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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/2/2007 10:28:51 PM   
addicted2it


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On stilts, wearing a jockey outfit while balancing spinning plates and reciting Shakespeare.

Edited due to my own personal failings.   


That would no doubt work at a Renaissance fair, but in the real world...nah!





BTW...Just out of curiosity...

Where on Earth are you getting Renaissance Faire?!? 

Stilts?  Jockey outfit?  Spinning plates?  Shakespeare?   



Wonders idly if banging their heads together would cause the spinning plates to fall, or result in a magnificent duet....


Allie, I would never consider a duet with an idiot.  Oh, and by the way, who elevated you to sainthood?  Inquiring minds want to know.





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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/3/2007 12:00:47 AM   
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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/3/2007 7:40:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: addicted2it

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ORIGINAL: SaintAllie

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

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ORIGINAL: addicted2it

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

On stilts, wearing a jockey outfit while balancing spinning plates and reciting Shakespeare.

Edited due to my own personal failings.   


That would no doubt work at a Renaissance fair, but in the real world...nah!





BTW...Just out of curiosity...

Where on Earth are you getting Renaissance Faire?!? 

Stilts?  Jockey outfit?  Spinning plates?  Shakespeare?   



Wonders idly if banging their heads together would cause the spinning plates to fall, or result in a magnificent duet....


Allie, I would never consider a duet with an idiot.  Oh, and by the way, who elevated you to sainthood?  Inquiring minds want to know.







Congratulations genius. That's two in case you're counting. 

You do indeed seem to have a knack.  Then again, reading your posts, you don't appear to be too bright.  Maybe I'll go and 'enjoy' your inane "boy" OP.

On second thought...nah. 






Edited because I needed to edit my post because it required editing.    

< Message edited by joyinslavery -- 7/3/2007 7:57:54 AM >

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/3/2007 10:45:49 AM   
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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/3/2007 10:49:54 AM   
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with caution


Love that avatar!! 



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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/3/2007 10:57:17 AM   
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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/3/2007 12:38:08 PM   
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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/3/2007 12:45:06 PM   
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I feel so left out of the Family Guy loop. Maybe I should take down My pic and put up one of Lois instead.


At least you knew what was going on!! You can't be that much out of the loop...

(I hadn't made the connection until you pointed it out...I don't watch it.)

MNN

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/3/2007 12:47:21 PM   
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I feel so left out of the Family Guy loop.  Maybe I should take down My pic and put up one of Lois instead.   


A lot of subs would be unhappy if You did Ma'am.  i keep wishing You had more pictures on Your profile.

The only way, i know of to approach a Domme, is with respect.

Respectfully,

pink

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/4/2007 4:48:45 AM   
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the frist thing is be yourself, i like someone who is normal . the next thing not to do is send nude pcitures .i find this to be in bad taste . i do not know why some males think this wil make me want them. i like a man who is private and quiet. be a gentlmen manners count. do nor over load her with mail i have someone who is writing me small three word letters and alot of them . we know you submissive or a slave no need to act any different, we at least i can sense you need to be dominant so good luck ok

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/4/2007 10:19:43 AM   
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It was an attempt to lighten the post up..I won't bother again.

regards Allie


Ms Allie we are graced by Your presence.  Please do not let others lack of humour deprive us of Your wisdom.

Respectfully,

pink

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/16/2007 6:33:20 AM   
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I feel so left out of the Family Guy loop. Maybe I should take down My pic and put up one of Lois instead.


At least you knew what was going on!! You can't be that much out of the loop...

(I hadn't made the connection until you pointed it out...I don't watch it.)

MNN


I think you wouldmake a great lois

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/16/2007 11:15:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		that would be on your knees, completely naked aside from your sparkly little kitten collar, forehead to the floor, and silent until she demands explanation......OR, how about approach her the same way you would ANY other person you;ve just met. POLITELY.

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/16/2007 12:28:07 PM   
addicted2it


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that would be on your knees, completely naked aside from your sparkly little kitten collar, forehead to the floor, and silent until she demands explanation......OR, how about approach her the same way you would ANY other person you;ve just met. POLITELY.


This is exactly the way I have imagined it to be, Dancingzira.  And I agree that a polite approach is always the best approach. 

TY


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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/16/2007 1:00:32 PM   
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I feel so left out of the Family Guy loop.  Maybe I should take down My pic and put up one of Lois instead.   


A lot of subs would be unhappy if You did Ma'am.  i keep wishing You had more pictures on Your profile.

The only way, i know of to approach a Domme, is with respect.

Respectfully,

pink


Ah, My lack of CM internet savy has been found out!  Actually, I would love to post some additional shots, but I honestly don't know how to add more than one on this site.  If anyone would like to instruct Me on how to do this, please feel free to contact Me on the other side.

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/16/2007 2:53:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		A year ago I would have said in a respectful, friendly, normal way.
But I find that a bit dull now.
I must have talked to hundreds of men over the years via email and messenger.
I have learned that there are actually very few who interest me enough to want to meet them.
And the ones I do want to meet are usually so into what they are looking for it's hardly worth the trouble.
I've tried reasoning with them. I don't get angry anymore because that's exactly what some want. Relationships work because they are right for both people.
If you want a truly satisfying D/s BDSM relationship there are lots of good lifestyle Dommes. But you may have to relocate to be with them. In the end both sub and Domme have a choice. None of us have to do this.
Just be honest. If you want to play on-line say so. If you want to play once say so. If you are looking for a relationship say so. It's the dishonesty that gets to me everytime. 

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/16/2007 3:25:11 PM   
addicted2it


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A year ago I would have said in a respectful, friendly, normal way.
But I find that a bit dull now.
I must have talked to hundreds of men over the years via email and messenger.
I have learned that there are actually very few who interest me enough to want to meet them.
And the ones I do want to meet are usually so into what they are looking for it's hardly worth the trouble.
I've tried reasoning with them. I don't get angry anymore because that's exactly what some want. Relationships work because they are right for both people.
If you want a truly satisfying D/s BDSM relationship there are lots of good lifestyle Dommes. But you may have to relocate to be with them. In the end both sub and Domme have a choice. None of us have to do this.
Just be honest. If you want to play on-line say so. If you want to play once say so. If you are looking for a relationship say so. It's the dishonesty that gets to me everytime. 



I have heard and read about this very issue so many times. 

The truth is that each of us has our own particular fetishes and triggers which turn us on.  That said, what is to prevent us to exploring other possibilities? 

Openness and honesty is the only way to approach a possible Domme/sub relationship, and pleasing the Domme is the ultimate reward, so why do these so-called subs or slaves have a problem with being honest and willing to try new things to please a Domme?  *shaking head*

After all, isn't it about giving to the Domme and expecting nothing in return?

I guess I will go to my grave preaching this philosophy.

Signed,

-bewildered




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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 7/18/2007 5:27:02 AM   
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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 6/24/2009 7:50:17 AM   
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with respect as you would with anyone else...... sub or dominant
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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 6/24/2009 7:51:24 AM   
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