sublimelysensual
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ORIGINAL: slaveluci We could debate what "the right state of mind" means for days, I'm sure. Choosing to partake of an "illegal, addictive substance" as you say is perhaps not the wisest decision one can make. I wouldn't say that anyone who does is not in their right mind, however. Are they making what could be one of the worst decisions of their life and one that can and often does lead to disasterous consequences? Sure. But people make choices like that everyday involving many things besides drugs. People enter into relationships and marriages, for instance, that lead to horrible situations. Do we say they weren't in their right mind because they made very ill-advised choices that led to sorrow? Not usually. Actually, that's what I was trying to say, although maybe not as clearly as I could have..that more than likely when they chose to start taking the drug, they were perfectly coherent, and sound. They made the choice, let them face the results. I agree bad judgement isn't equal to not being in their right mind. quote:
I'm sorry but I don't feel it's up to me to decide who can have children and who cannot. Doing crack does not necessarily have one thing to do with not having "sense." It shows very bad decision-making skills and poor judgment, but doesn't mean the person otherwise isn't capable of raising children. Aside from their addiction - and if it wasn't a part of their life - they may be very sensible people. It's totally erroneous to assume that all addicts are uneducated, unskilled, incapable people who are "bad" human beings. As far as who I do and do not feel should be raising children, boy does that open a can of worms . I see parents all the time out in public who, based on what I see and hear, should not be raising children. Or at least it seems to me they aren't raising the ones they have in a healthy manner. Go to Wal-Mart or McDonald's any day of the week and then get back to me on that...lol...Doesn't necessarily have anything to do with smoking crack, they're just verbally abusive bullies. Parents who give their tiny children Mt. Dew or Coke to slurp down and fill them full of Happy Meals and candy bars aren't too wise to me either. Talk about medical bills....juvenile diabetes is bound to follow and be a life long issue for that child. Paying the expenses of a crack baby is no different to me than paying those of a child who was fed poison (in the form of fat and sugar) until they required medical care at my expense. But it's so much easier to get indignant and angry at the crackhead mother than it is the one who is lazy and negligent where her child's eating habits are concerned, isn't it? As much as I may like to think I can control who does and does not have children (laughs) that's way beyond what my opinion can do. No, I don't think people with addictions to illegal substances (which was what we were originally discussing) should have children. Are they the only ones I think that about? No..-laughs..just call me a judgemental slut if you like-.. I don't think parents who are abusive should have children, I don't think parents over a certain age should have children (see the thread about such instead of flaming here please) and I'm sure there's more if I think about it long enough. I'm also not saying all people addicted to crack are stupid, unintelligent,whatever.. but right at that moment, the addiction is a major part of their life, and that does impair any sensibility, cognitive ability, etc..so while they're addicted to the drug, do I think they should be having kids? No. As Aswad pointed out, if they get clean..wonderful, have it reversed. quote:
Yes, I know what you're saying. I wasn't making the comparison so much about the people involved. Those who suffered through the Holocaust and those born with mental illnesses had no choice in the matter that is true. Someone who chooses to take drugs does have a choice. My point was more about the methods people would use to make sure that these certain people don't reproduce. The Jews and those who were mentally retarded weren't considered "fit" to reproduce and thus they were involuntarily sterilized. The person who would offer a pittance of $50 to a crack addict to be "voluntarily" sterilized is operating, in my opinion, under the same premise - that because this person isn't "fit" to reproduce, let's ensure they can never do so. And though they would ultimately have a choice in the matter, if they were desperate enough for money and took the $50, they would technically be obligated to go through with the agreement and I don't see that as very "voluntary." "Here, starving man, I'll give you this sandwich if you'll go get a vasectomy" - that seems about as "voluntary"......luci I guess my problem is, I don't think crackheads are fit to reproduce, and while I can see your point about it not being voluntary, to me, they chose to take the drug, so they put themselves in that position. -smiles- I've enjoyed the discourse..agree to disagree and all that... -a
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