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RE: What centers you? - 6/4/2007 8:59:54 PM

santalia

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Greetings Masters/Doms
Greetings Mistresses/Dommes
Greetings fellow slaves and subs

What centers me is hearing my Jarl's voice, firmly but gently asking me specific questions. It is a ritual He does with me and it puts me right into the proper headspace immediately.

In those few moments during that ritual, i know He is my Master, my Jarl; i know i belong to Him and Him alone; i know that He loves me and i love Him. All the world is set right, even if for a moment during that ritual.

Well wishes

-santalia{JR}

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RE: What centers you? - 6/4/2007 9:00:54 PM

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gravity centers me

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RE: What centers you? - 6/4/2007 9:14:05 PM

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what center's me

being in the contentment of my Jarl's=Master arms knowing that i am safe knowing that no harm is to come my way while i am in His presents. kneeling before Him because i want to, not cause He wants me to, knowing that He will guide me to help me become a better slave not change me or reshape me but adjust me to His wishes to His needs His desires the way He likes to be served and pleased. to mold me into what you want to adjust me to the one that you would be proud to have at your feet.

i love You my Jarl

love sabinalia

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RE: What centers you? - 6/4/2007 10:03:57 PM

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Daily, it is doing something for my body, mind, and spirit.
In the moment, acknowledging a spiritual conscious contact.

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RE: What centers you? - 6/4/2007 11:00:08 PM

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Meditating

A walk on the beach especially at sunset like I did tonight.

A good book

A few particular pieces of classical music

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 5:16:52 AM

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Meditating, yoga, solitude, all preferably done outside in the morning. The ocean is centering, a clear night sky that's otherwise so dark that one can see the milky part of the milky way (I have to get out of the city to see that). Chopping vegetables. Hiking in the woods. My daughter braiding my hair.

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 5:20:24 AM

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The best for me is heavy bondage, particularly with sensory deprivation. It gives me a feeling of contentment unlike anything else i've found.

Long car or motorcycle trips at night can also be very calming.

Sometimes music can do it, but not always...

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 5:42:49 AM

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During intense play, there comes a moment for me where nothing exists but the sound of our breaths, the whip in his hand, and the piece of my flesh that it kisses next, you know how every single nerve ending in your body seems focused there? (very centering)

Also, the ocean, day or night, rain or shine. The fountain at the park across the street, and the aromatic garden. The outdoors in general always helps.

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 7:53:07 AM

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Usually what will center me is to take some time and either go sit by the lake nearby or take a short walk in the forest. If I can't do that, I'll spend 5-10 mins in meditation and that will ground and center me.

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 8:10:55 AM

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My morning wasn't so bad. I even managed to raise a chukle. My afternnon slowly went downhill. A combination of missing Darcy like HELL and having to contend with other peoples bad moods and ill behaviour just pushed me from one side to the other. Ach, I am responsible for how I let others make me feel, I know.

So then I thought, I need to refocus - get centred. My children do that. Their pressence is the best kick in the butt centering I can have. But they were still at school and it would still be a couple of hours before they got back.

So I wrote my Boy that I was feeling off and yuck and just the left side of needy.

Then my phone rang. And Darcys voice - and simply knowing he was 'there' - even though he is miles away right now - brought me back to realise exactly where my place was and gave me the impetus and strength to center.

Yay and way cool.

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 9:37:41 AM

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It is in seeing my girl naked an tied up, understanding that her love and trust in me has allowed her to put her totally in my trust and care, to use her body for both our pleasures that always fills me with tremendous pride and joy, and as a top fills me with passion an purpose. It is in watching her sleep and the laughing and cuddling we share at all times. It is seeing her do well and always being a part of her life and joy's. Otheriwse it can be a long bath, or a good movie or song that instantly takes you back to a place where your happy and feel good, it is why both song an cinema endure.

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 9:57:48 AM

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i am blessed to live near the shores of Lake Michigan. So, a calming walk on the pier, sitting in the dunes with the wind in my hair.....i am an earth sign, and water for some reason always seems to calm and center me. Oh, and i love to knit too!

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 10:01:50 AM

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Reading or writing a story. Honestly. It makes me focus on something besides my everyday stuff. Transports me into a different time, place, scenerio.
Also, I have a tendency to think wayyyy to much at times, so scening helps me center to, as there is nothing in my mind but what he is doing to me, and it helps relaxes me. I don't have that fear of should i really be doing this, or can i really handle this because I am doing it and know that i can handle it.

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 10:06:15 AM

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God...weather i want Him to or not.....

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 1:19:17 PM

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The gym is the best way for me. When I need to focus, let off some steam, or just relax a good workout is the only way to go. I have also found that if I have a long day ahead, or one I think will be more difficult than most a vigorous workout gives me the energy boost I need.

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 1:32:42 PM

slavemaia

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i agree, kneeling at Master's feet is definitely very calming. Meditation, dancing, singing, walking out in nature, an intense S&M scene. But mostly, when i see myself getting stressed out over something, i have to say - is it really worth your peace, maia?

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 1:59:12 PM

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exercise....like a really energetic hike in the woods
yoga...even though I suck at it
meditating....especially if I can be outdoors at home
working outdoor....wether it be gardening or cleaning out the horse barn
working with my animals....if I am too stressed I avoid trying to train them, it doesn't work, but just being with them is important also.
spending time with the grands....it can be exhausting but it changes how I see the world and reminds me what is really important.
doing something creative.....painting, photography, writing, even home improvement projects
reading...... I have different books and authors for different moods

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 2:11:11 PM

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Considering relationships have a tentency to cause stress (haha) I find my center when I stand facing the wind, or look up in the sky as rain falls on my face. Nature brings me to my inner peace.

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 2:21:57 PM

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First and foremost, any opportunity to do things for people I care about is rather calming; especially serving my domme (no, I'm not fortunate enough to have an owner at this time), be it sexual or otherwise; I'd almost say that doing things like giving her a massage, footrub, bathing her, or just cuddling works better for me (what can I say, I'm a cuddlebug). Second, either driving a car I like or flying pretty much any fixed-wing aircraft is rather calming; I simply focus on operating the machine, becoming one with it to achieve exactly the results I want, and I can forget about everything else if I so desire. I also enjoy speed skating alot; I just focus on my breathing, strokes, etc. That's some of what works for me, anyway...

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RE: What centers you? - 6/5/2007 3:00:36 PM

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I miss my dog. No matter how stressed I was, his simple, undemanding and extremely demonstrative love always brought peace to me.

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