needs. personally for me.

Plus the other lady what she says makes sense, what joy is the single male getting out of it, if we do not play w/ith them sexually, do not do certain acts with them cause we have Master's already. What joy would my partner, who's strait and has no desire to see me w/ith another man get. I'd say absolutely zero.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:44:05 AM

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quote:

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Your attitude is as big a factor of who wants you as being a single male. It's Our right, any of us, all of us to choose what we want, and in these cases it's not a single man we want. That'd be our right to desire couples and fems only. Same as it'd be someone elses right to want men only and not women.

I know its your right to choose who you want but its still chauvinism no matter what way you look at it.

And it's precisely THIS type of reaction that we look to avoid by involving ourselves in situations with single males. There is simply, far too often, the presumption that it's their "right" to be involved verses the priviledge of being asked in that we just do not seem to find in females. And when we do - we walk away from them as well.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:49:25 AM

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I'm just curious (and bored...and sleepless), but...why are you so obsessed with bi women, much less ones who aren't interested in you?

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:51:18 AM

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I'm just curious (and bored...and sleepless), but...why are you so obsessed with bi women, much less ones who aren't interested in you?

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Oooh, now THERE'S the 64,000 dollar question!!

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:51:38 AM

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The wonderful thing about life is that we have choices, if I want to write on my profile that I am a self-confessed Martian lover however do not want any contact with Martians...guess what, I can do that.

It may not make sense to you and in fact it doesn't matter if you or others understand my choices, I still have the right to choose. Pass those women by and concentrate on the ones who are looking for a single guy.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:57:38 AM

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Well now single bi women might be another story, but for bi women with partners, we've given answers. I myself if I was the male, would not want to come into a situation, where I'd get no play of any kind, seeking play, simply because the bi woman has a partner and does not touch other men sexually in any way.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 1:58:00 AM

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That's what I was wondering....

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 2:02:57 AM

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btw Chavisim, is the Prejudiced belief in the superiority of one's own gender, group, or kind.

I do not believe women are superior to men, nor men to women. I just know what I want and what works, and what will turn both of us, James and I on the most. And I stick with it.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 2:10:32 AM

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What is your motive? Why are you looking only for bisexual women? A good guess would be because you want to see her do some hot girl-on-girl stuff. Do you want a bisexual woman so you can see her with other men?? Let's say you find your bi female do you want her to seek out other single men? If you did, why wouldn't you consider a straight female? But rather than be disappointed that real life does very rarely follow the script of most porn, why not just narrow your seach option on your home page?

Perception is reality. If you can't change your reality you need to change your perception.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 2:36:24 AM

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It's only chauvinism if you are the one on the outside looking in.....

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