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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 6/24/2009 8:20:23 AM

Bella1965

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G'morning all:

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ORIGINAL: addicted2it
Allie, I would never consider a duet with an idiot. Oh, and by the way, who elevated you to sainthood? Inquiring minds want to know.

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery
Congratulations genius. That's two in case you're counting.
You do indeed seem to have a knack. Then again, reading your posts, you don't appear to be too bright. Maybe I'll go and 'enjoy' your inane "boy" OP.
On second thought...nah.

There are a great many reasons why many male submissives remain single. Behavior like this, especially in a forum dedicated to female dominants, is indicative of why.

On the other hand, perhaps other submissives will read this and understand what not to do. One can only hope. I strongly suggest reading the link provided earlier in the thread and learning from it. Many other posters have already made good suggestions. The key is think with your big head, not the cocktail frank between your legs. Remember, you only have one chance to make a good first impression.

Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...

Bella

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 6/24/2009 8:39:21 AM

PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: SaintAllie

It was an attempt to lighten the post up..I won't bother again.

regards Allie

Please bother again. We need some humour here. And - good to see you again.

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RE: Question: What is the correct way to approach a domme? - 6/24/2009 9:01:09 AM

GYPZYQUEEN

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I have submissives asking HOW to approach me...
that is good,,I appreciate that..

They may say..
"DO you have time to talk and how shall I address you?"
" I have read your profile and wish to talk with you further..how shall I proceed?"
" I have read you profile and wish to speak to you about how I can enhance your life..would you care to read mine and indicate if you wish to talk?"

Many are afraid to do the "wrong" thing..have been told to capitalize letters..use slash speak and more...
so much so they cannot get down to revealing anything about themselves they are so busy editing.

THEY DO NOT KNOW how each DOMME would like it.
I always say to them
"We are a man and woman getting to know each other " that's it for now

AS an INITIAL approach I agree with much of what has been said..

*POLITENESS
*indication the profile was read
*something from the profile.."I see you................"
*do not go on and on about "I am into"
*humility ,grace..intelligence

and I have a directive in my profile as to HOW and with what info. I wish to be approached..
it is half way down the profile..IF they do NOT start out as I asked I do not engage.

GQ

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