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Dirty Talking - 7/2/2007 9:22:20 AM

Spankme312

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I'm pretty new at being a sub and I need a lot of advise. My Dom. wants me to be more comfortable talking dirty to Him. I've never really done this before because I always felt that what ever I said would sound stupid or silly. I need some dirty talking lessons. Does anyone know of any web sites or books where I could get ideas. Or for that matter can any of you help me with ideas? I appreciate your assistance immensely.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/2/2007 9:29:41 AM

mnottertail

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you know all those explosions of shit in your head when you come, or when you are getting really warmed up and feeling really dirty????

Just fuckin' say 'em without passing any judgement on value or content.....

I know, I know----just do it anyway, you filthy little slut, you piss guzzling cum sucking whore-------

Silly or not, it will get easier to do, the first couple are a struggle.

When you are doing it, it is not a logical philisophical discourse or debate that has to come to a well thought out point, know whadda mean, Vern?

Ernest

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/2/2007 9:42:07 AM

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This is one of those things that practice, time, and feeling secure with eachother will really make the difference.

Before you talk dirty- just talk. Talk about what you are doing, what you are feeling, what you want to feel.

Then, you can ramp it up a bit, use nastier terms, louder voices.

But talk to eachother first and last- your version of nasty talk could be his version of a total turn off.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/2/2007 9:42:21 AM

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I totally can relate to you in this. I too have hard time talking dirty. Since I'm in a long distance relationship having phone sex has been very difficult. I can text or message him all kinds of things but as soon as we are talking I get all self concious. He is being very patient with me and I'm getting better slowly. I have practiced out loud alone and I think it's helped a little.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/2/2007 10:14:32 AM

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Write it down on then say it out loud to practice. Write something different later then say that out loud. Kinda like a script. Pretty soon you will be doing it extemporaneously.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/2/2007 10:18:25 AM

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here is the mantra for acquainting yourself with uninhibited speech:

fuck, shit, finger, piss, nibble, gobble, chew;
eat shit, dick lick, pussyjuice and screw;
we're the boys from coca cola, who the fuck are you?

AtlantaDirtyTalkingSocietyofEngineers

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 5:52:49 AM

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LOL - love it! Boys from Coca cola! :)
I am in agreement on the just say what your thinking, and it may not always come out right. But it will get message across when it comes to talking dirty for him. Better still- best done in an oh so innocent way as to keep the attention to what your saying -- and to maintain respect to him.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 5:56:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Spankme312

I'm pretty new at being a sub and I need a lot of advise. My Dom. wants me to be more comfortable talking dirty to Him. I've never really done this before because I always felt that what ever I said would sound stupid or silly. I need some dirty talking lessons. Does anyone know of any web sites or books where I could get ideas. Or for that matter can any of you help me with ideas? I appreciate your assistance immensely.

Thank you so much for this thread! I thought I was the only one who had this problem - I know my Dom would like me to say more naughty/dirty things, but it's so hard. I feel silly, but more than that I simply can't say certain words - I just freeze up on them. Some of the suggestions in this thread will help, I'll start practising right away!

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 6:06:34 AM

Spankme312

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Thanks everyone your their advise.
Sir has also told me to practice in front of the mirror until I'm comfortable looking at myself and saying anything that comes to mind.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 7:05:32 AM

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Great thread Spankme, I to thought I was the only one that had a hard time doing so. The suggestions so far have been a big help, so thank you for starting it.

~ misty ~

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 7:19:10 AM

becca333

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Why does dirty talk turn guys on?

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 7:39:49 AM

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It really doesn't, we are just lulling you into believing that we are not visual creatures-------LOL.

Why? there ain't no why for some shit, it does....especially when it is out of character to do so---it may give us the impression that you are letting go.

MasterDirtyDirtyGamboo

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 7:40:02 AM

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I have the same problem, I can't seem to get the words out. It's like my mouth freezes shut and my face turns red, I have no idea why this is, I just feel silly. I will try the suggestions and see if they help, it's good to know I am not alone in this.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 7:42:12 AM

chiaThePet

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i've frankly never been one for the whole "dirty" talk thing, though i can let loose
with a nasty, nasty diatribe when necessary, or if required. i do think it is
more a guy thing, though Mother could talk a sailor down with ease when
in the midst of a good whiskey high. i just don't care for a Woman spouting
off filthy language, but that's just me, and i don't rule the world from my little
corner of the submissive globe. It is what it is in the context it serves.

Most of my experience has been with "guys" wanting to talk dirty to me while
i was in the midst of some sexual service to them. Though the little diddy i can't
stand the most is that, "Do you like that, is it goooooood?" thing that makes me
cringe and think, "idiot, of course i like it, i'm doing it aren't i?" Really doesn't
take a whole lot of intellect to talk dirty now does it? Simple words that roll
off the tongue which take very little thought to get there. Spare me, i beg of you,
i do prefer them bigger, but this will do in a rush, yeah, ahem i liiiiiiike it.

What you have here is a desire and requirement from your Dominant to do
something which will apparently please Him in some way, thus it becomes an
obedient surrender for you to do such. And this in the long run will serve a
need for yourself to submit. i can think of many things which might be seen as
much more degrading that could be demanded of you, many, many more.

So, bite your lip, let them words roll, and try not to laugh out loud when you
do such, that would just ruin the glorious, uplifting human moment for Him.

chia* (the pet)

edited because i stubbed my toe and had to scream, "Son Of A Switch!"

< Message edited by chiaThePet -- 7/3/2007 8:36:02 AM >

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 7:47:14 AM

GhitaAmati

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My husband is always asking me to talk during a scene or during sex...not dirty, just to answer questions and the like. I hate it...I cant concentrate on making words at a time like that! What is it with guys and trying to ruin the moment with talking....sigh

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 7:48:38 AM

becca333

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It just sounds so SILLY. Like the soundtrack of a really bad porn movie. (Not that I ever watched one, of course.)

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 7:51:41 AM

CrimsonMoan

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I can honestly say i had to get used to talking dirty but i do love it as much as any guy i have been with does. i am visual but i also love hearign a guy go on while he's fuckign me or while i'm going down on him. For me it does add to the moment

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 7:58:49 AM

mynded

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Dirty talk is soo nasty, sleazey, filthy, um...dirty, yeah. Melts me everytime but I still have trouble doing it myself too.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:14:00 AM

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If any sub of Mine ever talked dirty to Me, he'd find his body in parts in three counties.

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RE: Dirty Talking - 7/3/2007 8:20:39 AM

Aileen68

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*This dirty little cunt just loves telling him how fucking incredible it feels when he fills my holes.*

I usually will start with something tame like this and then just let the thoughts fly.
Go with the flow and enjoy the reaction.

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