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tulipgoose -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/6/2007 3:07:17 AM)
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Awwww how CUTE!! Well, seeing as you claim to have only been here four days...... you've only been here four days! Some people read and reply later, some read and do not deem yours words worthy of reply, and some reply politely, or not so, fairly quickly. This sounds so silly to me, and I don't know why I am replying truly... but eh, why not? If you put your heart and soul into 166 messages to random people, well, your heart and soul have a very low combined value, in my eyes. I have been here nearly 3 years, and have probably emailed that many people, truly putting time into reading their profiles and being choosey, for friendships and otherwise! Many people try to reach out and put a lil care here and there into messages, but part of sending them is knowing that they may go unread or deleted as you said. That's the internet, that's the way people are! Not everyone here is actively seeking, even if their profile claims so, and everyone's idea of "actively seeking" is different. Some people desire to email back and forth for a couple months before going to a messenger, some go straight to it, some won't talk on the phone for months to years, some expect it the first night. Some move in after only a few months and some require intense getting to know time over years! Everyone is different. Your approach is childish, if even real!
Edited to add: Believing in "love at first site" (be it love, or connection between Dom/sub, Master/slave, etc) is not the childish part, but EXPECTING 100% reply rate. That would be like...... applying to 100 places of employment and expecting calls back from each and every one of them even if they each had hundreds of applicants just to say "no thanks" ~ While some places of employment are respectful and kind enough to do so, most do not. While it's nice to believe in miracles like "love at first site" and miracles do exist, they are rare, and should be treated as such, not as an expectation. Remember, the real world doesn't always work the way "The Secret" does.... You can't live like you have girls you don't have without looking like an idiot and scaring away the ones worth anything.
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