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Twisted images - 6/15/2007 7:33:36 AM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		There's so many complaints about idiots coming here expecting wild kinky sex (mmm yessssssssssssss), and who thinking that announcing his Domminess will mean that any female in range will instantly hurl herself on the floor, spreadeagled and naked, and beg for his attentions.

But actually, this odd kink world of ours is very deceptive - nothing is what it seems ......

(WARNING - Deep philosophical comments to follow - due to it being late on Friday night.)

The Dom/mes are like peacocks, strutting around displaying their pretty feathers to the subs, crying "Pick me, pick meeeeeeeeeee!" 

And the most arrogant posts are from subs and slaves, locked in their eternal battle of "My submission is deeper than yours."

The warm, accepting atmosphere is created by the many flames that appear on any thread that expresses any opinion at all.  And on those that don't.

And despite all their wild and kinky lives, most posters are curled up with a nice mug of hot chocolate.  Some days there are more threads here that mention housework than BDSM.

Do you think if we told the wannabes all that, that they'd go away and leave us alone?

Ok, you can all flame now. 

*Wanders off happily to get some sleep, satisfied that my work here is done.*
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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 7:40:18 AM   
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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 7:41:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		But somehow some of us manage to have great fulfilling relationships, with all their excitement and boredom and living life as you do.

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 7:44:17 AM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		Relationships?  Use words like that and you'll REALLY scare the posers away!

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 7:47:20 AM   
meticulousgirl


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But somehow some of us manage to have great fulfilling relationships, with all their excitement and boredom and living life as you do.


Beautifully stated Albatross I dont need to say anymore than what you did.

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 7:48:39 AM   
XxXxSkittlexXxX


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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 7:49:06 AM   
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Relationships?  Use words like that and you'll REALLY scare the posers away!

heh, good one
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Beautifully stated Albatross I dont need to say anymore than what you did.

Thanks, good post to start the day with.

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 8:05:46 AM   
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Some days there are more threads here that mention housework than BDSM.


For many of us housework is part of our service to our Dom's, so it isn't irrelevant.

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 8:08:07 AM   
becca333


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quote:

Some days there are more threads here that mention housework than BDSM.


For many of us housework is part of our service to our Dom's, so it isn't irrelevant.


Fine, but if any of the wannabes wander past, just tell them you do it naked, ok?  Don't shatter their illusions.

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 8:15:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: becca333

quote:

ORIGINAL: proudsub

quote:

Some days there are more threads here that mention housework than BDSM.


For many of us housework is part of our service to our Dom's, so it isn't irrelevant.


Fine, but if any of the wannabes wander past, just tell them you do it naked, ok?  Don't shatter their illusions.


I do do it naked a lot of the time.

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 8:26:28 AM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		This really used to be an issue for me...sorting the real from the wannabe. But the longer i have been here the less it bothers me. The real aren't so hard to pick out, and the wannabe is always a source of entertaiment
 
Let them all come, because when i am here at my computer, whether with a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, it's all good!!!

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 8:32:10 AM   
slaveluci


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Status: offline 		And I certainly wouldn't want them to learn something like this:
About three weeks ago, I served Master in a way that He said He had never experienced.  Oooooh, kinky right?  Hot stuff?  Nope....He needed a new pair of shoes for work.  So, for the first time since we've been together, I went shoe shopping with Him.  We went to Kohl's and He picked out several styles of shoes to try on.  He sat there while I found the right sizes, pulled out the boxes, carried them to Him, helped Him try them on, and then returned them to the proper places when they didn't fit or He didn't like them.  After about 25 pairs, I think, He was finally completely pleased with a pair. 

The point is....all the people coming here (or just getting involved) and thinking it's all about kinky, hot sex stuff are so off track....lol.  But I will note that, though no physical sex acts were involved, it was very hot to be able to stay knelt before Master so long in a "vanilla" public arena and not be questioned or gawked at strangely.  And, best of all, I was able to serve Master in a practical, helpful way at the same time.  Ah the joys of this "kinky" lifestyle......slave luci   

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 9:39:58 AM   
YourShyPet


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ORIGINAL: becca333

quote:

ORIGINAL: proudsub

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Some days there are more threads here that mention housework than BDSM.


For many of us housework is part of our service to our Dom's, so it isn't irrelevant.


Fine, but if any of the wannabes wander past, just tell them you do it naked, ok?  Don't shatter their illusions.



Whats housework??? <giggles>

kittin

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 9:44:19 AM   
Sheki


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Status: offline 		I've been only in two relationships (the first ended with the death of the girlfriend)and both are vanilla though the girlfriend is on the submissive side in general behavior.

So I have no real experience in this, but know something about long therm relationships with someone... and it seems no different from a “normal” relationships in this things. Ideas that people get from books, videos and websites on BDSM are probably similar to the ideas kids get from novels and movies on the “normal” relationships before seriously getting into one – a mixture of reality and fantasy. Specially when it is a long term one or marriage.. So it is not so difficult to see who has some real experience, who is living in his/her own fantasy world and who is just trying to get laid.

BDSM or vanilla everyone gets sick, has to pay bills, eat and sleep so I would think that in a serious relationship it can't be all about whips and cuffs :D

Besides a dom who is not down to earth, intelligent and has no self-control can not be really dominant, at least not in the way I see it.. I would say that its somewhat similar to the army (or any other situation where there is a hierarchical society): there are people who are “naturally dominant”. That is – they have more experience in the field, confidence, abilities, discipline, character, they arrived on that position by virtue, talent and hard work... and you could follow them in a real war situation even if you were not obliged to by the low or whatever.. than there are always spineless jerks who need the protection of such a hierarchical organization to impose themselves.. It was similar in school too for example. Some professors are jerks that can have no discipline at all and students are making fun of them when during class time. Than there are those nice ones but without authority – people like them but abuse them anyway. There are also those who make a lot of noise and treats to maintain discipline – but its not going to work for long. The ideal ones were always those who had a natural authority. When they were in class you would just sit and listen, no need to treat or say anything, and kids liked them often more than the nice ones without authority. They would have discipline in class butt in a relaxed, natural manner without being serious with no sense of humor... If we make a comparison to the dom/sub world this types would be the “natural dominants”

If a kid naturally feels the character of a professor, a solder of his officer and so on than I would suppose the same goes for a sub for the doms and someone that comes up with such “intelligent and mature” ideas when messaging like those that subs on the profiles are always complaining about is probably not going to make a very domlike impression.. If he is older than 13 that is :D

Well now, I'm making theories about what I have no experience too :D

P.S. Hope my English is at least understandable.

< Message edited by Sheki -- 6/15/2007 9:51:58 AM >

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 9:51:07 AM   
mistoferin


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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

And I certainly wouldn't want them to learn something like this:
About three weeks ago, I served Master in a way that He said He had never experienced.  Oooooh, kinky right?  Hot stuff?  Nope....He needed a new pair of shoes for work.  So, for the first time since we've been together, I went shoe shopping with Him.  We went to Kohl's and He picked out several styles of shoes to try on.  He sat there while I found the right sizes, pulled out the boxes, carried them to Him, helped Him try them on, and then returned them to the proper places when they didn't fit or He didn't like them.  After about 25 pairs, I think, He was finally completely pleased with a pair. 

The point is....all the people coming here (or just getting involved) and thinking it's all about kinky, hot sex stuff are so off track....lol.  But I will note that, though no physical sex acts were involved, it was very hot to be able to stay knelt before Master so long in a "vanilla" public arena and not be questioned or gawked at strangely.  And, best of all, I was able to serve Master in a practical, helpful way at the same time.  Ah the joys of this "kinky" lifestyle......slave luci   


Oh now you've really gone and done it! You weren't supposed to tell that secret that shopping is a part of all of this. You know what's going to happen now? We are going to be overrun by people who want to know where to sign up!!!!

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 9:54:24 AM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: mistoferin
Oh now you've really gone and done it! You weren't supposed to tell that secret that shopping is a part of all of this. You know what's going to happen now? We are going to be overrun by people who want to know where to sign up!!!!

...geesh.  Me and my big mouth.........luci

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 9:57:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: becca333

thinking that announcing his Domminess will mean that any female in range will instantly hurl herself on the floor, spreadeagled and naked, and beg for his attentions.





Ohhhh......you mean I wasn't SUPPOSED to do that? **blushes profusely, puts my knees back together, and reaches for my clothes**

Thank you for the heads up.


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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 11:23:16 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		LOL great thread! lol

I love the humor, blended with the meat and potatoes... housework naked?  Shoe shopping... oh... my morning just keeps getting better!  Would be better if I had a naked male here to clean my kitchen and then to take me shopping, kneeling before me... touching my feet so deliciously... walking back and forth in that specail way... making sure my new shoes will fit well and looking up at me with that specail look... omg... luci... you are totally making my morning here.  But I do have to wonder... can a female be a wanker?  I think I am starting to sound like one.  Wannabe... oh yeah... I wanna be!

Lockit, off to look for her meds

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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 11:36:01 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Sheki, everything you said makes sense.  Thank you for sharing!  Relationships are just that.  We just add a little flavor of the spicy kind to ours.  I haven't been in the lifestyle for long, but I have had relationships and some had a bit of the kink to them, but I just had no words to understand them as well with.  Most of my relationships were vanilla, but... they had  a lot of the D/s dynamics out of whack.  Learning the lifestyle a bit has helped me define what happened... what I want to happen in the future and has given me something to base different things on in a way I can understand better and be more responsible about.  I always felt free before... but I can honestly say freedom has new meaning and the closer I get to going real life... I am assured that freedom will mean much more!

Your on the mark Sheki... kudos!
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RE: Twisted images - 6/15/2007 12:02:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: proudsub

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Some days there are more threads here that mention housework than BDSM.


For many of us housework is part of our service to our Dom's, so it isn't irrelevant.

YEs, domestic duties to maintain a 1950's sort of home falls onto the sub.
Of course we're cleaning & cooking & making hot coco if our Dom's allow us to or want some.
What's the OP think we're all only about scening and sex???
Who'd feed us and keep the house clean if not the subs???

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