slaveluci
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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247
great question slave luci
Thank you, daddysprop. I really am curious to hear how it works for others.
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in our union, when my Master makes such a decision, sometimes he gives an explaination, sometimes not. if it's something that really upsets me in more of an angry way (which would be very rare but anywho), he won't bother to explain anything because he doesn't like drama and tension.
Makes sense.
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if his decision is one which makes me very sad/depressed, then usually he will take the time to explain why to me. and sometimes the explaination is simply "because that's what i want,"
That works for me - at least it's honest.
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and he is not doing what is "best" for me as a person but rather what is most desireable for him as Master. and of course that's his perogative, we aren't in a union in which the Master always has the slave's best interest at heart.
Here is where it's different for me. I think Master would say that He does what is desirable for Him in that, by doing what is best for me, He is pleased. As you say, it's the master's perogative.
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sometimes he will say, "i know this will hurt you, i know it is difficult and that you will suffer, but it is what i want/need right now, so that is the way it will be,"
Again - very honest for sure.
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and i can accept that because i accept being his property.
Exactly. As long as you were aware that's how things would be, then it's probably not a big surprise when it happens. I would have to concur that being "property" does entail living with decisions one may not necessarily like on occasion.
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eventually it (whatever the particular circumstance may be) will be over and there will be brighter days.
True, but now I'm picturing (and hearing - thanks a lot ) - Annie singing "Tomorrow"......lol. Thanks for the response......slave luci
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Do you get an explanation? - 
), I have a question. I'm paraphrasing here, so forgive me if I don't get this exactly right, but basically she spoke about knowing that her master has made and will probably continue to make some decisions that are going to be painful for her. She mentioned that something happened a short while back where she was not able to make the decision she wanted. If I remember correctly, it involved something happening that - if she had final say - would have caused her to be on a flight across the country but her master told her not to do so. She said on that post and in ones today that, even though some of the decisions she must abide by cause her pain, she understands that and abides by them. 
My Master also makes all final decisions. Some of those are ones I would not necessarily make myself. Yet, like kyra spoke about, they are abided by for better or worse, so to speak. So, my question is this: To all you subs/slaves out there whose Dom/me or Master/Mistress does have such final authority in all/most matters, when they make a decision that you find painful (and one different from what you would have decided), do they explain why to you? I know, at least for me, Master is under no obligation to explain Himself to me but He always does. He wants to make it very clear to me that He's not just deciding something contrary to what I would because He can, but because He has considered all things and made the decision He considers wisest/best. He has no qualms about discussing with me just why He makes such decisions. So, I'm wondering how this process takes place in others' relationships. Anyone feel like sharing? 
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