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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/19/2007 4:28:54 PM   
hotwater07


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Status: offline 		Laundry.  I despise it. 

Some day my Sir will come,
Some day I'll find my Love,
And how thrilling that moment will be,
When I'll love doing the laundry.....





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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/19/2007 4:31:00 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

It is one thing that he has found that will humiliate me.  The problem is I get desensitized to it and he has to keep raising the bar.  He is now contemplating having me give him a blow job while he is taking a shit...  I have just asked him to have a bucket for me to puke in, if I need it. 



well this is your own fault.... I said it in jest... and then you ask

"can you even be hard while taking shit?"..

Well now... I didn't know the answer to that... so... how else to know but to try it  LOL

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/19/2007 4:42:00 PM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

well this is your own fault.... I said it in jest... and then you ask

"can you even be hard while taking shit?"..

Well now... I didn't know the answer to that... so... how else to know but to try it  LOL


One day I am going to solve that problem and just gnaw my foot off, then no more foot in mouth disease *g*


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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/19/2007 6:07:20 PM   
annare


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Status: offline 		i feel a little silly answering this question as i am so very new to this lifestyle and my relationship with Him is also very new. The latest addition to my daily routine is a masturbation schedule He has given me... Every day i have an activity that He has ordained... and twice during the week i am to take pictures of these activities that i am to send to Him. i have always been an extremely shy person and it is no small feat for me to take the pictures let alone send them. With each click of that silly little camera phone my submission to Him is reinforced. Without the constant reminder of His pleasure as a result i would never be able to get through something like that...

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/19/2007 7:17:59 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		I just thought of another... when he makes me wear the Longhorn T-shirt that he bought on our visit to Austin....

I'm a Sooner fan... I hate the Longhorns!!!

Knight's Kyra

edited to add... in case anyone is wondering, I have to wear that now  *g*

< Message edited by kyraofMists -- 6/19/2007 7:23:54 PM >

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/19/2007 8:18:27 PM   
SimplySubmissive


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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

I just thought of another... when he makes me wear the Longhorn T-shirt that he bought on our visit to Austin....

I'm a Sooner fan... I hate the Longhorns!!!

Knight's Kyra

edited to add... in case anyone is wondering, I have to wear that now  *g*

ok, that's just cruel !
sooner fan you say?
I spent a few years in LA,(still spend time there)  and saw a wonderful football game in the Superdome a few years ago...
Geaux Tigers! ;)

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/19/2007 9:38:06 PM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

When he walks into the bathroom while I am on the toilet just to watch....

When he calls me up and says "Guess what I am doing now!!" and my response is "You are going to the bathroom, aren't you???"; the sound of disgust plainly in my voice and he just laughs and laughs.

It is one thing that he has found that will humiliate me.  The problem is I get desensitized to it and he has to keep raising the bar.  He is now contemplating having me give him a blow job while he is taking a shit...  I have just asked him to have a bucket for me to puke in, if I need it. 

I am horrified of what he will come up with next...  LOL

Knight's Kyra


Has Knight been reading Tucker Max?

http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/date/girl_almost_beats_tucker_at_his_own_game.phtml#611

Or maybe I'm the only one that reads him

C~


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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/19/2007 11:08:17 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
~Fast Reply~

Hot chocolate.

Valyraen likes two packets for each cup of hot chocolate. I think it's a waste and don't notice any difference in taste. But it's the way he wants his hot chocolate served, so it's the way I make it!

LOL it depends on the brand for me, but I like hot chocolate and lemonade much stronger than most packets or recipes call for.

You're micro managed ha ha ha!


Nah. He'd get bored of micro managing me. *Grins* He just knows when I try to make it my way and I learned the hard way what it means when he says "Kitten..." like that. I just make it his way now and my bottom is happier about it!

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/19/2007 11:36:02 PM   
charismagirrl


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Status: offline 		Hmmmm off the top of my head and partly because we just came home from doing it...going skating with my Daddy....talk about a scene OMFG http://mycollarspace.livejournal.com/tag/skating  these blogs explain it all!!!

On top of skating and going to the driving range....

1)Old Disco/R & B  music-because i have started to listen to what my Daddy likes
2)The smell of his cigars
3)Carpet "crack" fresh- because it smells like a clean house and a job well done,and i use it almost every other day
4) Painful high heel shoes and skirts

These are some of the main ODD things that do it for me...i could go on but you get the idea

~cherry




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For today i wont say just...
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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/20/2007 7:37:23 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

When he walks into the bathroom while I am on the toilet just to watch....

When he calls me up and says "Guess what I am doing now!!" and my response is "You are going to the bathroom, aren't you???"; the sound of disgust plainly in my voice and he just laughs and laughs.

It is one thing that he has found that will humiliate me.  The problem is I get desensitized to it and he has to keep raising the bar.  He is now contemplating having me give him a blow job while he is taking a shit...  I have just asked him to have a bucket for me to puke in, if I need it. 

I am horrified of what he will come up with next...  LOL

Knight's Kyra

I believe that's called a "Blumpkin" if I'm not mistaken...
(BTW, if you get down there quick enough, before he "begins" you might get away with making him cum before 'other' things start to happen...)




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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/20/2007 7:51:37 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

Hmmmm off the top of my head and partly because we just came home from doing it...going skating with my Daddy....talk about a scene OMFG http://mycollarspace.livejournal.com/tag/skating  these blogs explain it all!!!

On top of skating and going to the driving range....

1)Old Disco/R & B  music-because i have started to listen to what my Daddy likes
2)The smell of his cigars
3)Carpet "crack" fresh- because it smells like a clean house and a job well done,and i use it almost every other day
4) Painful high heel shoes and skirts

These are some of the main ODD things that do it for me...i could go on but you get the idea

~cherry




Cherry,
Don't mean to hijack the thread, but I had to tell you that I read your journal and LOVED it!  Hope you don't mind if I become a regular reader...
-BSB


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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/20/2007 8:09:07 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs

quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

When he walks into the bathroom while I am on the toilet just to watch....

When he calls me up and says "Guess what I am doing now!!" and my response is "You are going to the bathroom, aren't you???"; the sound of disgust plainly in my voice and he just laughs and laughs.

It is one thing that he has found that will humiliate me.  The problem is I get desensitized to it and he has to keep raising the bar.  He is now contemplating having me give him a blow job while he is taking a shit...  I have just asked him to have a bucket for me to puke in, if I need it. 

I am horrified of what he will come up with next...  LOL

Knight's Kyra


Has Knight been reading Tucker Max?

http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/date/girl_almost_beats_tucker_at_his_own_game.phtml#611

Or maybe I'm the only one that reads him

C~


I just read it.  There were parts that were pretty funny.. Since he was such a dick though, what could have made it perfect was if she took him down and fucked him with a strap on...
Hey... he lives in South Florida..  I live in South Florida....LOL


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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/20/2007 8:32:09 AM   
lighthearted


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Status: offline 		I tend to be a bit of a homebody, so whenever he makes me go out and go somewhere when I feel like staying in, I'm reminded of the fact that if it wasn't him asking me, I wouldn't go.

(usually I'm glad, btw, that he's made me go )

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/20/2007 8:54:15 AM   
charismagirrl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

Hmmmm off the top of my head and partly because we just came home from doing it...going skating with my Daddy....talk about a scene OMFG http://mycollarspace.livejournal.com/tag/skating  these blogs explain it all!!!

On top of skating and going to the driving range....

1)Old Disco/R & B  music-because i have started to listen to what my Daddy likes
2)The smell of his cigars
3)Carpet "crack" fresh- because it smells like a clean house and a job well done,and i use it almost every other day
4) Painful high heel shoes and skirts

These are some of the main ODD things that do it for me...i could go on but you get the idea

~cherry




Cherry,
Don't mean to hijack the thread, but I had to tell you that I read your journal and LOVED it!  Hope you don't mind if I become a regular reader...
-BSB



BSB,
Aww thank you and i don't mind at all!


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For today i won't say but...
For today i wont say just...
For today i will simply obey....
For today i will trust that You are right...
For always i will be your imperfect slave

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/20/2007 9:15:41 AM   
Kidsphoenixx


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Status: offline 		Fast reply to all who posted:
Thank you all so much for posting! I appreciate all the replies, and it's a nice feeling sharing stuff like this ( I rarely even post a reply, let alone start a thread lol).

quote:

Laundry.  I despise it. 

Some day my Sir will come,
Some day I'll find my Love,
And how thrilling that moment will be,
When I'll love doing the laundry.....

I laughed at this one! I'm the same way with doing the dishes! ( Especially when in our house, pre-Master, with my UMs, the rule was " whoever cooked didn't have to do the dishes.")

I KNEW I wasn't "alone" in those reinforcing moments, and it's been great to read of so many variations.....to all....I thank you.



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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/21/2007 6:19:39 AM   
mitda


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mitda

wearing shoes that are too small, honestly.
and being told simply to "hush".
-mitda


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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/21/2007 6:21:18 AM   
mitda


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Status: offline 		i messed up the quote, my apologies...

in any event, this was prophetic because today i'm in 4in spike heels that are juuust that much too small.  all day.  walking downtown as many blocks as it takes to get to lunch.

wish me luck,
mitda

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/21/2007 6:55:48 AM   
Kidsphoenixx


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Status: offline 		Good luck mitda.

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/21/2007 7:00:00 AM   
mitda


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much.

mitda

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/21/2007 1:15:10 PM   
ready4srvce4all


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ORIGINAL: lateralist1

Why do male subs/slaves rarely post here?
I would so like to here from the owned submissive men.
I'm beginning to think there are very very few owned men.
Come on sub men do prove me wrong.


Not to re hijack the thread, but some of us do post.

Back to our regularly scheduled thread....I have a smart mouth, and it does get out of line.  Mistress just sternly says "Robert", and believe me, my heart goes in my throat when I hear it.  It can be anywhere, She never yells, and never embarasses me, though I certainly deserve  both at times.  She then discusses the situation with me when the time is appropriate.  So odd, no, but reinforce?  Absolutely.

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