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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Unfortunately, femdoms who are lifestyle pros or have a high visibility of one somehow get to be the punching bag for male subs who are bitter at their own inability to find happiness in a functional relationship.  I have been on the Internet for more than 10 years, I basically "grew up" while posting on newsgroups like this, and it baffles me to think that how submissives viewed me, and my legitimacy, would be vastly different if at 25 I decided I wanted to go pro full time instead of going into a corporate job.

There have been times in my life where I sustained such a high level of energy for BDSM and femdom that I woke up each day and said, "YEAH! I could do this for a living, I LOVE this, I could share this passion and have total autonomy in my life!"  But I've always come back to reality and accepted that my personal highs and lows for energy and passion, and my own selectivity with partners, make it impossible for me to be a full time dominatrix with a really cool dungeon.  But what if I had?  All of a sudden I go from very credible Akasha, because I have a normal career, to totally uncredible Akasha, because I do kink for a living?  I don't get it.

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

I personally would not strive for perfection, as I find imperfections more appealing. I am by no means am being dis-respectful to your op Dianna, and I do hope you find what you seek someday, I enjoyed reading it

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

I personally would not strive for perfection, as I find imperfections more appealing. I am by no means am being dis-respectful to your op Dianna, and I do hope you find what you seek someday, I enjoyed reading it

Interesting point Maam. Is this because You find a submissive thats less than perfect gives You something to work on, or is this because You find perfect becomes boring ?

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Thank You for the reply Maam, i would also think one Mistress`s idea of perfect differs from anothers also. Even a sadist is a Goddess to some boys....

Oh my, now im imagining saying " Youre not a Goddess Youre a Sadist ! " In a polite manner of course.

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Uh Oh...... Now im stuck with 10lb of grapes Maam.... i suppose i will just have to start the diet at the weekend instead

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Thank You for the reply Maam, i would also think one Mistress`s idea of perfect differs from anothers also. Even a sadist is a Goddess to some boys....

Oh my, now im imagining saying " Youre not a Goddess Youre a Sadist ! " In a polite manner of course.

I prefer the term Dominant, Domme, Domina, Sadist Ma'am & Mistress will suffice also, as personal choice . I feel a tad uncomfortable at the term goddess in My personal opinion, when subs call Me this in a general way. I am into greek mythology and I consider a Goddess such as venus, just that mythology, fantasy. I would get kinda bored of being fed grapes all day, and being fanned, how boring lol. My foot fetishists call Me goddess from time to time, as they like being at My feet and worshipping them, I am okay with that as it symbolises their servitude at My feet, and worship in that context, but not in a general, overall term.

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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Thank You for the reply Maam, i would also think one Mistress`s idea of perfect differs from anothers also. Even a sadist is a Goddess to some boys....

Oh my, now im imagining saying " Youre not a Goddess Youre a Sadist ! " In a polite manner of course.

I prefer the term Dominant, Domme, Domina, Sadist Ma'am & Mistress will suffice also, as personal choice . I feel a tad uncomfortable at the term goddess in My personal opinion, when subs call Me this in a general way. I am into greek mythology and I consider a Goddess such as venus, just that mythology, fantasy. I would get kinda bored of being fed grapes all day, and being fanned, how boring lol. My foot fetishists call Me goddess from time to time, as they like being at My feet and worshipping them, I am okay with that as it symbolises their servitude at My feet, and worship in that context, but not in a general, overall term.

Goddess lark? Fantasy? Some people would consider a sadist a monster & want to lock you up. The truth is you have no idea what a Goddess is, really and that's cool if you don't understand it, but don't make insulting remarks because you don't.


I'm just fine sitting back, eatting grapes and being pampered. Then again I'm not a sadist, I'm a Goddess. I say stick with what you know.

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ORIGINAL: novslave

wonders!!...  Ma'am u need a jelly fish!!

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ORIGINAL: novslave

wonders!!...  Ma'am u need a jelly fish!!

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ORIGINAL: LadyDominaX

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ORIGINAL: novslave

wonders!!...  Ma'am u need a jelly fish!!

A jellyfish lacks a spine.  I've found too many of those, and too few of the truly worthy submissives.  I seek a slave who is willing to put their strength, will and wisdom to use serving me; how could a jellyfish be of any use?

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ORIGINAL: LadyDominaX

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ORIGINAL: novslave

wonders!!...  Ma'am u need a jelly fish!!

A jellyfish lacks a spine.  I've found too many of those, and too few of the truly worthy submissives.  I seek a slave who is willing to put their strength, will and wisdom to use serving me; how could a jellyfish be of any use?