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What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 7:43:39 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		In Y/your eyes what makes a sub/slave special? What do you look for?
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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 8:18:18 PM   
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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 8:20:34 PM   
Joseff


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Status: offline 		Mind you, I'm not presently looking, but I'd say someone who compliments me. Someone who enjoys recieving what I enjoy giving, and can match me in an intellectual discourse without trying to compete with me. Or maybe I'm being too sensible, and would really just want someone with big tits.
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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 8:22:14 PM   
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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 8:26:02 PM   
Faramir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lilsubl

compliments you or complements you?


Well, in all honesty, Words of Affirmation is one of my love languages, so....

Sincere compliments are ok by me

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 8:38:57 PM   
PairOfDimes


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Status: offline 		Being special or unique isn't important to me in its own right--being attractive to and compatible with me is what's important. People who are very, very compatible with/attractive to me tend to be unusual in that they possess a particular combination of characteristics. However, I'm not really looking for a single person to meet multiple sets of desires--it's nice when that happens, but it's hardly required. Thus, while it would be special, uncommon, and wonderful if a person turned out to be a fantastic playmate, and conversational partner, and event escort, and servant, all in one body, I have enjoyed (and continue to enjoy) spending time with some great, and not exactly unique people who make fantastic playmates, *or* conversational partners, *or* servants. The fact that they're not particularly exceptional in the way they approach relationships with me makes them no less enjoyable.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 8:47:44 PM   
MrModo


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Status: offline 		the same thing you would look for in a vanilla relationship. that undefinable character that makes it unlike anything else, the unforgettable fire.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 9:02:25 PM   
kyraofMists


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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 9:02:32 PM   
winterlight


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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/23/2007 9:15:26 PM   
LadyPaige


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Status: offline 		I look for someone with compatible interests whose company I enjoy.  Sounds simplistic, but sometimes there's something there, and sometimes there isn't.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 8:40:25 AM   
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What makes a sub/slave special?

Naked, Complete Honesty.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 8:47:45 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I echo what Kyra and Merc have said. All I can add is that she have a sense of reality. The desire to get to know me as a person and understand my need to know her as such also. Rather than the online habit of making it all about one facet of life.

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 6/24/2007 8:49:05 AM >

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 10:14:59 AM   
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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 10:43:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: winterlight

In Y/your eyes what makes a sub/slave special? What do you look for?

by just being me - simple as that.  Daddy accepted me as i was ...opinionated, bold, classy, independent, etc - a diamond in the rough and i didn't have to change or be someone i'm not to wear His collar.


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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 10:51:08 AM   
Joseff


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compliments you or complements you?

I don't know, I can't spell.
Joseff

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 11:23:49 AM   
maledave7


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Status: offline 		I think being open and honest about who you are and what you are looking for. I think having some of the same interest with the other person. Any relationship takes work for it to last. Better to love and lost, then not to love at all.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 11:27:22 AM   
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When you pour McDonald’s special sauce on them, that would make them really special!

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 12:42:48 PM   
octavia


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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

Who they are on the inside, their soul, spirit, their deepest desires and dreams. The outside is just a shell.
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I respectfully disagree.  What they are on the outside is a reflection of what is on the inside. 
Just my humble opinion as always,
octavia

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 12:49:59 PM   
LadyPact


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Everyone's special.  It wasn't just something that looked cool on a coffee mug.

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RE: What makes a sub/slave special - 6/24/2007 2:04:49 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		Special is in the eyes of the beholder.......Tempting

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