masterx1966
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that's a bad contract... below is one that I use... it's worded more towards "sub tpe" but can be revised to fit a M/s scenario... 1. my name is (sub/slave name). i am over the age of eighteen, and competent to declare the statement as set forth herein: 2. i, (sub/slave name), as a strong, devoted (man/woman) who has an ongoing commitment to (Dom/Master Name) , have the desire to express my love and dedication to the (Man/Woman) i love and adore and thereby enter into this agreement with a free mind and a devoted heart. i give the gift of complete ownership; my heart, my body, and my soul to (Dom/Master Name) as a vow of this devotion. That the submission of my will is given to (Him/Her) knowing (He/She) is taking me into (His/Her) care and guidance to grow together in love, trust and mutual respect. i regard myself as (His/Her) property at all times. (He/She) accepts the keeping of my body and mind for the fulfillment and enhancement of our sexual, spiritual, emotional, and intellectual needs. (Dom/Master Name) will assume ownership of my other relationships, reserving rights over these relationships; however (He/She) will not interfere in them without my full prior knowledge. furthermore, i agree there are no limits other than the ones that (He/She) will decide upon. i regard myself as existing solely for (His/Her) pleasure and well being. (He/She) will guide me in any sexual, sensual, or scene related behavior, both together with (Dom/Master Name), and separate from (Him/Her), in such a way as to further my growth as a person. (He/She) considers it (His/Her) responsibility to know when i am in trouble. 3. (He/She) will keep me safe no matter how restrained or deep within the scene i may be. if (He/She) pushes me over the edge, (He/She) accepts the responsibility of bringing me back safely with reassurance and affection. if i want a safeword, or a safety signal for a scene, (Dom/Master Name) will set one up. if i want a permanent safeword, or a safety signal, (Dom/Master Name) will discuss with me the reasons as to having this request and decide if it is appropriate. (He/She) will respect my safewords and safety signals, but will not rely on them. (He/She) will treat my use of safewords like any other refusal. (Dom/Master Name) will mold and shape me; assisting me to grow in strength, character, confidence, and being, and that (He/She) will continue to help me to develop my artistic and intellectual abilities. i will obey and please (Him/Her) in all aspects of life, from practical everyday living things, to fun and erotic events. The satisfaction of (His/Her) wants, desires, and whims are consistent with my desire as a submissive to be found pleasing to (Him/Her). i offer (Him/Her), in all respects, use of my time, talents, and abilities. i am willing to do absolutely anything for (Dom/Master Name), giving (Him/Her) total control of my life without hesitation or consideration of myself or others. 4. (Dom/Master Name) has the right and responsibility of inflicting disciplinary measures upon me, in order to continually assert (His/Her) position as (Dominant/Master) and of my position as (His/Her) submissive. discipline also serves to soften my will and reinforces the bonds of ownership. 5. in not fulfilling (His/Her) requests, (He/She) has the right to punish me as (He/She) sees fit. (He/She) offers me the right to refuse (Him/Her) in anything without suffering retribution. my refusal tells (Him/Her) something is wrong between U/us and is therefore a reason for serious discussion to fix problems. However, if it becomes clear that i have refused (Him/Her) for selfish personal reasons, (He/She) reserves the right to punish me. if (He/She) chooses to punish me, i will not enjoy the punishment. however, i have a right to (His/Her) continued affection and support, especially while (He/She) is punishing me. (He/She) will never withhold (His/Her) support and affection from me as a means of punishment. i will obey (His/Her) commands to the best of my ability and strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and all inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve (Him/Her); and limit my growth as (His/Her) submissive. i will be honest and open, revealing my thoughts, feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment; informing (Him/Her) of wants and perceived needs, recognizing that (He/She) is the sole judge of whether or how these shall be satisfied. in aims to please (Him/Her), i desire to have a positive self-image and development of realistic expectations and goals, working with (Him/Her) to become a happy and self-fulfilled individual and work against negative aspects of my ego and my insecurities that would interfere with this advancement. 6. (Dom/Master Name) has no interest in running my daily life, which remains my responsibility. however, if there's anything (He/She) wants from me, something as trivial as the color of my lipstick to something as serious as quitting a job or giving up a friendship, then (He/She) expects my obedience, after any pertinent and appropriate discussions or negotiations are concluded. 7. i, in turn, expect to be regarded as a treasured possession, one that is cherished, loved, protected and respected. (Dom/Master Name) understands that nothing asked of me shall demean me as a person, nor diminish my own responsibilities toward making utmost use of my potential. (Dom/Master Name) will offer me the safe and unrestricted right to question (Him/Her) about anything. (He/She), (Dom/Master Name) will give me a truthful and honest answer to any question. if for any reason (He/She) can not answer a question directly, (He/She) will give me an honest explanation to why (He/She) can not answer me. (Dom/Master Name) will not require me to break a confidence without having some significant purpose of (His/Her) own. (He/She) will explain (His/Her) purposes to me on request, and will fairly consider my explanation as to why i might not want to disclose a confidence to (Him/Her). any such information will rest between us in confidence, and (He/She) will not reveal it to other people without my specific consent, unless (He/She) believes (He/She) has a justifiable reason. 8. i shall devote some of my time to other commitments (e.g. job, kids), that (He/She) shall not damage or harm, nor interfere with the performance of my duties as mother unless (He/She) strongly objects to some aspect or act of that commitment, in which case i will do as (He/She) wishes, after appropriate discussions or negotiations are concluded. 9. (Dom/Master Name) will take what (He/She) wants from me in as a responsible manner as (He/She) can. (He/She) will not seriously interfere with my private life without appropriate consideration of (His/Her) own purposes compared to the effects of (His/Her) wishes on my life. However by submitting myself, i must expect (Him/Her) to use me as (He/She) wishes. this detailed arrangement is entered into our relationship with an explicit awareness of the respective roles, describing both of our expectations and responsibilities and is a much clearer and more specific agreement than the traditional marriage. these commitments serve as the basis for an extension of our relationship, in the spirit of loving and consensual dominance and submission with the intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration, promoting health and happiness, and improving both our lives. 10.this agreement is also entered into with the explicit understanding that i am not able to leave this relationship no matter how much i might desire to do so. (Dom/Master Name) only has the power to dissolve the bond of ownership, and this will remain true no matter how unhappy i might become. however, if i ever feel strongly about wanting to leave at some point in the future, (Dom/Master Name) promises that (He/She) will carefully assess our relationship for a period of 6 (six) months time in order to determine if releasing me is really the best thing. if, after 6 (six) months of attempting to resolve our difficulties, (He/She) believes that my unhappiness with (Him/Her) or with the relationship is a permanent condition that can not be fixed by either of us, (He/She) will release me. i offer my consent to this agreement to (Dom/Master Name) under the terms stated above on this the ______ day of ______ in the year ______. _________________________________ (sub/slave name) i offer my acceptance of this agreement by under the terms stated above on this the ______ day of ______ in the year ______. _________________________________ (Dom/Master Name)
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