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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 6:30:47 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		They are sacred and scary at the same time,ITS a big burden wearing a masters collar...AS with us a collar is earned,it may take years and years but in the end both party's are sure it will stick"You come and you serve and if worthy a collar will be locked around your pretty neck"This has always been my motto..bounty

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 7:09:19 AM   
losttreasure


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ORIGINAL: octavia

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ORIGINAL: losttreasure

lol... That's okay, when I first read the titled of this thread I thought it was asking if collars were scary.



Is sacred spelled right?  Im a terrible speller, and sometimes I embarrass myself in my attempts.


lol... Your spelling is fine.  It was my reading being affected by pain medication.


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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 7:34:01 AM   
meticulousgirl


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Status: offline 		I am collared and to me the collar  is honestly both Sacred and Sexy for more reasons than I will say here. 

Sexy because I find myself much more submissive when i wear it,  it's a constant reminder of my place and Sacred because of it's purpose. 

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 8:07:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: octavia

It's about time I get a photo posted, so am having a friend (the only BDSM friendly person I know near me) take some "fun" pictures of me this weekend.  As we sat chatting over coffee mulling over the various poses and moods to try (Yum!) he brought up that he has this fantastic collar at home that we could put on me for the photo shoot.  Several things ran through my mind.  Is it a bad idea for a single sub to appear collared in her profile photo?  They are damn sexy and sure I want to know what it feels like around my neck, but is it a special thing that should be reserved for when it's "real"?  Or am I just being a sappy romantic?  Many other things ran through my mind as well, but that should be sufficient to bring out the flame throwers.

octavia




It's like wearing a ring on your left hand. It only means what you want it to mean. I wear a moonstone that my mother gave me on my left hand. I wear the ring Valyraen gave me on my right hand. When he decides, the rings will switch places.

Just decide if the dominants who would pass you over because you are a single sub wearing collar are the kind you want.

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 9:26:11 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
It's like wearing a ring on your left hand. It only means what you want it to mean. I wear a moonstone that my mother gave me on my left hand. I wear the ring Valyraen gave me on my right hand. When he decides, the rings will switch places.

Hey Aquatic, what do you think of this?
http://emeraldliz.livejournal.com/192713.html

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 9:31:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

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Every time I see this quote, I keep meaning to say how much I love it!


thanks!

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 9:32:51 AM   
imthatacheyouhav


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Status: offline 		I would love a collar...and to me it would be both sacred and sexy....

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 9:43:46 AM   
Dauric


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Status: offline 		Given that the thread is about what message is sent by a personal profile featuring a collared photo, you can wear or not-wear the collar, then in your profile text have a footnote to the effect of "I'm not collared I just think I look sexy with one." or "Imagine your collar here." kind of thing.

$0.02,

Dauric.

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 9:56:20 AM   
michelleryder


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Status: offline 		To me wearing your Masters collar is a very special thing to do and i wouldn't wear one if i was unowned.

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 11:50:22 AM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		Honestly, a collar in and of itself is meaningless, plenty of people who are unatached wear them. Heck even people not in the BDSM world wear them. When there is no relationship behind it it is just a peace of jewlery like any other, its like saying if Im not married I cant wear a ring on my ring finger (Ok I would wear a wedding band but still) It is simply a fassion statement you are makeing and there is nothing wrong with that. There is nothing sacred about a collar in general it is the people in the relationship who make it sacred, I dont know it it makes any sence.

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 12:11:12 PM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		Collars are simply sacredly sexy if you ask me.

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 12:19:13 PM   
octavia


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Status: offline 		whole thing is a mute point now.  said "friend" just informed me that he doesn't find me sexually attractive, so there is no way in hell im posing for any pictures collar or not. 


Its not like I was asking for a relationship, or even sex, but damn, thats some hard chit to hear. 
He is extremely athletic, and apparently I don't meet his standards.  
What really hurts though, is I want very much to be more athletic, it is my main focus and goal right now.  I had asked for his help actually. 
I honestly would say i need to loose 20 lbs.  and tone up more. 

Sorry, i digress... just still reeling from the blow.

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 12:29:00 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: octavia
whole thing is a mute point now.

moot
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  said "friend" just informed me that he doesn't find me sexually attractive, so there is no way in hell im posing for any pictures collar or not. 

Aww one person not finding you attractive doesn't mean anything.  I'm guessing about 60% of the world would find me highly unattractive.  But I've got a hot pic.
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Its not like I was asking for a relationship, or even sex, but damn, thats some hard chit to hear. 
He is extremely athletic, and apparently I don't meet his standards.  
What really hurts though, is I want very much to be more athletic, it is my main focus and goal right now.  I had asked for his help actually. 
I honestly would say i need to loose 20 lbs.  and tone up more. 

Sorry, i digress... just still reeling from the blow.

Sorry for the blow, rejection is never easy.  But do your thang!  Look at past threads and you'll see that LOADS of us here are working on being healthier and losing weight.  There's lots of support.

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 1:57:01 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		AWW hon you should tell him to get over himself for even thinking you where interested, LOL I love how some men when you ask them a favor asssume you are looking for a relationship, or you have to be "hot enough" for them to be attracted to you befor they will do you a favor!!!!

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 2:02:24 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
It's like wearing a ring on your left hand. It only means what you want it to mean. I wear a moonstone that my mother gave me on my left hand. I wear the ring Valyraen gave me on my right hand. When he decides, the rings will switch places.

Hey Aquatic, what do you think of this?
http://emeraldliz.livejournal.com/192713.html


I think that top ring is absolutely gorgous! Where did you find them?

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 2:06:13 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: octavia

whole thing is a mute point now.  said "friend" just informed me that he doesn't find me sexually attractive, so there is no way in hell im posing for any pictures collar or not. 


Its not like I was asking for a relationship, or even sex, but damn, thats some hard chit to hear. 
He is extremely athletic, and apparently I don't meet his standards.  
What really hurts though, is I want very much to be more athletic, it is my main focus and goal right now.  I had asked for his help actually. 
I honestly would say i need to loose 20 lbs.  and tone up more. 

Sorry, i digress... just still reeling from the blow.


Aww... don't let it go to your head! People can't help what they like and don't like, and trust me - there are plenty of attractive men out there who love girls with some padding.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 2:06:20 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Hoped you'd like :)

Got it at a booth at the International Gem & Jewelry Show

http://www.intergem.net/

Maybe it's coming your way?

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 2:10:12 PM   
babyrose


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Status: offline 		Hmmmm never thought about it when I posted my pic wearing a collar. It has different meaning to different people. In my case it was a prop for a photo shoot nothing more. Like you I think they are sexy.... shrugs

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 3:43:41 PM   
KuffedKitten


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Status: offline 		For me collars have always found their place around my neck from a very young teenager..at the time they were fahionsable chokers but I recall on many occasions finding ways to tighten them closer around my neck. But back on the subject at hand , I think you should do what you want in your photos and have fun of course. I find collars do have special meaning but that is not all of course. Myself I often wear a collar in public that looks more of fashion , as it is pink leopard furry type with a ring attached , not to symbolize I am owned because I am not , but I firstly LOVE the feel around my neck as I feel naked without one. Secondly when I go out to clubs , movies or just around town I am proud of myself and the submissive I am and perhaps it is a way for me to express it without a word being spoken. I have lived in small towns to big cities and have gotten my share of looks but I have learned in time to be myself..and thats what you should do. These pictures are to express your individuality and desires..so I see no problems with it especially since I am sure any intelligent person will actually READ the profile not just scan the pic. Good luck :)

--kuffed

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RE: collars: sacred or just plain sexy - 6/7/2007 4:36:00 PM   
octavia


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: octavia
whole thing is a mute point now.

moot
quote:

  said "friend" just informed me that he doesn't find me sexually attractive, so there is no way in hell im posing for any pictures collar or not. 

Aww one person not finding you attractive doesn't mean anything.  I'm guessing about 60% of the world would find me highly unattractive.  But I've got a hot pic.
quote:


Its not like I was asking for a relationship, or even sex, but damn, thats some hard chit to hear. 
He is extremely athletic, and apparently I don't meet his standards.  
What really hurts though, is I want very much to be more athletic, it is my main focus and goal right now.  I had asked for his help actually. 
I honestly would say i need to loose 20 lbs.  and tone up more. 

Sorry, i digress... just still reeling from the blow.

Sorry for the blow, rejection is never easy.  But do your thang!  Look at past threads and you'll see that LOADS of us here are working on being healthier and losing weight.  There's lots of support.


thanks!
I had no clue about the mute/moot thing.  I love it when I learn something new that prevents me from making an ass of myself in the future.  I know one person is no big deal.. its just that I don't hear that im not attractive very gracefully.   Im not Miss American,  but i generally am received well by the opposite sex.   Not used to being told Im not sexy!!!! 
I know... I get me on o' them damn collars.. that make me sexy again.

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