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ORIGINAL: octavia

This brings to my mind the first date phenomenon.  I've become quite adept at finding out if I have anything in common quickly.  I didn't mean too, it just happened.  I ddiint realize I was looking for a Dom, and kept dating vanilla guys.   Prolly went on fifty first dates in the last 8 months or so... LOL

Anyway, what i noticed was that all firstdate questions are just padded interview questions really.  So, using aps would just cut to the chase on that crap.  HOWEVER, and this is a biggie for me, I've found that the number one, super biggest, mostest importante thing is CHEMISTY and there is no interview question that can discern if thats there.  I've used all me standard questions before and found men who seriously flunk it, but. damn if they don't still make me wet.   And on the flip side have met (even married one) men who fit the criterial to a T, whom I have no desire whatsoever to be around.  I have a failed 13 year marriage that proves to me that even the "perfect" match does not bring happiness.  I'd rather be with Mr. not so perfect match, and be wet.

Cheers!