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mistoferin -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/12/2007 9:50:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong
If we stick to the topic of the HC spaces themselves, I am hard pressed that ALL disabilities qualify for HC parking privileges and they probably do not. 


I was not meaning to imply that all disabilities qualify a person for a handicapped parking permit. I was simply responding to the points that you touched upon.

You responded to one poster and told her that if her obesity was not self inflicted she should be able to get a parking permit. I contend that self inlfliction should not be considered in making the determination whether or not someone qualifies for special parking privileges.


So you are saying that if a person eats themselve into such a state that they need an extrawide parking spot to get in and out of their vehicle.. they should qualify for an HC permit? 
 
Some of the obese have  physical (not mental) problems actualy CAUSING their obesity.  Only their doctor would know for sure and if THEY deem an HC spot is necessary, they will grant a permit status.
 
She may be one of those. Those are the ones for which I give my support and sympathy. 


Yes Lotus, that is exactly what I'm saying. Why should it matter if it is a condition that was genetic, an accident, a mental problem as you say that led them to indulge themselves to the point of morbid obesity or a self inflicted act. They are still a human being that has a problem that makes it difficult for them to get from point A to point B.

Are you saying that we should only grant them to people who became disabled in a way that you feel is morally or ethically correct?




ModeratorEleven -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/12/2007 10:31:22 PM)

Ok folks, that's enough.  If you can't discuss subject this without resorting to insults and namecalling, you had best drop out now before I have to take a more active interest here.

XI




gooddogbenji -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/12/2007 10:56:25 PM)

I would just like to say that the sardonic jackass of  an asshole's son of a bitch, as I call him affectionately, may not know the way to say "I couldn't care less," but he's been called a rediculous number of names on this thread and has kept his cool.

Hats off, you fucking ass!  You have my respect.

As to the handicapped thing, Synergy said it well - grow a little bit every day. 

My attitude, as with depression, obesity, and the works, is that a handicap is only a handicap because we let it be.  Whose interest is it in that we give these people spots:

Politicians, because they become do-gooders.
Businesses, same reason.
The medical field, because it gets them more visits/sales/prescriptions/whatever
The handicapped, because they not only get a luxury of a nice spot but also more pity.

My evolutionist opinion is that if someone cannot walk 30 feet, they should not be at the mall.  They should not be at the gym.  They should not be anywhere where the target inside is more than 10 feet from the door, 'cept maybe a hospital or pharmacy. 

Yes, it sucks, but if you see it as a handicap and allow yourself to take advantage of all this BS, you make yourself handicapped.  How many people do we all know who have overcome illnesses simply by denying them power?  That aint God at work, it's really just not as bad aas we are made to believe. 

I know.  24 year old kid saying this.  24 year old kid with ADD, OCD, the genes for alcoholism, obesity, and several minor things that cause major pain.  I can still run 10km, do my job, drink normally, be an average weight and the rest, mostly because I stop seeing doctors that give me bad news.

Ever hear the theory that kids don't feel pain 'till parents make a fuss over them falling?

Yours,


benji




Level -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 3:07:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji


Ever hear the theory that kids don't feel pain 'till parents make a fuss over them falling?

Yours,


benji


Yes, and I don't believe it, for the most part, benji.




bandit25 -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 3:20:01 AM)

I don't know...I think Benji has a point.  Often times you will see a kid fall.  They're always surprised but they don't always cry or fuss...until mommy or daddy comes running over.




Level -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 3:34:22 AM)

Yeah, there's a degree of that, but pain and illness are real.




bandit25 -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 3:51:09 AM)

Absolutely they are.




Rayne58 -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 3:54:22 AM)

*fast reply*

We have a mobility parking card on our car, because Master has bad knees and arthritis as well as renal failure. When we were going to our local hospital for dialysis we would use the disabled parking spaces (only TWO that I know of around the entire hospital [8|] ) and I would go home and come back when it was time for Him to come off the machine. If there was a disabled spot free I would take it....the number of dirty looks I got. However it's legal to park there if you are picking the person up that the card is for, so I didn't worry.

If I go out alone, the card is still on the windscreen. But I make a point of NOT using the disabled spaces, even if there's one free where I need to go - hopefully karma will follow us around and there will be a space when Master needs one [:)]

His disability is not really a visible one, most times He will have a slight limp but cannot walk too far because of the pain in His knees and back.




ripples -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 4:21:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ChainedExistence
Handicapped parking spots are RESERVED for handicapped people whereas those "handicapped toilets" are considered handicapped accessible, rather than reserved. People make use of many handicapped accessible things- ramps instead of stairs, flattened curbs and so on. Mothers with toddlers or babies are often in need of the extra space in a handicapped toilet stall and in fact many places have those baby changers on the wall for just that purpose. However, as in all things...a little courtesy goes a long way, and one can always defer to someone who needs it more.


Many people with disabilities (I'm English - hate the word - handicapped), are often incontinent or semi continent. Thus an available, easily accessible toilet is pretty essential to living a less limited life. Using an accessible toilet when one is non-disabled is not a mere inconvenience, it can be a matter of compromising someone's dignity.

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ORIGINAL: susie
I am quite surprised at the number of complaints by people saying that disabled spaces are abused in the US. I found during my trips there that the problem is far less than it is in the UK. Here people have no regard for the spaces at all. All supermarkets here have disabled spaces but as these are effectively on private land there are no fines for people that abuse them. The supermarket will also not do anything about these people as they are afraid of losing customers.


In my experience, this is inaccurate. Many supermarkets police these spaces and are very willing to approach offenders. Some supermarkets will put stickers on windscreens, some will even broadcast over the tannoy "Will the owner of car VRN: *** please move their vehicle as they are taking a disabled space"

Admittedly, it's a relatively recent improvement, but one, nonetheless.

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ORIGINAL: SardonicAss
Back on topic, you really can't play the "at least you can chase people and can walk a lil extra way" card with me. You can try, but you will not be successful. I'm not saying "yay" for anyone with a disability, not by a long shot. But the chair, the therapy, etc, it's all geared toward making those with disabilities able to function on their own like they once could. It's about minimizing their "handicap" and helping them live as normally as possible. Disabilities are to be overcome, not used as an excuse to pick on others. She's in a chair, that's unfortunate. If I could fix it for her, I'm sure I would. But I can't. What can I do? I can "not" focus on that. I can see her as a person and not a chair and treat her just like I would anyone else being so militant over something so benign. Do lazy asses exist? Yep. They're multiplying too. You can't stop that. All you can do is control how it affects you. I personally have never seen a situation where "every" single handi-space was taken by non-handicapped people. There's bound to be a spot or two there. And what? Because they're in a chair they should never have to deal with a space not being open? If I go to the mall on a busy shopping weekend, I can drive for 30 minutes and still find no spot. Why can't I rant? I'll tell you - it's because no one cares. So a chair does not automatically mean there will always be a spot. Being in a chair doesn't mean the world will bend over backwards to help either.

Not to mention the wholely separate fact that I have personally seen someone in a power chair zipping along the street, no car in sight. He can do it, why can't others? Why's it so hard for someone in a "POWER" chair to take up 2 spaces in the back of the lot and motor on in? There's almost never "no" spaces. If I were in a chair and some ass took the handi-space, I'd find 2 spaces next to each other and pull right into both of 'em. Wouldn't even think twice. Not everything has to be a "war." and every handicapped person doesn't need to be rescued.


This is a noteworthy post, one that illustrates nicely the difference between the Social and Medical Models of disability of which the US appears (in my somewhat limited experience) to favour the Medical Model. The difference between the two is summed up nicely:

"In the medical model, disabled people are seen as the problem. They need to change and adapt to circumstances (if they can), and there is no suggestion that society needs to change. This model reflects the World Health Organization definition of disability. The social model has been developed by disabled people. In their view disability is caused by the barriers that exist within society and the way society is organised, which discriminates against people with impairments and excludes them from involvement and participation. This model reflects the Union of Physically Impaired Against Segregation (UPIAS) definition of disability."
The point being that it is society that disables me (as a wheelchair user), not my impairment.
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There appears to be a significant disparity between UK and US policing of this. In the UK we have Traffic Wardens who's sole job is to wander the streets making sure everyone abides by the local parking rules. The consequence of this is no police officer is taken away from 'more important' duties in order to issue a parking ticket..

As for who should qualify for the permit; surely it's as simple as  - anyone who has a mobility impairment?

There is another question that this thread raises and that is the segregation that is imposed on people with impairments, not only imposed by society in general, but by disabled people, themselves.... I guess I've done too much philosophy!

On a side note, I'm pleased (maybe in a slightly twisted way) to see such a lengthy thread on the subject of disability. It's not often an Internet forum has so many people with an interest in disablity issues posting to it...





gooddogbenji -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 7:51:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Level

Yeah, there's a degree of that, but pain and illness are real.


Of course they are!  In the same way that burglars are real.  I know people who live their lives behind security systems, multiple locks, barred windows, and the works (in reasonably safe areas) and I know people who have never locked their doors.  Neither have ever been robbed.

You can live your life controlled by this idea that you're handicapped, and that it all hurts, and that your leg is fucked, and that you can't live a normal life and that etc, or you can live it knowing that you're in a wheelchair, but you're still gonna run that marathon.  Let's roll, biatches!

Yours,


benji




KatyLied -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 7:54:16 AM)

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Are you saying that we should only grant them to people who became disabled in a way that you feel is morally or ethically correct?


From what I read, that is exactly what she is saying.




mistoferin -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 7:56:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ripples
As for who should qualify for the permit; surely it's as simple as  - anyone who has a mobility impairment?

There is another question that this thread raises and that is the segregation that is imposed on people with impairments, not only imposed by society in general, but by disabled people, themselves.... I guess I've done too much philosophy!


That is what prompted my response. I was surprised that someone with a disability would be less than understanding of another with a disability.




LotusSong -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 8:34:50 AM)

Benji,
 
Please save your post and read it again in 25 years.  (unless of course you haven't been hit by disease or a truck or any number of things that can befall us unplanned)




gooddogbenji -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 8:41:28 AM)

Lotus,

Please do the same with yours.  But maybe tomorrow, or once you've calmed down.

Betcha my arguments are right for me longer than yours are for you....

"So you are saying that if a person eats themselve into such a state that they need an extrawide parking spot to get in and out of their vehicle.. they should qualify for an HC permit? "

Yours,


benji




ModeratorEleven -> RE: Handicap Parking spot rant (7/13/2007 8:45:22 AM)

This has gone about as far as it can.

XI




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