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what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:29:02 PM   
Er0s


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Status: offline 		Hello and thank You for looking at my thread to all the Dommes, Mistresses, Madames, and Goddesses out there reading my humble post. I figured i would try to get a discussion going on so here is the question i pose to all of You; What in a slave is most important to You, is it physical qualities of some sort, a certain personality, honesty perhaps, or is it a strong trust base. I'm curious to see what Your answers will be so please be open and honest, to each their own.

Er0s
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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:33:27 PM   
Carrianna


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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:36:42 PM   
Carrianna


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Status: offline 		Wow, your 18 and your an expert at so much!!!

Me I am still learning something new, today it was the wooden pony...  With stinging nettles...  Love it...  Want one...

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:38:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Being cute physically is always a plus, but if the personality is there, the physical attraction will follow.  We want someone who is compatable with us in lifestyle (vanilla and D/s) and that we genuinely like.  That includes things like having common interests, common kinks, being able to communicate openly and honestly, etc.  Animal lovers are a requirement for us as well - people who are allergic to animals need not apply ...

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:39:13 PM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		Honesty i can do....... but you need to swap the fat wallet for a fat belly....

To me everything is based on honesty, without that you have nothing.

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:41:32 PM   
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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:43:22 PM   
Carrianna


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Status: offline 		Love it!  LOL But not the fat belly!!! 

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:44:44 PM   
SweetDommes


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ORIGINAL: Carrianna

Wow, your 18 and your an expert at so much!!! 


I'm thinking that this means he needs to work on his honesty levels ...

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:45:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Honesty, loyalty, a sense of humor and the ability to carry on a conversation.  I want someone with a descent sense of self and the ability to think on his own and not need to be micromanaged. We have got to have enough in common to enjoy ourselves outside the house, too.  I want a partner, not just a slave.  I have been very lucky, I have managed to find 2 that are both very compatible with me.  They are very different from one another, but they are both fantastic with me.

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:46:44 PM   
Carrianna


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Status: offline 		Hi LadyHeart,

Meeting one this Thursday, so laughed when I seen your message!  He'd better, turn up, will post new pictures on Friday!!!  Well, no I wont as they dont let me put rope pics up...  Pout... Shame as they are sooooooooooo good!!!

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:49:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would have to say honesty as well.  It's My personal belief that without honesty, there is no trust.  How do you trust a dishonest person?  Physical attraction is important to a degree.  Afterall, this is someone I would intend to be intimate with.  For physical traits, one thing I readily admit to is that I have a preference regarding the length of their hair.  As far as personality, I do admit that I have a soft spot for a sense of humor.  Certain character traits, integrity, loyalty. eagerness to learn, must always be present.

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:52:40 PM   
Carrianna


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Status: offline 		ROFLMAO, love you Sweetdommes, that was good!!!

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 4:55:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Carrianna

Love it!  LOL But not the fat belly!!! 


The see food diet didnt work Maam..... Lol
Ive tried the A plan B plan right through to Y plan. The G plan didnt work but i have got some nice furniture. If the Z plan fails then i am done for..... Its down to Jamie Oliver and healty eating... sighs

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 5:07:58 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Diets haven't worked for me either, politesub - perhaps you should get a dog ... that's my current weight loss plan - taking the dog for a drag each night LOL (I'm kidding, one dog does still need to be trained, but the other walks just fine and that's the one I'm getting ready to go out with).

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 5:08:33 PM   
Carrianna


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Status: offline 		Treadmill, now that would be a good picture, you running on my active runner and me flogging your arse!!! Dont think CM will let me use it.. Ummmmmmm

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 5:11:46 PM   
Carrianna


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Status: offline 		I want a puppy Sweetdomes, but a non bio one! *Wink*

My treadmill works for me, I love it, use it twice a day, and still eat as much as possible!!  But yet I enjoy using it!!!

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 5:15:21 PM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		smiles at treadmill...... thats submissive abuse. Files under hard limits..

< Message edited by Politesub53 -- 6/12/2007 5:16:02 PM >

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 5:15:52 PM   
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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 5:22:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Honesty, loyalty and obedience are up there in the top five traits...but after I thought about this a while, I'd have to say intelligence won out over all. And of course he should have some useful skills...and enjoy the kind of play I enjoy...and oh, yeah...then there's the looks issue. And I'm just assuming he's gainfully employed.

MNN

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RE: what in a slave is most important - 6/12/2007 7:05:58 PM   
RealDom69


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Status: offline 		Honesty... without that there can be no trust...

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