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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 2:46:12 AM   
Quivver


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Status: offline 		I think all single bi women have ran across the answer to this question so many times we now assume, even if lightly what that answer is.  Hell, I love Men... But the answer to that question is why I/we have to go the extra mile to fish out the real answer.



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ORIGINAL: Einzelganger

I'm just curious (and bored...and sleepless), but...why are you so obsessed with bi women, much less ones who aren't interested in you?

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 3:09:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		When I was a single bi woman, I only looked for men...so go figure that one out. 

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 3:16:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I dont know about out and about on the street as i dont go to munchies and not interested in finding out what everyones sexual orientation is, but i see it a lot on line, understand what you mean, i mean each to their own, but i see a high % of bi woman ask for the same thing either single woman or couples. i can only tell you that the ones i have seen on line is a high % if its like that out and about on the street so to speak i would not know.

As part of one of my jobs i do deal with statistics, so i could not help see that trend on line, its habbit.

Anyway thought i would put in that useless bit of information

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 3:21:06 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Einzelganger

I'm just curious (and bored...and sleepless), but...why are you so obsessed with bi women, much less ones who aren't interested in you?

-Einzelgänger



Cuz, he's not getting laid?

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 3:34:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Per Wilkipedia, Chauvinism is extreme and unreasoning partisanship on behalf of a group to which one belongs, especially when the partisanship includes malice and hatred towards a rival group.

As I am neither extreme nor unreasoning, nor belong to any sort of a group collective and have no malice nor hatred generally or specifically to single men then my preferences are just that and not chauvinism. As an aside, I would even suggest, naughtynick81, from the nature of your posts that it would be thoughts such as yours that create this unreasoning rivalry to begin with.

The ladies with partners explained the basis for their choices and I, as a single bisexual woman and speaking only for myself, will explain mine. I like single men......they are great, they are yummy and they are fun fun fun. However, intimacies with them are different than intimacies with a woman and I prefer both. I also prefer to keep my intimacies within the context of a relationship. Bringing multiple parties together is difficult at best and to try and bring three individuals who are new to each other together can be a bit like three blind people putting a jigsaw puzzle together.......all the pieces can be made to fit but, there is no single vision of the picture to be formed. It is easier, and I use the term loosely, if there are already bonds established by two of the parties, that they have a similar vision and there is only the one other vision to try and mesh. You do this hoping for success and it makes sense not to stack the deck against yourself.

All that said, I love the single men.......at least those that avoid sweeping judgements of the motives of others and avoid flinging labels willy nilly.

All the best,
anguisette

ps......Isn't willy nilly the best word?

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 4:45:29 AM   
MstrssPassion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Einzelganger

I'm just curious (and bored...and sleepless), but...why are you so obsessed with bi women, much less ones who aren't interested in you?

-Einzelgänger


That's easy

Again its sour grapes... this could very likely be a case where he is contacting women who already have a male lover & only seek a female lover. In his mind the perfect scenario with a bi woman is one who has a female lover & they need him. Most likely, this isn't what he is finding & since he isn't getting the responses he expects.... bi-women are chauvinistic.  

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 4:50:19 AM   
tricia


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Status: offline 		You explained it perfectly for me, too.  Thank you.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 4:59:24 AM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		Nick - women generally have more than enough admirers that they need not be alone, dont you find? Whilst generally its a much harder task for a man to compete for a woman's affections with her many other admirers. What this leads to, and has been shown in studies, is that regardless of BS about chat up lines et al, it is the ladies who choose their men. That you have not yet been chosen isnt anything to do with anything but that a woman hasnt selected you.

Why is it though, that you are making what is already an uphill struggle for most guys in finding a gal (or more rightly being found by), a far more difficult proposition by way of concentrating on a much smaller number of gals - the subsection "bisexual women"? You dont have to answer that by the way, unless you want to - its more of a rhetorical question.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 5:27:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		For myself, I am bisexual but I want to be in this type of relationship to enhance and nurture the dom and the other third party, not to feel exploited and sometimes single guys can do that to people.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 8:22:07 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

quote:

ORIGINAL: Einzelganger

I'm just curious (and bored...and sleepless), but...why are you so obsessed with bi women, much less ones who aren't interested in you?

-Einzelgänger


That's easy

Again its sour grapes... this could very likely be a case where he is contacting women who already have a male lover & only seek a female lover. In his mind the perfect scenario with a bi woman is one who has a female lover & they need him. Most likely, this isn't what he is finding & since he isn't getting the responses he expects.... bi-women are chauvinistic.  



Arrrr NO

I am after any woman who is straight or bi. It doesn't matter, I have no particular fantasy with a bi woman just because she is bi. The reason why I am asking this question is because I find it disturbing. Just the average looking male like myself still has trouble finding a straight woman or any woman interested. Most bi sexual women make it even harder for single men because they only prefer single women or couples. It's a superiority complex.

What "anguise" didn't point out about the wikipedia meaning of "chauvinism" is that it also means one gender thinks they are superior to the other which is what I am exactly pointing out.


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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 8:25:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		The reason why this thread got moved to the random stupidity thread is because not many people take a male seriously when ever he expresses the wrong things women do. It's quite common to see this any where really. 

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 8:45:54 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

The reason why this thread got moved to the random stupidity thread is because not many people take a male seriously when ever he expresses the wrong things women do. It's quite common to see this any where really. 

oh wise and arrogant male, please show us women the errors of our ways in all the things we do wrong.  sheeeeesh - men are such babies.

i'm not bi however i have an opinion to express about this.  it's a matter of choice.  my secondary would like to see me with another woman and has explicitedly expressed that he doesn't want to have another man (bi or straight) join us.  why? because it's his desire to have a FFM scene ...call it the ultimate male fantasy which he'll get one day.  however he doesn't want another man touching what he rightly owns so out goes my MMF fantasy yet that doesn't mean he won't grant it.


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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 9:00:27 AM   
MistressNoName


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Status: offline 		nick,

This thread was probably not the best way to introduce yourself to the forums and is certainly not going to endear you to any single females (het or bi) who read this as what it's showing very clearly is how closed you seem to be to listening to other people's opinions and that you seem to be making sweeping generalizations about single bi women.

I have seen this so many times. People come on the forums talking about something that, in their opinion, "most" of whatever group they're targeting is doing and why. They make pejorative statements about the target group as though they alone hold the absolute truth in the matter and dispute everyone else's take on the subject. A few women who identify as bi have responded to your question, but their responses do not satisfy you because they are not single. Well, here's a few things to consider: 1) Every bi person is different and may have different desires at any given period of their life; 2) Personally, I am bi, and single and currently seeking a male slave...I would not necessarily seek a female slave...although I might seek a female partner (vanilla) - other bi women may think this way, but in reverse; 3) Not everyone on this site identifies on their profiles whether they are single and there is no marital status check box...so do you really know that all these bi women you are targeting are truly single? 4) Also, being single for many people only means not legally married...so one can be single and still have a boyfriend or partner; 5) and Lastly - I'm sorry to say this, but just as you are perceiving chauvinism on the part of these "single bi females," I am perceiving this whole thread is about "sour grapes." Bottom line is that everyone is entitled to their personal preferences, wants and desires and their reasons do not have to be known or understood or approved of by you.

Now, that having been said. Is your chauvinism premise possible? Sure, it's possible. But you're not going to prove anything with this thread. Nor with a very subjective and negative attitude. If it's that important a question for you, how about doing some real research into the matter, if you can figure out how to design an unbiased research model. I'd be interested in the results. Just not the unsupported generalizations.

MNN

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 9:13:47 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Dude this is what is happening....Unfortunately for you there are thousands of "naughtynick81's" on this site.....See, you are easy....The bi chicks on this site are contacted by dozens of "naughtynick81's" everyday....You my friend are yesterday's news...They can read you anytime they want.....So out here what are bi chicks searching for?....Hmmmm...Maybe other bi-chicks...They are relatively hard to come by.

So if I could make a suggestion, it would be to go out and meet some women and a few of them will enjoy dining at they "Y"...And then have them set up a profile and just maybe you will be enjoying that "naughtynick81 sandwich" that you have been dreaming of!

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 9:30:20 AM   
LadyEllen


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quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

I am after any woman who is straight or bi.



Perhaps this might be an interesting snip to focus on Nick. Please dont think I'm getting at you over it, as its not anything peculiar to you by any means, but rather a widespread notion amongst the male population.

There's an old feminist slogan that runs something like "women are people too". Now, thats easy to say and easy to read and understand I know, and easy enough to repeat. But truly comprehending that simple phrase is something that I find guys genuinely seem to have a problem with. Perhaps it was unintended, but the way you wrote the snip above, indicates that you fall into the majority of males to my mind, who do not comprehend it. I'll be honest - it was only when I transitioned that I comprehended it fully.

What it amounts to, is that a woman is not a life support system for boobs and a vagina. She does not exist as an accessory to the life of a man, and neither is she a baby making machine to provide heirs. She is a full person in her own right, in exactly the same way as you might regard other men, except that this person is female, and is just as autonomous and entitled to respect as an individual rather than as one amongst many. Every woman is different, just like every man; she has her own likes and dislikes and preferences, her own interests and abilities and ambitions, her own character and behaviours.

What this means is, that when you say you are looking for "any woman", it indicates to women that you do not value them as people at all, and that doesnt inspire their interest very much I'm afraid.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 9:37:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

The reason why this thread got moved to the random stupidity thread is because not many people take a male seriously when ever he expresses the wrong things women do. It's quite common to see this any where really. 


Waaah.

-Einzelgänger

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 11:11:16 AM   
IEvolve


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Status: offline 		Well, if you want a more relevent situation....

How come a woman can be hetero....then bi....then hetero again and it's quite alright with the world.  She's just "exploring" her sensuality and individuality.

But if you're a guy....suck just ONE dick.......


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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 2:09:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

The reason why this thread got moved to the random stupidity thread is because <snip>


The reason is pretty obvious

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 2:17:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, the reason is that this thread is randomly stupid.

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RE: Bi sexual women - 5/31/2007 2:30:00 PM   
naughtynick81


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