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Vendaval -> Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 5:20:26 PM)

Would you rather be loved, respected or feared?

Choose as many as you like and rank in order of importance.



popeye1250 -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 5:27:50 PM)

Loved of course!
When little kids here call me "Mr. P....." it just makes me feel old!



instynctive -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 5:35:36 PM)

"Oderint dum metuant."



Vendaval -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 5:48:13 PM)

Translation?  [8|]



Vendaval -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 5:49:31 PM)

Do you just tell them to call you by your first name then?

I don't like being called "ma'am" for the same reason.  lol



EarthGoddess52 -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 6:00:19 PM)

I'd prefer to be feared, as in god-fearing; revered, which would include love and respect.  So, all three!  Do I have to choose??



szobras -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 6:01:25 PM)

1. Loved
2. Respected



Level -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 6:01:28 PM)

Loved.



SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 6:04:16 PM)

i think if im loved, im respected also........at least i have to respect someone to love them(not including family).

as for feared.....hahahahaha....no way



BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 6:04:30 PM)

Love has nothing to do with this,fear no, for it freezes the sub.slaves development in my view,,RESPECT lots if it...



instynctive -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 6:10:42 PM)

Google it. ;-)

You've probably seen a movie based on the life of the originl quoter.. if not, and you want to see Marina Sirtis' breasts and/or Malcolm McDowell fist someone using butter for lube, that's the one for you. ;-)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Translation?  [8|]



pleasetame -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 6:17:05 PM)

Interesting question, I think I agree that love and respect go hand and hand.  



lighthearted -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 6:33:20 PM)

loved, with respect.
then just respected.  then I wouldn't need to be feared, not that I care to anyway.



Vendaval -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 7:14:24 PM)

I believe that respect is the foundation for love.  I respect and admire a great many people and care about them.
But a deep, personal love is a separate and special experience.
 
Fear is not what I normally hope to install in others.  However, when dealing with a malicious or menancing person(s),
fear is a useful emotion in one's arsenal.



Lashra -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 7:20:47 PM)

Respected and loved by my sub. Toss in trusted and its a perfect mix as far as I am concerned. I would never want him to fear me as I see that could be detrimental to the relationship.

~Lashra



philosophy -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 7:35:15 PM)

......remembered......[:D]



winterlight -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 7:48:34 PM)

loved, cherished and respected.....



persiphone -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 7:54:07 PM)

for me it is loved, respected....i never wish to be feared, i see that as a sign of miscommunication most times. If i had to choose others, remembered, mentioned earlier is good as well.



SugarMyChurro -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 7:55:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: instynctive
You've probably seen a movie based on the life of the originl quoter.. if not, and you want to see Marina Sirtis' breasts and/or Malcolm McDowell fist someone using butter for lube, that's the one for you. ;-)


Caligula, but I think you meant to say Helen Mirren.

"Let them hate, so long as they also fear."



DommeChains -> RE: Would you rather be loved, respected or feared? (6/26/2007 8:05:16 PM)

Love and respect are intertwined for me.
There are times when being feared is desirable.



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