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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/21/2007 4:03:35 PM   
subsfaith


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

You're micro managed ha ha ha!


Well that made me laugh out loudly.  Thanks LA!

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/21/2007 4:41:22 PM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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Status: offline 		the thing that made me realize how much i was his still amazes me.  he could make me laugh uncontrollably when i wanted to cry or scream, and he could make me cry or scream when i wanted to laugh.  he had my mind held in his hands that well.  a word, a look, and i went 360 from where i was.

but it was wonderful, and taught me so many things about me and what makes me tick.

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in those moments of solitude, does everyone sometimes think they are insane? or is it just me?

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/21/2007 5:11:58 PM   
shyinini


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ORIGINAL: Kidsphoenixx
So, do YOU  have something odd that reinforces YOUR feeling/mindset of slavery/submission?



Nothing !!
Submissive is who I am.  My personality will not change that way.
 
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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/22/2007 2:45:59 AM   
grace5


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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

walking around with ankle chains (with tiny locks and cuffs) - it has been a very VERY humbling experience walking around in public with my ankles cuffed and locked especially in a black neighborhood.  oh i can imagine what people are whispering when they see me walking into a grocery store after gazing up and down at me ...i simply pay them no mind as i enjoy the quiet jiggling sound my chains make while moving my feet.


I know that sound and I love it too. I wear ankle shackles at home  24/7. I can remove the chain when I go out but only Hubby has the tool for the anklets. My left one has an o-ring that jingles softly when I move about. It took me a few years before I would go out in public without shoes and socks.  Now I let them peek out from under my pants/jeans whenever. The only times I've  worn a dress or skirt with them were a couple of Halloween parties and public events. ("Why yes, I'm a slave girl.") Hubby intends that I wear them for the foreseeable future. I do prefer them over a collar.

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/22/2007 2:09:27 PM   
jssubc


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ORIGINAL: lateralist1

Why do male subs/slaves rarely post here?
I would so like to here from the owned submissive men.
I'm beginning to think there are very very few owned men.
Come on sub men do prove me wrong.



Ok i'll bite *s*
i can think of many things that reinforce my submission.
Brushing Her hair, giving Her pedicures, doing Her nails, kneeling by the shower towel in hand waiting to dry Her, but perhaps the strongest is when Mistress witholds information and i know i dare not ask. Being an insatiably curious person that truly demonstrates where the power lies.

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/22/2007 3:51:44 PM   
jssubc


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ORIGINAL: lateralist1

Why do male subs/slaves rarely post here?
I would so like to here from the owned submissive men.
I'm beginning to think there are very very few owned men.
Come on sub men do prove me wrong.


Mind you, on second thought it could just be that the male slaves are to busy. After all Dommes are soooooo much more demanding than Doms.

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/22/2007 4:05:47 PM   
smilingjaguar


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Naked, lapping milk out of a bowl on the floor with him absent-mindedly stroking my back.

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/22/2007 7:49:16 PM   
Arastella


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ORIGINAL: littleone35

For me when i see thos big oval clips that attach to someomes belt to hold keys that makes me think on my submission.

Matt's littleone
Wow, and I thought I was odd thinking that way.  Awesome!  Thank you, you made my night!!

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/22/2007 7:51:00 PM   
Arastella


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Status: offline 		Whenever Mistress gives me a task to do for when She comes home from work, that reinforces it because I feel like I'm making myself useful and doing things specifically for Her make me feel good.  Also, RIGHT when She gets home from work, the time when I'm supposed to drop to my knees for Her entrance, that ALWAYS does it for me.

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/22/2007 7:56:34 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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ORIGINAL: lateralist1

Why do male subs/slaves rarely post here?
I would so like to here from the owned submissive men.
I'm beginning to think there are very very few owned men.
Come on sub men do prove me wrong.

Neither of my boys post, becasue neither of them have profiles any longer. Well, Angel doesnt, kitten never did.

Anyway, so I am told, my habit of scratching someones back very subly and very enjoyable reinforces their submission.  The fact that I got the same asnwer from both boys tonight when I asked, seperately since they do not know one another so could not have discussed it, raised an eyebrow for me.  Its a subconscious thing, I dont think about it much.  When I talk to someone, stand next to them, or we are waiting in line for something, I'll either rest my hand on their back, or I'll gently scratch their backs.  Its a smal reminder that they are pets, and they both really enjoy the little show of affection.  None of us  are overly affectionate in public, so the little things count.

DV


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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/22/2007 10:55:43 PM   
blksubman


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Status: offline 		Ok, i'll post as a sub man. The thing that always got me was when my mistress would do things that i felt or knew she was going to do, even though we never talked about it. It got to the point that i did not know if she was doing what i wanted her to do or if she was making me want her to do what she wanted to do. The mental connection blurred desire from submission and her fantasies become mine. So i kept giving in to her more and more to see what was real. And in the end i realized that she had me completely long before i knew it....and that was perhaps the reason she was always smiling so wickedly when she had me bound so helplessly at her feet.

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/23/2007 9:55:47 AM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: SimplySubmissive
ok, that's just cruel !
sooner fan you say?
I spent a few years in LA,(still spend time there)  and saw a wonderful football game in the Superdome a few years ago...
Geaux Tigers! ;)


Grrrrrr.....

Wait, I mean I have no idea what you are talking about....  I must have blocked it from my mind  *said in the most innocent tone that I can find*  *w*

Knight's Kyra

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/23/2007 10:03:10 AM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs

Has Knight been reading Tucker Max?


Not that I am aware of... it is just his own devious mind at work.  *g*

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"Passion... it lies in all of us. Sleeping, waiting, and though unbidden, it will stir, open its jaws, and howl. It speaks to us, guides us... passion rules us all. And we obey..." ~Angelus

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/23/2007 1:29:54 PM   
BoundDragon


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Status: offline 		Just seeing him reinforces it.

I am a mere 4'11" and he is quite a bit taller than me. So when I see him I know he could keep me safe or overpower me as he sees fit but I have absolute trust in him... & in that is my comfort & submission

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/23/2007 2:58:24 PM   
maledave7


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Why do male subs/slaves rarely post here?
I would so like to here from the owned submissive men.
I'm beginning to think there are very very few owned men.
Come on sub men do prove me wrong.
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I do have some posts on here.
I enjoy doing housework and keeping my pubic area clean-shaven.






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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/24/2007 5:42:22 AM   
sabis


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Status: offline 		.. when he orders me to buy him cigarettes.
 
I despise smoking, having had family members die from lung cancer. My dad is currently in the long, slow process of dying from a stunning variety of lung diseases and disorders.
 
"Get me smokes on your way home."
 
I get a knot in my stomach, and a flash of ache in my heart when I hear it. I have to force myself to choke down any retort or refusal, and just acknowledge the instruction and do it -- knowing that I'm contributing to his eventual illness and death, being fully aware of the consenquences. That's the choice he made and I don't get to override it. I just get to demurr and do it.
 
Its hard to do. I hate to do it.  But it's whats required. And boy howdy, do I feel like a submissive when I do it. Submission aint always about the screaming orgasms and the happy moments in bondage or the sweet testing of limits into delicious new territory - sometimes its choking it down and doing what he says when you just want to scream and cry and say NO.
 
In His service,
 
~sabis
Owned by Cumulus

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/24/2007 5:52:48 AM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		training my ass for anal. i have never allowed anyone to even touch . Master is rough so he has ordered me to train in order to diminish the pain when he takes it. everytime i "train" i'm reminded that i do this for him otherwise i would be an anal virgin til i die

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/24/2007 8:41:06 AM   
hardbodysub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: grace5

quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

walking around with ankle chains (with tiny locks and cuffs) - it has been a very VERY humbling experience walking around in public with my ankles cuffed and locked especially in a black neighborhood.  oh i can imagine what people are whispering when they see me walking into a grocery store after gazing up and down at me ...i simply pay them no mind as i enjoy the quiet jiggling sound my chains make while moving my feet.


I know that sound and I love it too. I wear ankle shackles at home  24/7. I can remove the chain when I go out but only Hubby has the tool for the anklets. My left one has an o-ring that jingles softly when I move about. It took me a few years before I would go out in public without shoes and socks.  Now I let them peek out from under my pants/jeans whenever. The only times I've  worn a dress or skirt with them were a couple of Halloween parties and public events. ("Why yes, I'm a slave girl.") Hubby intends that I wear them for the foreseeable future. I do prefer them over a collar.


Oooooooh, the jingle of chains! I haven't had it done to me, but I can definitely identify with the feelings above. Every movement creates a sound that reminds me of my bondage, and reinforces my feelings of delicious helplessness!

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/24/2007 1:21:13 PM   
shandra


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< Message edited by shandra -- 6/24/2007 1:36:32 PM >

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RE: Odd things that reinforce your slavery/submission - 6/24/2007 1:35:48 PM   
shandra


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Status: offline 		i guess the times i feel it the most are the simplest things, like being sent to the same shop 5 times in a night and the shopkeeper becoming aware i'm running errands or going out at 4 or 5 in the morning because She wants something


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