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chiaThePet -> RE: Being loyal to your word (7/8/2007 10:07:22 PM)
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Dear akbarbarian,
i will simply offer my feelings concerning Your post, knowing full well
that i cannot profess to be an expert to the M/s relationship You identify.
During the past two years, i have been mentored by a most respected
Woman of Dominance, whom required specific points of protocol
should i desire to remain a boy of learning to Her. The presentation
of such before me, were preceded by what Mystress commanded
as the Guiding Principle. The Principle spoke to the importance of
Family, and that such should not be jeopardized at the bequest of
a Dominant over a submissive. Family comes first, this was the
directive of Mystress, and i found great respect for Her in this most
cherished consideration as i am profoundly close and protective of
many members of my family, some, not so much, that being what it is.
i understand that You are not married to Your slave, and that the
relationship is young with many paths to travel. If marriage were
in the mix, Your slave would certainly owe You the utmost of
consideration as You now would be Family, but You are not.
You see Yourself as her Master, and she Your slave, baptized
into the relationship willingly, blood however, can be defined as
thicker than water, whether we like the order of such things or not.
As a young boy, i was raised to hold the utmost respect for my
elders, to cherish their knowledge, wisdom, and strength for
having come so far and surviving much. Their guidance is for
myself, priceless and adored. Of course circumstance will be
what it is, and many will feel differently about specific elders in
their lives, but we all know and love someone whom offers of
themselves simply of love and kindness. Respect for elders,
love of family, i hold both dear to my heart and give myself
permission to uphold the importance of such as it affects the
moments of my days. It is a good attribute that Your slave
finds such respect in her heart also. It is a sad circumstance
which has driven such to become the issue it has for the two
of you. What should be a beauty in her, has now caused You
to see disobedience, betrayal, disrespect and disloyalty. Pity.
This will more than likely be just one of many circumstances
in Your relationship which will require insight and exploration
as to the best possible result for the benefit of both. Yes, i
understand You consider Yourself a Master whom makes the
rules to be abided by, but what good are commands when
issued to empty chairs and non-existent stares? Our resolves
are tested on a daily basis by the world around us, sometimes
we simply must find compromise before such, for as mighty
and powerful as we may be, there will always be something
greater to test and require from us. The most absolute of
authority may be laid waste by an unforgiving and relentless
world, pedestals crumble, even on the highest of highs.
Do You not care for her beyond the fact that she is Your slave?
If not, then You will know no compassion for her love and beauty.
If so, then seize the opportunity to grow and prosper in Your
relationship by showing the might of understanding and the
strength which shall overcome mere moments of mortality.
Words can destroy, or become the foundation of a greater
structure of stability, choosen wisely they become mortar
to bind sensibility and resolution that withstand the tremors
which will surely tempt and topple weakened cornerstones.
There shall always be those in the gallery whom will shout
"guillotine,guillotine, simply satisfied only by sinister snears
of retribution. It is not that i do not understand what You
have spoken here, but i find distaste in the use of the words
punishment or discipline as related to the circumstances You
have offered to us. Your slave was caught in her own
changing circumstance, love of family ruled the moment,
it trumped even Your own desires, love became stronger
than even the fear she must have felt in denying You.
Love conquered fear, happens, happens all the time.
You are both young, Your relationship is but young, take not
every ripple in the water and turn such into a tidal wave, it will
simply cause You both to drown in the constant crashing of
waves. Discuss as adults those trials which shall tempt the
success of Your relationship, each has feelings no matter the
dynamic of the order of things. If one is simply discounted
by placement of order, then they will most likely become as
the empty chair and the non-existent stare. And then who
have You really become a Master of? Certainly not love.
i will share with You that which affected me most while reading
through this thread, that being Your posting of Your slaves
emails to You in the course of this predicament. i do not believe
she meant for You to print such here for all to see, a betrayal on
Your part as i see it. Perhaps an early round of punishment?
i know that if my Dominant shared my heartfelt words beyond
the eyes i meant to read them, i would lose a good dose of
respect for that person, regardless of intent. But then again,
mistakes and errors in judgement can flow both ways i suppose,
regardless of the order of things, despite posture and stance.
Just a few thoughts and feelings i had as i read Your post and
thought of how the males in my family watched with a keen eye
those who came calling for their daughter, grandaughter and
sister. Love of family, a powerful, conquering beautiful fact of life.
Another being, they will interrupt Your life at the most inopportune
moments possible, nobody's fault, it just happens.
chia* (the pet)
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