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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 11:35:38 AM   
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LOL. That sent me looking for misspelled words in it. >.>

In light of Fargle's late comment, I'd like to retract my previous response. The original post reminded me far too much of the old Catholic church's tradition of trial by ordeal. Stick your hand in boiling water to prove your point, throw away perfectly good funds so you can claim to walk the walk. It struck me as pretty hypocritical, to say the least. The questions posed above, however, are (unfortunately) valid these days.

Edit: To clarify, that would be my very first comment in this thread and not the second.


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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 11:42:04 AM   
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Three years ago when I was assisting a freind get clean from meth, she entered meth anon. The stats from the literature they handed out quoted that the full recovery rate was less than 3% based upon five years. This meaning that less than 3% of those that entered recovery could stay clean for over 5 years. She has been clean for almost 3 years now, but then again she is held in 24/7 slavery and not allowed to go where there is even a remote chance of her having access. Her husband/owner has also gotten her assistance for the underlying causes of her addiction, would seem to have been clincal depression and/or Bi-Polar combined with severe co-dependency.

We all make life choices, and have to live with the consequences of our actions. How many abortions would there be if better family planning and sex ed was taught to kids? Yeah the ones that often scream against abortion, also do not want the word penis or vagina taught to their 12 year old.

Adoption is a viable option, but as has been pointed out there is a problem with the system. Fostering programs could help but again these are just band aids to the real problem of unwanted abortions. It is easy to say "just don't have sex" but it is proven that humans cannot refrain from procreating so that is not viable either.

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People with addictions - to crack or any other mind-altering substance - are not exactly in the right frame of mind to make life-changing decisions such as to whether or not to get sterilized.  And to assume that they are some lower life form who SHOULD be sterilized is, in my mind, akin to the eugenics and ethnic cleansing used by the Nazis (though not based on ethnicity, of course). 

To me it is the height of arrogance to take it upon yourself to decide that crackheads should all be sterilized and so you go out and offer them money (the one thing they are most desperate for) in order to get them to do so.  What if they were to actually go through with it and then got clean and straightened their lives out and regretted it?  There's just no way anyone can justify such behavior to me.  I think there's lots of folks who shouldn't breed but it's not necessarily based on the fact that they are currently battling addictions that they may eventually overcome.  I don't know what to say.  I'm just kind of rambling because I just can't imagine that anyone could really defend that.  Wanna take a stab at it?.............luci


Meth is an addiction that drives some to sell their bodies for a fix.
Fertile females who do this may concieve.
If the fetus survives to term, it may well be born addicted.

Or... the lady may opt to abort

Neither of these are wonderful things

I think that 'recovery' from meth addiction is... low


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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 12:15:45 PM   
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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 12:16:43 PM   
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A few questions..were they in the right state of mind when they chose to take the crack/meth -name your substance- the first time? How about the second time ? The time after that? They made a life altering decision the moment they chose to take an illegal, commonly known to be addictive, substance...

We could debate what "the right state of mind" means for days, I'm sure.  Choosing to partake of an "illegal, addictive substance" as you say is perhaps not the wisest decision one can make.  I wouldn't say that anyone who does is not in their right mind, however.  Are they making what could be one of the worst decisions of their life and one that can and often does lead to disasterous consequences?  Sure.  But people make choices like that everyday involving many things besides drugs.  People enter into relationships and marriages, for instance, that lead to horrible situations.  Do we say they weren't in their right mind because they made very ill-advised choices that led to sorrow?  Not usually.
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if they don't have the sense to not do crack..do you want them raising children? Do you want to pay medical expenses for said child born to a crack addicted parent?

I'm sorry but I don't feel it's up to me to decide who can have children and who cannot.  Doing crack does not necessarily have one thing to do with not having "sense."  It shows very bad decision-making skills and poor judgment, but doesn't mean the person otherwise isn't capable of raising children.  Aside from their addiction - and if it wasn't a part of their life - they may be very sensible people.  It's totally erroneous to assume that all addicts are uneducated, unskilled, incapable people who are "bad" human beings. 
As far as who I do and do not feel should be raising children, boy does that open a can of worms.  I see parents all the time out in public who, based on what I see and hear, should not be raising children.  Or at least it seems to me they aren't raising the ones they have in a healthy manner.  Go to Wal-Mart or McDonald's any day of the week and then get back to me on that...lol...Doesn't necessarily have anything to do with smoking crack, they're just verbally abusive bullies.  Parents who give their tiny children Mt. Dew or Coke to slurp down and fill them full of Happy Meals and candy bars aren't too wise to me either.  Talk about medical bills....juvenile diabetes is bound to follow and be a life long issue for that child.  Paying the expenses of a crack baby is no different to me than paying those of a child who was fed poison (in the form of fat and sugar) until they required medical care at my expense.  But it's so much easier to get indignant and angry at the crackhead mother than it is the one who is lazy and negligent where her child's eating habits are concerned, isn't it?
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As for the whole eugenics comparison..come on now, none of those people chose to be Jewish, to live under Hitler's reign, etc, etc..it wasn't about choice period.  The same goes for the periods in time when people with mental retardation/developmental disabilities were forcibly sterilized as recently as the 1950's. There's just no comparison. Just my two cents, as always...
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Yes, I know what you're saying.  I wasn't making the comparison so much about the people involved.  Those who suffered through the Holocaust and those born with mental illnesses had no choice in the matter that is true.  Someone who chooses to take drugs does have a choice.  My point was more about the methods people would use to make sure that these certain people don't reproduce.  The Jews and those who were mentally retarded weren't considered "fit" to reproduce and thus they were involuntarily sterilized.  The person who would offer a pittance of $50 to a crack addict to be "voluntarily" sterilized is operating, in my opinion, under the same premise - that because this person isn't "fit" to reproduce, let's ensure they can never do so.  And though they would ultimately have a choice in the matter, if they were desperate enough for money and took the $50, they would technically be obligated to go through with the agreement and I don't see that as very "voluntary."  "Here, starving man, I'll give you this sandwich if you'll go get a vasectomy" - that seems about as "voluntary"......luci

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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 12:20:53 PM   
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I would like a crack baby.

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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 12:24:47 PM   
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Hello, slaveluci.

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I can try to explain my feelings about this but I really don't have the time or energy to get into a moral debate about it.


I do get an emotional "blargh" response to the idea.

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People with addictions are not exactly in the right frame of mind to make life-changing decisions such as to whether or not to get sterilized.


Clearly not. I've seen my aunt on crack, both before and after they took her baby away.

However, by the same token...

People with addictions are not exactly in the right frame of mind to make life-changing decisions such as whether or not to get pregnant, and may not be able to take the right measures to avoid it.

Notice how that's just the other side of the coin, but the same argument.

One follows from the other.

Sterilization can be done in a reversible manner, and usually is (unless the woman is postmenopausal).

Hence, this is taking a smaller risk than they already are taking every day (the crack, for instance, and the stuff they do to get it), with the consequence of preventing them from ruining or ending the life of a child until they are in the right frame of mind to make the decisions about it, at which point reversal is possible.

Remember that fetal exposure to these things is Bad™.

And that most crack-addicted people who would do such a thing for USD 50 are likely to abort a foetus.

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And to assume that they are some lower life form who SHOULD be sterilized is, in my mind, akin to the eugenics and ethnic cleansing used by the Nazis.


I never said they are some lower life form.

I've seen many good people go down that drain.

The hows and whys of that are very clear to me, and I probably think higher of them than you do (unless I'm confusing you with someone else in the thread about relatives with addiction problems, in which case I apologize for that error).

I won't get into eugenics vs dysgenics, as it's not really relevant.

Appeal to infamy is not an argument, so let's please try to avoid confusing the issues by involving such arguments unless there is a direct comparison. I'm sure a lot of Nazis drove cars, too. That doesn't disqualify the modern car as a valid mode of transportation, nor justify it as such. It is just beside the point.

This isn't about the mother. She's incompetent, by your admission and mine.

It's about the as-of-yet unconceived child who should remain so until the mother is competent.

Otherwise, we'll either end up the child being conceived, then killed, ...
... or the child being born in a different way than it was meant to be, the "blueprint" damaged.

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To me it is the height of arrogance to take it upon yourself to decide that crackheads should all be sterilized


I've never decided any such thing.

But I believe in providing incentives for people to behave smarter than they would by themselves.

Note I said "provide incentive", not "use force".

Lower taxes for low-income families that stick to one child, for instance, ...
... or for high-income families that choose to adopt and/or have more of their own.

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and so you go out and offer them money (the one thing they are most desperate for) in order to get them to do so.


The tragic thing is that a seasoned crack addict will do anything for money.
For just about any amount of money, if the last shot has been a while ago.

If a government were to offer an incentive programme of this sort, they should pay more.
Enough for these people to have a shot at getting into rehab or somesuch.

But for a private person to offer a lot more, as well as covering the expenses of the surgery...
It just isn't viable, unless that person is Bill Gates, or picks a single charity case.

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What if they were to actually go through with it and then got clean and straightened their lives out and regretted it?


Then, in all likelyhood, they can have the docs untie their tubes.

The chances of becoming sterile from their lifestyle is higher than that of the reversal being unsuccessful.

Think about it.
I don't like the idea, either.
But there aren't any likable solutions here.

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There's just no way anyone can justify such behavior to me.


I'm not sure it's justifiable, per se.

But have a look at the arguments, and see if it makes more sense now, no?

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I think there's lots of folks who shouldn't breed but it's not necessarily based on the fact that they are currently battling addictions that they may eventually overcome.


That is an entirely different topic.

I'm exclusively addressing the addiction/sterilization thing here.

I'll chime in on a different scale in any debate about "who shouldn't breed", but it's OT for this thread.

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I just can't imagine that anyone could really defend that.


Feel free to call me the Devil's Defense Attourney / Lawyer.

Trying to defend something you don't like is a learning experience.
Trying to attack something you do like is another.
Both shed light on different sides of a story.

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Wanna take a stab at it?


Guess I just did, sort of.

How many hitpoints did it lose, and is it still in stabbing-range?


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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 12:24:47 PM   
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Right... so what this couple is saying is that they would feel better about killing their child in the womb than giving it up to a loving couple once it's born?  Now take into account that it costs money to have an abortion, and they're whoring themselves out to the public because (though other people find a way to do it) they're too lazy to pay for it themselves.  Remember the fact that, in most adoptions, most expenses are paid for in the pregnancy by the couple doing the adopting. 

Add all this up, and you have a couple of lazy fucking people unworthy of a child.  Put him/her up for adoption, and for the love of goddess, don't keep him/her.  If you're really this unsure about it that you have to jump around the topic so much, I'd say you don't need a child.

It sounds like a ploy for money to me.

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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 12:33:14 PM   
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Effectively: people, keep your noses out of our cunts.


Sure thing.

But pro-life isn't about being against choice.
It's about being against infanticide.

If the people in charge at Gitmo started killing the hostages and telling the media that...
"Effectively: people, keep your noses out of our camps." ...
I don't think you'd buy that.


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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 12:38:50 PM   
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But pro-life isn't about being against choice.
It's about being against infanticide.

If the people in charge at Gitmo started killing the hostages and telling the media that...
"Effectively: people, keep your noses out of our camps." ...
I don't think you'd buy that.



...disingenuous.......the prisoners at Gitmo aren't being held inside someone elses body. To compare the two is a classic fruit recognition error (apples/oranges)

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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 12:40:02 PM   
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The web page seeking donations doesn't have anything to do with being either pro-life or pro-choice, it's about trying to make an easy buck, while remaining completely anonymous and unaccountable for how the money will be used, whether for the stated purpose or not.  It's really a pretty ingenious, and possibly devious, way to get people to send you cash.  Even if they (or he/she) doesn't get the requested 50 grand, whatever they get (which comes to them through PayPal, btw) will be a handsome profit for not a lot of effort.  The site is hosted by InvisiHosting, LLC, (www.invisihosting.com) and only charges $3 - $10 per month.  i'm all for helping people in need whenever i can but, i'm also cautious about contributing to anonymous solicitations for cash on the Internet.  i like to investigate and ask questions before deciding whether to give money or not.  i contacted them via the email address on their web page.  The first message i sent was simply to see if the need even still existed, since i couldn't tell when this page was uploaded or updated.  i received a reply in about 3 minutes.  BTW, my given name is Linda and that's what i use on my regular email account. 

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i then sent out a follow-up email to ask more questions.  As of now (just checked my in box again), i still have not received a reply.  Even if they didn't want to answer all of the questions i asked, i would think they could at least answer some of them, if they were truly in the dire situation that is described on their page.  i will keep checking to see if i get any reply from them.  Maybe others would like to email them also and see if they get a response.

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 Oh, and i was just wondering why it is that this thread was titled, "Pro-lifers. "Put up or Shut up."  Don't you feel that people who are pro-choice would also like to have an opportunity to help a couple in need and "put up", too?  Or, is it expected that all those who are pro-choice will be rooting for them to have the abortion?  Just curious about that. ______________slave joy
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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 12:42:21 PM   
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Sterilization can be done in a reversible manner, and usually is (unless the woman is postmenopausal).
Hence, this is taking a smaller risk than they already are taking every day (the crack, for instance, and the stuff they do to get it), with the consequence of preventing them from ruining or ending the life of a child until they are in the right frame of mind to make the decisions about it, at which point reversal is possible

Ok, yeah, I can agree with that.
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I never said they are some lower life form
I never said you did, Aswad.  I was trying to imagine the mindset of someone who would pay them to go get sterilized.  However, many people do seem to have that mindset though.
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I probably think higher of them than you do (unless I'm confusing you with someone else in the thread about relatives with addiction problems, in which case I apologize for that error).

Yep, confusing me with another poster.  I don't have relatives with addiction problems (unless you count my ex-husband) but I had a severe one myself for several years.  Over five years clean now, woo hoo!
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Appeal to infamy is not an argument, so let's please try to avoid confusing the issues by involving such arguments unless there is a direct comparison. I'm sure a lot of Nazis drove cars, too. That doesn't disqualify the modern car as a valid mode of transportation, nor justify it as such. It is just beside the point

Agreed...if you see an earlier post, hopefully that will explain what I was trying to say when I mentioned Nazi's, etc. 
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But for a private person to offer a lot more, as well as covering the expenses of the surgery...
It just isn't viable, unless that person is Bill Gates, or picks a single charity case

Quite true.
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The chances of becoming sterile from their lifestyle is higher than that of the reversal being unsuccessful

Quite possibly the best point made so far.....I thought the same thing.
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I just can't imagine that anyone could really defend that.

Feel free to call me the Devil's Defense Attourney / Lawyer.
Oh, I know.  You do have a way of being the devil's advocate, for sure.
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How many hitpoints did it lose, and is it still in stabbing-range?

As usual, you did very well.  You brought up some very valid points and I don't disagree with them.  Thanks, as always, for the sensible, civil discourse.  I always learn something from your posts..........luci

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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 1:06:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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Effectively: people, keep your noses out of our cunts.


Sure thing.

But pro-life isn't about being against choice.
It's about being against infanticide.

If the people in charge at Gitmo started killing the hostages and telling the media that...
"Effectively: people, keep your noses out of our camps." ...
I don't think you'd buy that.



'Pro-life' has a multitude of meanings, but it's best known for its anti-choice stance, isn't it? Please explain to me why being pro-life, thus anti-choice, is being against infanticide, because I don't think abortion constitutes infanticide.

PS: I hope you didn't intend on comparing abortion with infanticide, or murder at Gitmo, because it would be terribly offensive to the many women on this site who have had abortions, I, for one, being one of them.

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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 1:14:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kiyari

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Pro Choice or Pro Life? Hmmmmm is there an Anti-choice or a Pro Death camp? Ahhh the abortion thing, which is only a symptom of unwanted pregnancies. If unwanted pregnancies are the cause, how many Pro Lifers are doing something to prevent unwanted pregnancies? Not sure why I wonder these things when they come up because I am definitely in the Choice Life Camp.

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It has been my observation as well,
that the vocal 'pro-life' (anti-choice) groups
are generally also vocally against contraception and even sex-ed.

As if babies are punishment (to the woman/girl)
or as if fetuses are somehow sacred (and screw the born; 
the born are someone else's headache... or was that, punishment)

To some great degree,
one's perception of what it may mean to 'abort' a fetus,
hinges upon one's beliefs regarding life, afterlife, souls and such.

I've always believed than women (and men) have a choice. I just believe that choice comes before the pregnancy, not after. 
Yes, it's no fun to have an unwanted pregnancy. It's no fun to carry a child and then give it up. Focus on the prevention of the unwanted pregnancies, not the destruction of the unborn.
Taking or providing birth control is not giving permission, or condoning sex.  I see nothing wrong with making choices about birth control as soon as pregnancies become physically possible, at the beginning of a girls period. a girl doesn't say no because she is afraid she will become pregnant, she says no usually for other reasons, and does not say yes just because she isn't worried about becoming pregnant. Take unwanted pregnancies out of the picture. And boys/young men should be taught to always always always use a condom, no matter what.
yes, I donate, yes, I help educate. it's a difficult position to be in because usually the ones out there educating are not pro-life. I am not really accepted by either group, but still I do what I feel is best.
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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 1:24:14 PM   
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The whole idea of offering money to addicts as an incentive to do anything you want them to just feels sleazy.


Well, most of the stuff people do to feed their addiction is sleazy ...
... whether by their initiative (stealing, etc.), or by someone elses (prostitution, etc.).

I don't think of prostitution in general as sleazy. But you don't go to a "crack hoe" (not my term) because you want a regular prostitute. You go to her because you want someone who will do anything you want, for whatever money you happen to have in your pocket at the time.

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Kind of like offering food/water to a starving/dying of thirst person.


Or child labour in third world countries.

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Because of their screaming needs, they're more than likely gonna take it and agree to whatever you ask.


Which is the problem of scale in capitalism.

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That doesn't make it right to do.


Ah, but here's the paradoxical bit:

If you aren't willing and/or able to give the money away, then it is the "lesser evil".
And in some cases, it may be "right" from a social perspective.

That is:
If you shut down a factory that uses child labour ...
... the children starve and die.
If you somehow actually stop "crack hoe" abuse ...
... the violent crime rises.
And so forth.

"The road to hell is paved with good intentions" is more than a movie plot.

Also, there's an argument to be made against helping, as well, sadly enough, and it is similar to the accusations some people level at western non-holistic medicine. It goes roughly like this:

"Treating symtoms makes us feel better, but it doesn't solve our problem."

Stopping child labour, cheap prostitution, and so forth treats a symptom, and it feels good.
But it doesn't solve the problem.

To stop child labour, you have to look at why these kids are motivated to go work in a factory in the first place, or (in the cases where they are rounded up and hauled there) why people are desperate / hardened enough to haul kids off in trucks and put them in work camps. The reason is poverty, which has its own reasons, in turn. In order to do something about it, you need to either (a) lower western standards, by contributing value to compensate for poverty, without raising net value production in the world, or (b) raise the net value production in the world in a manner that favours such places (via outsourcing, offshoring, and other unpopular means), so the poverty fades.

To stop cheap prostitution, you have to figure out why there is a supply, and why there is a demand. Addressing the demand is necessary to avoid having the problem spill over into other arenas (sex crimes, manipulation, etc.), and because most people who enlist the services of a "reasonably" paid prostitute aren't actually the sleazebags you see on TV, but quite regular Joe's and Jane's; in Denmark, a doctor can "prescribe" a medicare refund for people whose quality of life is impaired because they don't get laid otherwise (e.g. burn victims, quadraplegics, etc.), and the prostitutes are happy about the arrangement, as it gives them customers who are reliable, disease-free and friendly. The bulk of middle-class prostitutes in Norway make about USD 400 per hour, make sure to use condoms, work out of their own homes, and don't have to pay income taxes (it isn't illegal to sell and/or buy sex here, but taxing it is pimping, even if you're the gov't, and that is illegal). I haven't got a clue about the high-class ones; I'm not in those social circles that would know (the ones where crack isn't an addiction, but something where your personal doctor supervises your intake with a bit of a frown; an icebreaker). As for the lower-class ones, they're the ones who are in trouble and get exploited and addicted, the ones who do this because they don't have any better options. But taking away their last option isn't making their life any better. So one needs to address the root cause. In Norway, these charge from USD 5-75 for a blowjob.

For whoever might be speculating about that by now, no, I haven't enlisted the services of prostitutes.

Back to the social issues...

There's one basic aspect of human nature that worked 800.000 years ago, but fucks things up now:

Whenever we're in deep shit, we breed like rabbits.

Not a value judgment or anything. Just an observation that's held true for close to a million years.
An observation which illustrates that we don't always take a constructive approach.
And further illustrates that the kids are the ones who get to pay for it.

If you save ten thousand starving kids in Africa for the next 20 years, then the return on your "investment" into humanity will be that, after those 20 years, you will have to pay for at least twenty thousand starving kids in Africa, or let them die. Instead, you need to educate ten of them, who can educate a hundred, and so forth, in order to get them to understand that they can't have more children than they can support, and provide a means for them to support themselves first of all.

If you just pay crack addicts everything they need, without demanding anything in return, the bulk of them will rack up an even greater tolerance, and thus need even higher doses, and you will be pumping more money into the drug cartels that kill your own kids. Instead, you need to make it legal for doctors to prescribe medical grade crack, for pharma companies to make the crack and the equipment to use it, and then supervise them with serum concentration assays to make sure the addicts don't sell it, along with providing them with housing, a basic job and a serious attempt at rehab. Add some drugs to reverse (or limit) the damaging effects on the body, and very slowly taper the dose. Let it remain illegal for people to sell it, but let the medical community have full access to it. That way, you remove the foundation for the drug cartels' economy: the addicts. No way is there enough money in selling to first-time users, or casual users outside Hollywood and financial centres. The pharma companies and gov'ts can compete on a different level, and people will prefer the "good stuff" that won't kill them (at least not as quickly).

This approach has been tried in Switzerland with heroin addicts, and has worked great.

Thing is, very few popular drugs impair mental or social functioning if used properly.

Cocaine is a special case, in that it irreversibly damages the VMAT pumps, and we don't have any drugs to prevent that part of the damage. Every other negative aspect of cocaine use can be controlled and kept to a level that is less of a problem than people with insomnia or PMS pose to themselves and their surroundings. I know it sounds quite unbelievable, but it's actually the case. The personal problems, apart from the VMAT pump damage, are due to impurities, improper use and lifestyle problems associated with maintaining an illegal and expensive habit.

The social problems predominantly the mutual symbiosis between the War on Drugs and the drug cartels.

In short, these are complicated issues. A lot more complicated than "pro-life" vs "pro-choice".

Anyway... just some food for thought.

Hope you didn't choke as badly on it as I did when I first started thinking this through some 14 years ago.


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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 1:34:26 PM   
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You mean that men and women have a choice not to procreate before making love, but that if they find themselves pregnant after knowing each other biblically, she should have no choice but to bear the child.

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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 1:37:01 PM   
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Right... so what this couple is saying is that they would feel better about killing their child in the womb than giving it up to a loving couple once it's born?


Most would, actually. It's neurobiology.

There's more drugs being pumped into the blood stream during birth than any addict ever injected.

This is what allowed the first human parents to become attached to screaming "monsters" covered in blood, slime and feces, and then proceed to chew off their umbilical, possibly eat the placenta, and start loving and caring for the little thing, rather than using it as bait for a tasty animal.

Our biological make-up doesn't change that fast. It's still the same chemistry.
Prior to the birth, it's "relatively easy" to make the decision to adopt.
That is not always the case once the kid has been born.
Blame PEA, hormones, and so forth.

Some people realize this, and have an abortion, rather than knowingly enter into the situation where they can't give it up after all, or where they are permanently (or at least long-term) traumatized by giving it up.

For some people, it isn't a problem. They can give it up just fine. Others can't.
And the 9 months of living hell, knowing you get zilch from it, doesn't help.


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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 1:40:00 PM   
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the prisoners at Gitmo aren't being held inside someone elses body.


No, they're being held inside someone else's country.
It isn't a fruit recognition issue, but a location issue.
But that's entirely beside the point.

FWIW, I'm mostly pro-choice.


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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 1:44:51 PM   
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You mean that men and women have a choice not to procreate before making love, but that if they find themselves pregnant after knowing each other biblically, she should have no choice but to bear the child.


yes, that's exactly what I mean.
It's not magic, you don't just "find" yourself pregnant.

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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 1:52:42 PM   
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Wonderful just world, you can't afford to raise your baby, so give it to some people that waited too long chasing the almighty buck until their plumbing dried up and they became infertile... nice "choice" there...

Don't want your baby aborted, stop having sex dude


At least they would be alive. You would rather see them dead then with older parents?


If the biological parents did not want to keep the embryo around to be adopted out, take the time off work to have the embryo, deal with morning sickness, stretch marks, explaining to everyone they were giving away their offspring, I would rather those people had a choice not to bring the embryo to term. I am not for older people forcing young ones that are economically disadvantaged into providing them with heirs because they did not have their kids at the right time themselves...

Harsh, but the entire topic is harsh....

And I think that this website highlights this perfectly.... having kids is an economic endeavor that many can ill afford, this couple maybe scum... but they highlight the fact that the rich are not willing to help poor people keep their babies.. but they are more than happy to take the shiny newborns out of some crushed young woman's arms.


Thanks for explaining that julia in that context it makes sense and i agree no young person should feel "forced" to bring a life into the world if they are not ready to love it and take care of it. The economic lure of wealthier older couples bothers me too. 

i do feel strongly though about taking responsibility for your actions and as hard as it would be to do i would carry the baby to term and give it to a loving family, but i certainly would never impose that on anyone else.  i get sick when i read in the paper: Young girl needed to donate healthy egg - all costs paid and $50,000.00 when the baby is born *BIG ick*

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RE: Pro-lifers. Put up or Shut up. - 6/19/2007 1:55:28 PM   
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the prisoners at Gitmo aren't being held inside someone elses body.


No, they're being held inside someone else's country.
It isn't a fruit recognition issue, but a location issue.
But that's entirely beside the point.

FWIW, I'm mostly pro-choice.



.still disingenuous Aswad......a woman's pregnanacy is nothing like a prisoner in any kind of jail, particulary Gitmo. The vast majority of people on the planet see Gitmo as an abomination in the face of justice.....now, how exactly is that in any way like pregnancy? Or did you pick a really bad way of explaining an idea? If so, you may want to try again.

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