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Not real - 7/7/2007 11:35:01 PM   
MissTreatinyou


Posts: 11
Joined: 11/18/2005
Status: offline 		We've all been accused of it at one time or another, both subs and Dommes. "You're not a real______________" (fill in the blank). I'd like to hear some of the interesting, mundane and just plain rediculous reasons someone has told you you aren't real. One of my favorites was when I was told I wasn't real because I wasn't a pro-domme.

MissTreatinyou
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RE: Not real - 7/7/2007 11:38:59 PM   
apettiger


Posts: 131
Joined: 1/15/2007
Status: offline 		i was once told i was not a true slave/sub because i would not disown my mentally ill son or accept being abused.

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RE: Not real - 7/7/2007 11:50:38 PM   
MisPandora


Posts: 2911
Joined: 4/7/2004
From: Philadelphia, PA
Status: offline 		If I had a dollar for every time I was told I wasn't real, I'd be a rich bitch.

Most recently (within the past few hours) I was told I wasn't a real dom because I refused to tell this fool what to do in an IM.  I refused to take his bait in email LOL

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RE: Not real - 7/7/2007 11:57:14 PM   
Najakcharmer


Posts: 2121
Joined: 5/3/2004
Status: offline 		Dear Mistress,

I am a Real Slave.  By that I mean I am willing to send you a naked picture of my penis in bondage, and do kinky sex acts for you on webcam.  I've only made this offer to 842 other women on this site without reading their profiles, so that should make you feel incredibly special.  I can't tell you my real name or meet you in person because I'm married and need discretion, but I am your total sex slave.  By the way I don't like any pain and cross dressing is a hard limit, I just want to be forced to worship your naked tits and pussy and ass on webcam and to tie up my cock.  I know I am totally for real, so if you don't want to do those things with me right now, then you must be a fake, so fuck you, bitch.  I knew you weren't real anyhow.

Submissively,

Your slave

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 2:33:28 AM   
Oumae


Posts: 911
Joined: 1/4/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

Dear Mistress,

I am a Real Slave.  By that I mean I am willing to send you a naked picture of my penis in bondage, and do kinky sex acts for you on webcam.  I've only made this offer to 842 other women on this site without reading their profiles, so that should make you feel incredibly special.  I can't tell you my real name or meet you in person because I'm married and need discretion, but I am your total sex slave.  By the way I don't like any pain and cross dressing is a hard limit, I just want to be forced to worship your naked tits and pussy and ass on webcam and to tie up my cock.  I know I am totally for real, so if you don't want to do those things with me right now, then you must be a fake, so fuck you, bitch.  I knew you weren't real anyhow.

Submissively,

Your slave


Lol   Hi from one of the other 842

I'm sure I'm not the only one who has been told I'm fake by a nic on here only to receive the same form letter a few months later from a new nic which happens to have the same profile as the old one.

Oumae

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 2:55:32 AM   
LadyHugs


Posts: 2299
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Dear MissTreatinyou, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
One only has to look up in the archives in which people attack other's posts based on bias or disagreeing.  A lot of times when someone isn't getting there way--there are a flurry of excuses why someone isn't a 'cough' true/real dominant or submissive.  *I really don't relish using true or real as its been over used and abused.
 
I can give many examples of your fill in the blank list of why I'm not a true/real Dominant, etc., most times it is due to rejection or they just want to pick a fight and or posture.
 
I know who and what I am --I find it sad that the attacks come from strangers that get all excited to serve and all the fluff--politely reject them, and they turn 180 degrees and tell you this and that--in summary, they didn't want to serve me anyway--and, they're the ones who contacted me. 
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 5:15:39 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Two comments on this......
 
I generally don't get the comment that I'm not real very often.  The most recent time it happened, I was chatting in a room where someone decided that I wasn't real.  I got a good laugh when the next scroll was filled with, "Excuse me, but I've met Her".  Oh, I almost forgot.  The reason this person decided that I wasn't real was because I told them I had absolutely no interest in cyber sex with them.  Now there's an oxymoron if I ever heard of one.  Real cyber sex.
 
Of course, anytime I am ever told I'm not real, I get to come back with one of My favorite jokes.
 
Them:  "You're not real."
Me:  "You're right.  I'm made entirely of plastic."

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 5:23:40 AM   
YesMistressIrish


Posts: 1135
Joined: 5/1/2007
From: Calif
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

Dear Mistress,

I am a Real Slave.  By that I mean I am willing to send you a naked picture of my penis in bondage, and do kinky sex acts for you on webcam.  I've only made this offer to 842 other women on this site without reading their profiles, so that should make you feel incredibly special.  I can't tell you my real name or meet you in person because I'm married and need discretion, but I am your total sex slave.  By the way I don't like any pain and cross dressing is a hard limit, I just want to be forced to worship your naked tits and pussy and ass on webcam and to tie up my cock.  I know I am totally for real, so if you don't want to do those things with me right now, then you must be a fake, so fuck you, bitch.  I knew you weren't real anyhow.

Submissively,

Your slave

Thanks so much for making me lol! I just got out of im with the rudest person from cm I have ever chatted with. I have heard of people like this, but this was a first for me. he begged to cam, then asked for my cam, and pressed for my personal cell number. I am a guest in NY at a friends house, He was the epitomy of a male A*hole, claiming i wasn't real, wearing a wig, ack!@ Never wnat to go there again! Thanks to all the real people for being real, and to all the good friends I have made here on cm in the last 3 months!

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 7:42:37 AM   
MaamJay


Posts: 2101
Joined: 9/2/2005
Status: offline 		Well, it happened only this week ... I have been talking to a potential sub who, in the past, had some bad real time experiences with a "domme" friend of hers. Said friend decided to push sub for the ID of who she's been talking with ie Me. sub tried hard to resist but got tricked into naming My town so "domme" was able to find My profile here on collarme.

And those of you who know Me can just guess what's coming next ...

Apparently, I'm not a REAL Domme ... because I switch! ACKKKK!!! fortunately sub was already enlightened enough to see through that one and "friend" has now become ex-friend!

Maam Jay aka violet[A] (and damn proud of it too!)

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 7:44:10 AM   
cjenny


Posts: 1736
Joined: 11/27/2006
Status: offline 		Heyyyyyy you are totally real MaamJay! Just ask me hehehe & I will defend your realness to the masses dang it.


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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 7:46:17 AM   
MHOO314


Posts: 3628
Joined: 9/26/2004
Status: offline 		Because I AM a Domina not a female submissive--

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 7:56:55 AM   
DianeB269


Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline 		I'm not real cuz, "I'm not looking and I do not wanna have kinky sex with you"



Diane

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 8:05:27 AM   
CrimsonMoan


Posts: 2652
Joined: 10/31/2006
From: Portland, Me via Las Vegas Nv
Status: offline 		I am not a real sub/domme because I am a switch.

I am not real because i won't time out of my life to watch someone torture themselves on cam at my command. I prefer to do it myself

My Lady was told she wsn't real once because of me by a fellow Domme. Apparently the other Lady didn't bother herself with switches and felt my Lady wasn't a REAL Domme by nurturing the domme in me and later on giving me my first sub

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 8:13:50 AM   
MistressGala


Posts: 13
Joined: 7/2/2007
Status: offline 		For over two years I had an online friendship type relationship with a school bus driver located somewhere in the Northern states. This person first introduced himself to me as a submissive who was in a D/s relationship with a woman in Canada. When that didn't work out he decided to be dominant. The entire time we conversed via yahoo messenger he was well aware that I am dominant with no submissive tendencies. Once he switched sides we shared ideas on bondage and he even handmade a very cool cock bondage device for me.
After several submissive situations did not work out well for this gentleman, he decided that I should be submissive to him. WELL that did  not go over well for me. The more I resisted, politely hoping to preserve our "friendship" the more insistant he became.
Repeatedly I told him I was not submissive and repeatedly he told me I was. After a couple of days of this he became abusive and I ended our online relationship.
I was told I was not "real" because I did not do what he wanted.
Still having trouble wraping my mind around that one.

Oh, I have also been told I am not a real Domme because I don't screw every man that wants me to open my legs. I supose Domme = Whore?


< Message edited by MistressGala -- 7/8/2007 8:15:27 AM >

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 8:25:39 AM   
LadyOpinx


Posts: 35
Joined: 5/30/2007
Status: offline 		About 4 years ago I was told by a guy I had met online that I was not a Real Domme (and a F*cking Bitch) because I would not tell him that he deserved to have his penis mutilated.

OMG

And this guy supposedly believed All Women were Goddesses and should be worshipped.

Hmmmmm....?



*Bright Blessings*

Linda




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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 8:28:18 AM   
SeeksOnlyOne


Posts: 2012
Joined: 5/14/2007
Status: offline 		yesterday, i discovered i am not real because i refuse to discuss my feelings about anal sex on the first communication........shucks

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 8:28:40 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


Posts: 1139
Joined: 2/7/2006
From: Lehigh Valley, PA
Status: offline 		I was told I was not "real" because I did not do what he wanted.

Essentially, the is the basis of all claims about realness.  Real is what the perceiver wants.

MSS

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 8:46:56 AM   
Lashra


Posts: 4900
Joined: 2/9/2006
Status: offline 		Another Domme claimed I wasn't "real" because I use manners like "please and thank you" when speaking to my sub. I told her everyone has their own lifestyle approach and each is different. So just because your way is not my way does it mean either is wrong.

~Lashra


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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 8:58:10 AM   
wetsub4u


Posts: 28
Joined: 2/23/2004
From: Boston, MA
Status: offline 		If i could put 'real' in the same category as 'player' .- i was recently told i was a 'player' after 2 emails went back and forth ..
Msg 1  Him: I'd love to learn more of you my dear, if you truly seek.
                   I'm in B every week for my work, for 3 days. Convenient, yes?
Msg 1 me:    Better than someone who never gets here but expects distance to not matter. i am
                  dealing with some medical issues currently that could last for 5-6 mos .. been
                  dealing with them for 6 mos already and it's very tiring and frustrating. i don't get
                  around very well right now so even 'casual meets' are out at this time.
Msg 2 Him: The medical issues aren't an issue for me from a relatinship standpoint.
Msg 2 me:  The medical issues are an issue for me, from a relationship standpoint. The way i    
                 feel, at this point, is keeping me from seeing anyone at  this time.
Msg3 Him: Then why do you have a profile on here that professes to be seeking.
                 you players are SO irritating.
My attempted response was met with a "this person has blocked you":

If he had read my profile, in full, including my 'journal' he would have known i wasn't seeking anyone at this time .. i've since made it the 'heading' of my profile! 

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RE: Not real - 7/8/2007 9:13:27 AM   
earthycouple


Posts: 4462
Joined: 2/19/2006
Status: offline 		a sub because I refused to do what he wanted.  He started stripping in front of me and demanded I inspect him (first meeting) and when I rebuffed him he got very angry and told me I wasn't real. 

I told him I didn't mind being "fake" in his eyes and that I would guess he'd wind up dead one day when he acted in such a manner with someone who wanted to take advantage of his *ahem* willingness to submit.

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