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DiurnalVampire -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 10:13:20 PM)
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Have you considered that they looked at your profile and decided not to write back becasue they DIDNT see something they liked? Honestly, female submissives get a lot of attention and sometimes if there is no interest they dont write back. You mention how do they expectt o be respected if they dont reply even if it is negative? Simple, they dont really care if you respect them or not if they arent interested enough to reply.
In 4 days, if you have sent out 166 messages, you have a few things to consider. (a) are some of the profiles people who do not log in frequently and may not have actually checked their mail yet. (b) might you be filtered for some reason (c) did you miss something in the profile that mentions why you might not get a response?
If its only been 4 days, your lucky youve gotten that many responses back. I find it interesting you would have 166 different girls you have shown actual interest in. How would you go about narrowing that down assuing you get a response from every one of them in the next week or so. Lets take off maybe 40 or 50 not interesteds, which still leaves 116. Youve already spoken to 61 of them, so you still have 55 to contend with. How exactly do you keep everyone straight, make sure you associate the right names with the right people and show actual interest in everyone? How can you pursue THAT many relationships at once?
Me, I top out at 5 when im looking, 2 when I own. Think realistically, advertizing that you mail that many shows that you arent honestly that taken with any of them. Or at least thats my take on it.
Be patient, and instead of complaining about the ones you dont have, see where things go with the 60+ you do. There are others on this site that would love that sort of potential.
DV
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