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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 7/9/2007 1:25:44 PM

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hi celeste :)

i'm glad you wrote this. i too get "antsy" when i've gone to long with out some kind of pain play. i knew i couldn't be the only one, but it's nice to hear someone else is like that too.

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 7/9/2007 5:11:06 PM

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god how i miss those!

they're the best stress reducers/eliminators.

it's one of those things that a certain past partner of mine and i had going on; helped to keep my attitude in check and kept me from biting the heads off of innocent people

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 7/9/2007 5:16:12 PM

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Haven't read the replies but omg I love them. Crave them, adore them um yeah I like 'em

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They keep me settled inside, somehow they just reduce the emotional tangles I seem to get trapped in. It feels like I can even breathe easier afterwards. Knowing that one is imminent fills me with the most delicious anticipation & tummy flutters. MmmMMmmM.
Ohboy I'm rhapsodizing about maintainance (sp) spankings hehehe. Hushing now!

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 7/9/2007 8:32:13 PM

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I agree with cjenny. A spanking seem to cleanse me, take way all the tension, leaves me free, makes it easier to breath and clears my head so i can think better.
Sometimes Master spanks me because i need it, sometimes only because he wants to. But it is always when he wants to.

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 7/10/2007 1:12:05 PM

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A spanking seem to cleanse me, take way all the tension, leaves me free, makes it easier to breath and clears my head so i can think better.

I have noticed this as well. It sort of exorcises frustrations of all sorts and leaves me relieved. Wonder if it has something to do with the endorphins or something.

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 7/10/2007 2:28:47 PM

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for us maintanence spankings are not punishment nor are they play. but in our case spanking is never a punishment. what we have found is that if we don't have time for an in depth play session i tend to get out of sorts. i'm not bad...i don't act out or refuse to perform my duties. more that i just move through the motions and don't fully experience my submission. it becomes more of a role play instead of my life. so to alleviate that problem, if circumstances keep us from scening for too long, i get spanked. no long warm up but no heavy hitting either. just some good, firm swats taking all of 10-15 minutes. and then i'm good to go.

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 7/10/2007 3:19:00 PM

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I don't think we've ever refered to them as 'maintance', but a morning spanking is a sure-fire way to put me into a good mood all day long so those are fairly frequent around this parts since Himself likes me giggling and smiling.

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 1/5/2008 9:56:02 PM

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a sub can be spanked at any time ,even if they havent done anything to deserve one.Spanking a slave on a regular basis keeps them inline and reminds them what they are ,and who is in charge

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 1/6/2008 12:08:39 AM

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" maintenance spanking" is a term that is quite common among practitioners of DD and many spanking enthusiasts.
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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 1/6/2008 12:12:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gemy

i too get "antsy" when i've gone to long with out some kind of pain play. i knew i couldn't be the only one, but it's nice to hear someone else is like that too.

Count me as one more on this list...

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 1/7/2008 6:22:09 AM

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well i don't really reffer to it as maintence spaknings but guess it could be called that. my Mistress tries to do so as much as possible because She knows and understands that for me,it is a case of it is something that is needed for me. it remind me of my place and it brings Her my full submission.as i have said to Her there is no punishment in the world that could ever be compared to not recieving Her spankings or floggings on me.

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 1/7/2008 6:45:09 AM

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i have heard this phrase before but not really sure what it means. Does it mean that a sub/slave can get a spanking whenever her/his Dom/Domme feels like it? Or will they recieve one just because? How many of you recieve these maintance spankings?

Daddy beats and spanks me whenever He feels like it, not necessarily because I've been bad. We established in the very beginning that He would whip me when He felt like it because we both enjoy that kind of activity. This eliminates the need to act out to get that from Him.

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RE: Maintenance Spankings? - 1/7/2008 7:22:43 AM

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This is not exclusive to SIC*. Anyone who plays golf will tell you, if you don't practice your skills wane. A wrist, once firm and strong, can go limp without a regular workout. A good combination workout, using flogger, single tail, paddle, and crop not only keep skills honed but also serve to keep the muscle's toned, and the joints loose. Regular workouts also help to avoid muscle pulls and tears. It's also important to include regular hand to body work which keeps the palms from going soft and ineffective. A regular maintenance routine is critical. Dominants - Make sure you give yourself enough time for a good warm up and cool down. Most injuries occur when people just start flailing away without warming up properly.

Remember, before beginning any program consult with your physician. Facilitator dominants need to make sure and include a hearing check to make sure they can hear those action, intensity, dictating safe-words. The established minimum requirement is a score of 70% discrimination at 65db in one ear.

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RE: Maintenance Spankings? - 1/7/2008 11:59:50 AM

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I too enjoy maintenance spanking etc. It makes me feel ood and reminds me of who/what i am and that He cares fore me and such. I too am on the list of people who et antsy without play.

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 1/7/2008 2:51:32 PM

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Aswad and nephandi do it as I recall. Others who mention it say it isn't a heavy beating daily nor onerous for the dom/me. But it helps refocus the sub in a submissive headspace which is helpful for those of us who can't really get there alone.

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 1/8/2008 7:02:43 AM

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a master will spank you when he wants.if he wants to beat your ass red so be it and said thank you sir

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 1/8/2008 9:11:52 AM

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Hi,
We have done this in the past (and hopefully will again) and yes, for both of us it is about 'the headspace'. However, I'd like to add that for me there seems to be some real physical connection with what I will call "BDSM attention" and my mood in general. Perhaps it's the little jolt of hormones or something physiological, or perhaps it's just that little bit of extra attention, but it really does play a big part in how I feel. While a good spanking does turn us both on and is often used as foreplay, the maintaince spankings were NOT used in that way. They were shorter and not as intense. They were actually scheduled for every other night at bedtime. They alternated between bare hand, leather slapper, and tawse. It was all part or our bedtime ritual on those nights and helped us both mentally and I know it also helped me emotionally (physically?).
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RE: Maintenance Spankings? - 1/8/2008 9:54:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

~ Fast Reply ~

This is not exclusive to SIC*. Anyone who plays golf will tell you, if you don't practice your skills wane. A wrist, once firm and strong, can go limp without a regular workout. A good combination workout, using flogger, single tail, paddle, and crop not only keep skills honed but also serve to keep the muscle's toned, and the joints loose. Regular workouts also help to avoid muscle pulls and tears. It's also important to include regular hand to body work which keeps the palms from going soft and ineffective. A regular maintenance routine is critical. Dominants - Make sure you give yourself enough time for a good warm up and cool down. Most injuries occur when people just start flailing away without warming up properly.

Remember, before beginning any program consult with your physician. Facilitator dominants need to make sure and include a hearing check to make sure they can hear those action, intensity, dictating safe-words. The established minimum requirement is a score of 70% discrimination at 65db in one ear.

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Thank you so much for your serious advice. More people need to realize that BDSM should not be taken lightly and that during an activity such as spanking less attention should be paid to the reddening ass and more to the hazardous potentials should a Dom have not passed his hearing test. This slave will certainly be sure to require her Master to present a certificate of completion before he hits her again.

Tee heheheheee. Thank you for the morning laugh. The day is looking brighter already.

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RE: Maintenance Spankings? - 1/8/2008 2:50:43 PM

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Thank you so much for your serious advice. More people need to realize that BDSM should not be taken lightly and that during an activity such as spanking less attention should be paid to the reddening ass and more to the hazardous potentials should a Dom have not passed his hearing test. This slave will certainly be sure to require her Master to present a certificate of completion before he hits her again.

Tee heheheheee. Thank you for the morning laugh. The day is looking brighter already.

(coughs)

You go ahead and make that demand, cuntling. I'll be sure to consider it while I'm reddening your pussy instead.

At least something will be bright...

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RE: Maintance Spankings? - 1/8/2008 3:30:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: angelsub642

i have heard this phrase before but not really sure what it means. Does it mean that a sub/slave can get a spanking whenever her/his Dom/Domme feels like it? Or will they recieve one just because? How many of you recieve these maintance spankings?

I give my slave a maintenance spanking whenever she is ready to return home (she doesn't live with me). It centers her, and keeps her mindful of her place within the relationship.

Whether they are appropriate for all relationships is problematic. My sense of them is they help the slave maintain a good headspace.

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