RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam!

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losttreasure -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 10:39:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tenderfootmaster ...how can you tell who is really interested in you when they message you back? lol... You have your first clue if she continues to talk to you.

octavia -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 10:45:57 PM)
Doh! Just realized that one of the 7 that i emailed didnt respond (ratbastard) So.. even if you take care in who you email and have a very good reason to do it, not everyone responds. sigh [;)]

domiguy -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 10:49:38 PM)
Yes, you mean to bitch.....But you obviously haven't heard about the New and Improved "Domiguy's Laws and Letters of Attraction 2007"......166 messages sent and 61 responses aint all bad.....But why send out 166 messages when you vould send out 16,660? I will teach you how to take those responses and turn them into pussy.....PINK GOLD!!!!......All for three easy payments of $19.99. Here are some endorsements form satisfied customers.... Before I utilized The Domiguy's Laws and Letters of Attraction I was a mean and grumpy, ornery dude from up North. Now I am A mean grumpy, ornery dude from up North with a motherfuckin' shit load of pussy! Sincerely, wiottertail I just recieved a blow job from my sub while she was being eaten out by my slave....Thanks Domiguy! Your the best, LordandMonster My face smells like Fisherman's Wharf....I'm in heaven! Domiguy's Laws and Letters of Attraction was worth every penny spent.....Just like a double headed dong...Invaluable!!! I love you Domiguy, pisspissgirl5 So tenderfootmaster if you want to change those messages to meat wallets...Pay the price and get those go-go holes. Satisfaction guaranteed!!!.... If it says Domiguy...You know it's gotta be good....Damn Good!!!

tenderfootmaster -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 10:52:17 PM)
No I really want to learn what the hell is going on here lol, like I said Im a novice so the best way to learn is from experiance.

WhiplashSmile -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 10:55:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: octavia Doh! Just realized that one of the 7 that i emailed didnt respond (ratbastard) So.. even if you take care in who you email and have a very good reason to do it, not everyone responds. sigh [;)] Giving Octavia a Big Cheesy Rat Bastard Grin.... Shame on that ratbastard for not responding! I'll break his fingers off if he does not email you back soon.

tenderfootmaster -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 10:58:22 PM)
If you really want to know what I did, I had a skeleton letter with all my info already in it, I read the profile and add appropriately. So yes, I am guilty of send somewhat of a "form" letter, but it was just a blatant, "this is me, what do you think?"

tenderfootmaster -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 11:03:06 PM)
Well, I need to get off here and go to bed. (Need to get up at 5:30am and its 1:02am, ouch) If you have anymore advice, Id love to here it. You can leave it here, or send it to my mail... Later

octavia -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 11:03:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Yes, you mean to bitch.....But you obviously haven't heard about the New and Improved "Domiguy's Laws and Letters of Attraction 2007"......166 messages sent and 61 responses aint all bad.....But why send out 166 messages when you vould send out 16,660? I will teach you how to take those responses and turn them into pussy.....PINK GOLD!!!!......All for three easy payments of $19.99. Here are some endorsements form satisfied customers.... Before I utilized The Domiguy's Laws and Letters of Attraction I was a mean and grumpy, ornery dude from up North. Now I am A mean grumpy, ornery dude from up North with a motherfuckin' shit load of pussy! Sincerely, wiottertail I just recieved a blow job from my sub while she was being eaten out by my slave....Thanks Domiguy! Your the best, LordandMonster My face smells like Fisherman's Wharf....I'm in heaven! Domiguy's Laws and Letters of Attraction was worth every penny spent.....Just like a double headed dong...Invaluable!!! I love you Domiguy, pisspissgirl5 So tenderfootmaster if you want to change those messages to meat wallets...Pay the price and get those go-go holes. Satisfaction guaranteed!!!.... If it says Domiguy...You know it's gotta be good....Damn Good!!! Oh dear, you made me pee my pants. Someone somewhere around here's gotta think thats hot..... [:D]

SlpBeauty333 -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 11:07:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile "Collarme.com.... so easy a caveman can do it " in 4 days or less you'll be dragging her off by the back of her hair. nearly choking on the popcorn Thanks WhiplashSmile, sorry for coughing crumbs on ya. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ To the OP: If I'm interested in a Dom who contacts me I will send out more detailed information trying to get to know him better. Else I will send a general "No thank you, we don't match" and give as good a reason as I can and my genuine best wishes for his eventual success finding someone. It does take forever to do this and female subs are bombarded. Even without a pic, lol! And this might sound kind of harsh but it works and I mean it gently: take the cotton out of your ears and stick it in your mouth for a while. Have some popcorn, will ya?

tenderfootmaster -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 11:18:11 PM)
Fine, Ill just sit back for awhile... Sits in the corner and eats popcorn

LafayetteLady -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 11:36:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tenderfootmaster Fake or Real - Profiles and Initial Contact Well, I have been on this site for 4 days now. I really haven’t gotten any responses from anyone I messaged except for a few. Out of 166 messages I sent out, only 61 have actually replied with at least something. I mean, I’m not saying submissives and slaves are pieces of shit and are required to send out a reply to Dominants, but come on! You submissives and slaves want to be treated with respect and dignity and then you don’t show Us respect by saying yes or no to Our messages. A simple little note is suffice. You don’t have to write a book of why you feel the way you do, just acknowledge Us the why we did you. And look at Our profiles! Your always quick to yell at Us for not looking at yours. You can do Us a favor and look at Ours. Hell, maybe you might find something on there that you like. No, I am not a FAKE! I do read your profiles and humor your requests for proof when you ask for it. I’ll admit that I use a lot of the same information in My initial emails, I use things I see in your profile to prove I read it, but its hard to put Your heart and soul into a message that might end up deleted and unread and quite possibly blocked. To all you submissives and slaves still reading this, you are not the only ones with feelings on this site. I try to be a caring and understanding Dominant Male but when you get shit on, You start to lose that caring, loving heart. Just something to think about. I went and read your profile. I have to tell you that you would have been better off if you stopped after expressing your desire to learn to "become a great and wise master." From that point you go on into what seems a lot more like fantasy land. You honestly wonder why someone would not want to "apply" for the position of "money slut"? Do you really think a whole bunch of subs/slaves who are searching are searching for someone they need to teach everything to? Just think about it for a minute...why would a very experienced sub want to get involved with someone who states right from the beginning they don't know much? By the way, did it occur to you that you might then find your "alpha sub" being YOUR master? Listing benign "equipment" such as duct tape, saran wrap and a "how to" massage book is not really going to score you many points either. On one hand you claim to have a "caring, loving heart" while on the other you are asking people to cut and paste your "application" which would include a lot of information that not too many sane people are going to provide to someone on the internet until they have gotten to know them better. It is like you are trying to avoid having any "getting to know you" conversations. Coming here, admitting that you wrote to 166 women in 4 days (and took the time to count them), then complaining because everyone did read your email and profile and go "wow, I really want to be a money slut for this guy, he has duct tape!" makes you sound whiney and desperate. Does that sound harsh? Sorry. I don't really mean to be. The point is that perhaps many didn't respond because they are more tactful than I am and didn't want to say what I just did. To be honest, I didn't find your profile intriguing, it was more a source of amusement. Rewrite your profile, send out only a few emails to carefully chosen women. Perhaps change what you are looking for to someone who is new to the lifestyle and may enjoy learning with you. And as others said, get off the computer, find a munch or something and maybe meet people who will want to help you learn. 27.6 hours in 4 days WHILE serving in the military? Try REAL life, dude. Walk away from the computer and try it. Trust me, it isn't that scary.

tenderfootmaster -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 11:46:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: tenderfootmaster Fake or Real - Profiles and Initial Contact Well, I have been on this site for 4 days now. I really haven’t gotten any responses from anyone I messaged except for a few. Out of 166 messages I sent out, only 61 have actually replied with at least something. I mean, I’m not saying submissives and slaves are pieces of shit and are required to send out a reply to Dominants, but come on! You submissives and slaves want to be treated with respect and dignity and then you don’t show Us respect by saying yes or no to Our messages. A simple little note is suffice. You don’t have to write a book of why you feel the way you do, just acknowledge Us the why we did you. And look at Our profiles! Your always quick to yell at Us for not looking at yours. You can do Us a favor and look at Ours. Hell, maybe you might find something on there that you like. No, I am not a FAKE! I do read your profiles and humor your requests for proof when you ask for it. I’ll admit that I use a lot of the same information in My initial emails, I use things I see in your profile to prove I read it, but its hard to put Your heart and soul into a message that might end up deleted and unread and quite possibly blocked. To all you submissives and slaves still reading this, you are not the only ones with feelings on this site. I try to be a caring and understanding Dominant Male but when you get shit on, You start to lose that caring, loving heart. Just something to think about. I went and read your profile. I have to tell you that you would have been better off if you stopped after expressing your desire to learn to "become a great and wise master." From that point you go on into what seems a lot more like fantasy land. You honestly wonder why someone would not want to "apply" for the position of "money slut"? Do you really think a whole bunch of subs/slaves who are searching are searching for someone they need to teach everything to? Just think about it for a minute...why would a very experienced sub want to get involved with someone who states right from the beginning they don't know much? By the way, did it occur to you that you might then find your "alpha sub" being YOUR master? Listing benign "equipment" such as duct tape, saran wrap and a "how to" massage book is not really going to score you many points either. On one hand you claim to have a "caring, loving heart" while on the other you are asking people to cut and paste your "application" which would include a lot of information that not too many sane people are going to provide to someone on the internet until they have gotten to know them better. It is like you are trying to avoid having any "getting to know you" conversations. Coming here, admitting that you wrote to 166 women in 4 days (and took the time to count them), then complaining because everyone did read your email and profile and go "wow, I really want to be a money slut for this guy, he has duct tape!" makes you sound whiney and desperate. Does that sound harsh? Sorry. I don't really mean to be. The point is that perhaps many didn't respond because they are more tactful than I am and didn't want to say what I just did. To be honest, I didn't find your profile intriguing, it was more a source of amusement. Rewrite your profile, send out only a few emails to carefully chosen women. Perhaps change what you are looking for to someone who is new to the lifestyle and may enjoy learning with you. And as others said, get off the computer, find a munch or something and maybe meet people who will want to help you learn. 27.6 hours in 4 days WHILE serving in the military? Try REAL life, dude. Walk away from the computer and try it. Trust me, it isn't that scary. The bad thing is about this reply, is I know you are right. I’m just new and tried coming off way to strong all at once. I need tips on making my profile look appealing and not look all “ate up” as we say in the military… I just wish I knew how to express my needs and wants better.

Masque66 -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 11:51:04 PM)
Believe me, you have to start from the ground and work your way up. I haven't sent anywhere near the number of emails you have, but I've gotten at least a 'thank you but no' from nine out of ten of them. I can't say I know the reason or a formula, but I always tailor my messages to the individual girl, usually with a comment on her journal, profile, or something she's written in the message boards, just to try and get the ball rolling. Sometimes it keeps rolling, sometimes it doesn't. In fact most times it stops after a couple feet. But remember male doms aren't exactly a hot commodity. You have to show that you're special in some way, and that they're more than a picture or a dirty name.

MagiksSlave -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/5/2007 11:55:47 PM)
Wow an entire 4 days and you havent found your soul mate yet, you should give up and resighn yourself to beeing alone for the rest of your life!!! No really though come on 4 days and your allready ranting this doesnt bode well for you. I agree with the others 166 messages in 4 days?? where did you find the time to read 166 profiles let alone put together 166 indavidual messages.I was on collar me 3 years befor meeting Master and even in all that time I dont think I spoke to 166 different people. If you sent out a form letter and it sounds like you may have, most subs can spot one of those a mile away, and most wont reply to them at all because in deed they are rather annoying and impersonal and some think inconsiderate Im suprised you got even that many responses off a form letter!! Magik's slave

LafayetteLady -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/6/2007 12:00:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tenderfootmaster The bad thing is about this reply, is I know you are right. I’m just new and tried coming off way to strong all at once. I need tips on making my profile look appealing and not look all “ate up” as we say in the military… I just wish I knew how to express my needs and wants better. Well, I'm glad that you took it constructively. It really was said with the best intentions. I gave you some tips. Others here have given you some tips. Put them to good use. You have to walk before you can run, and you need to crawl a bit before you walk. So slow down, take a deep breath and cut your profile DRASTICALLY. Leave off the equipment. Instead of deleting your application, use it as a guide to help you have CONVERSATIONS with people (but I do suggest you take it off your profile). Stop thinking about getting yourself a stable and concentrate on finding ONE person that you can connect and grow with. Make it very clear to her that you are interested in poly relationships, but that it is something down the road when the time is right. Find groups in your area and make some friends. Above all, DON'T SOUND DESPERATE. I really do wish you luck. As you are in the military, think of it this way....a General has to earn those gold stars through years of learning and leadership. Based on what you have said about yourself, you are still a private (in the lifestyle sense), and you need to learn and grow before you are able to command many others.

WhiplashSmile -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/6/2007 12:19:16 AM)
OMFG... I just checked out your profile after reading LafayetteLady's comments regarding it. You should drop the application forms you have on your Journal. Start by first finding one submissive/slave. Rethink this whole madness of the slave stucture you have outlined. What you are currently seeking is not very realistic. Wow, I second the motion... Get off the computer and find people near you. Let them know you are new to being a Master and that your heart is in the right place. I'm almost blown away that you state you have 6 years experience? I actually find it almost unbelievable you have 6 years of experience from reading your profile. You could probally send out 10,000 emails and not get anywhere because of your profile and Journal entries. If anything get back down to earth in the things you express on your profile.

msglass -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/6/2007 12:31:51 AM)
hello a/All and in particularly Tenderfootedmaster; okay, so i will admit, i am usually just a voyeur in terms of forums (among other things)- but i happen to be one of those 161, and messaged You back telling You that my profile was clearly not read, to a point where i was insulted that You offered all things i specifically say i am NOT looking for. i didnt even have to check your profile or how You express Yourself. just noting that us 161 have some steam to blow off as well.

tenderfootmaster -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/6/2007 12:36:46 AM)
I really do appreciate everyone who has helped me out so far. I will revamp my whole profile tomorrow, but for now I'm going to get some sleep. Thanks again!

tenderfootmaster -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/6/2007 12:39:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: msglass hello a/All and in particularly Tenderfootedmaster; okay, so i will admit, i am usually just a voyeur in terms of forums (among other things)- but i happen to be one of those 161, and messaged You back telling You that my profile was clearly not read, to a point where i was insulted that You offered all things i specifically say i am NOT looking for. i didnt even have to check your profile or how You express Yourself. just noting that us 161 have some steam to blow off as well. I actually tried to write back an apology but you had blocked me before I was able to, so I am apologizing now. I mean well, I just went overboard and I’m sorry if you can forgive me.

LafayetteLady -> RE: I don’t mean to bitch, just blowing off some steam! (6/6/2007 12:42:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: msglass hello a/All and in particularly Tenderfootedmaster; okay, so i will admit, i am usually just a voyeur in terms of forums (among other things)- but i happen to be one of those 161, and messaged You back telling You that my profile was clearly not read, to a point where i was insulted that You offered all things i specifically say i am NOT looking for. i didnt even have to check your profile or how You express Yourself. just noting that us 161 have some steam to blow off as well. You are in Kansas, and she is in OHIO and looking for local people! Then you and her interests are vastly different to the point of being obviously incompatible? Tell us the truth now. Did you run a search and then just respond to the first 166 women who popped up meeting your search criteria?

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