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Punishments - 6/21/2005 11:22:59 AM

Rascalyrabbit

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I'm just interesting in knowing, what some of the punishments are, that your Master pertakes upon you when you have done wrong. I'm looking for examples from extreme to simple.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 11:32:07 AM

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Oh my.....There are a range of them. My Master doesnt always use them all.

Verbally expressing his anger, or being upset with me, or displeased, is often the easiest physically, but the worst emotionally. It tears me down knowing I've upset him in some manner.

Physically.....The whip I made him really really lays into the skin hard! And here I thought he wouldnt know how to use it.....Big mistake!

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 11:38:55 AM

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well....this girl's Master and she have been together for a few months...when W/we first got together...He told this girl that He does not want her to feel His hand in spanking for punishment...His hand goes on her out of pleasure...which means..His punishments are a bit creative at times.....

For example, girl threw waterballoons all over the place at one point...and instead of spanking her...He instructed this girl to mop and clean the entire place instead....it did make this one feel incredibly humbled ...when she asked ..or rather ...commented that would be embarassing....He simply said...that He was embarassed in His home...and it just made this one think....

Other than that , though, my Master says that He likes to find things that this one particularly does not like such as writting lines, standing in the corner, etc....those are just some ideas from this one...different things work for different P/people, but girl hopes she has helped You some..

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 11:49:54 AM

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Standing in the corner...I like that one. As for "writting lines", what does your master have you write?

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 11:55:43 AM

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girl has not had to write any lines as of yet. she has been with miLord since April 24th...and when she inquired what she would have to do ..as punishment He told her...and that one time has honestly been the only time girl has needed discipline when she displeased Him..since that time...she has not been required to become chastised as she does not wish to displease Master....hurts Him too much to have to punish His girl....so girl tries to obey and serve Him well...

girl imagines, however, what she would be writting if that time comes, would contain the offense she has done and promise of not doing it again...

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 12:20:43 PM

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Basically, I get priviledges taken away. Mostly, internet and TV rights, occationally orgasm rights but as that infringes on my partners enjoyment it doesn't happen often. Writing lines, on occation, as well. Always something applicable to the situation, and always two different sentences on alternate lines, so I can just settle into a writing pattern.

Nothing physical is ever used as punishment for me, because he prefers physical sensations to be reserved for fun.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 12:23:06 PM

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seems as though we have something in common, my Master is the same way...said it beautifully you did...

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 12:45:39 PM

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A very common one is silent treatment...you hear subs talk about how thats the worst all the time.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 1:05:35 PM

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well in my case it was spanking with a paddle he used his hands for pleasure byt the padddle was for ounishment not that u had to be punidhed all that often. I like spanking but my punshment spanking really hurt.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 1:51:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rascalyrabbit

I'm just interesting in knowing, what some of the punishments are, that your Master pertakes upon you when you have done wrong. I'm looking for examples from extreme to simple.

i just wanna know why anyone NEEDS punishing?
never been there ......

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 2:07:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: asissyforher

i just wanna know why anyone NEEDS punishing?
never been there ......

Because we are human and will make mistakes that require correcting, perhaps? Its been a very long time since I have been punished, but I still remember punishments that were meted out from nine years ago. I guess that means they were effective, as I have never been tempted to repeat those mistakes.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 2:21:37 PM

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Why they are needed at times, in my case, is simply because Master and I are both very new to this, thus still growing together. Ims till learning what he requires of me. Add into that the 6 kids(Yes, thats right folks, 6) we have, a dog, and everything else that goes along with life.....I tend to forget at times.

sadly, I am only human. Though...if anyone knows where I can get an extra set of arms, hook me up

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 2:24:03 PM

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Spesific reasons?
Because I forget to do things. Because sometimes I don't break off contact with someone online as quickly as I should. Because I'm still learning how to do some thigns. Because I still have trouble being open and talking clearly about some things.

General reasons?
Basically, because punishment is one good way of behavior modification.

I don't screw up very often, as in, I don't break dirrect rules. However, I don't always do thing quickly and correctly. It isn't so much that I get punished for overtly missbehaving. Rather, punishment can be used to modify an existing behavior before it turns into a horrid one, and so on. I can probably count on both hands the times, in three years, I've been -honestly- punished (as opposed to play punishment) but the options are still there, in case I -do- break rules or need a reminder about how to act.

Re: Silent Treatment
My partner wouldn't ever ignore me because it would devastate me. I have too many abandonment issues ot make it a punishment that would be useful.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 3:14:22 PM

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From everything that I have read on the boards, the silent treatment is the worst punishment.
As to why you would need to be punished, when two people get together, some of the past learned behaviors need to be unlearned. The easiest way for us as subs/slaves to unlearn is to have some form of punishment.
Master doesn't use physical on me either. I enjoy it too much so that is reserved for bedroom play only.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 3:23:14 PM

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Master Archer does not do corporal but usually his chosen methods of punishments are far worse:
~Not being allowed to call him 'Master'
~Not being allowed to wear my collar..and having to explain to people why I am not wearing it
~Research about something that I did wrong (ie: a service act, etc)
~Not being allowed to serve him

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 3:32:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: stormsfate

quote:

ORIGINAL: asissyforher

i just wanna know why anyone NEEDS punishing?
never been there ......

Because we are human and will make mistakes that require correcting, perhaps? Its been a very long time since I have been punished, but I still remember punishments that were meted out from nine years ago. I guess that means they were effective, as I have never been tempted to repeat those mistakes.

best regards,
fate

well y

quote:

Because we are human and will make mistakes that require correcting, perhaps? Its been a very long time since I have been punished, but I still remember punishments that were meted out from nine years ago. I guess that means they were effective, as I have never been tempted to repeat those mistakes.

best regards,
fate

ya know, in my strict upbringing my ole man told me to walk the straight and narrow. and i have a perfect record, 15 months real time zero punishment zero discipline.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 3:35:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: perfection20005

From everything that I have read on the boards, the silent treatment is the worst punishment.
As to why you would need to be punished, when two people get together, some of the past learned behaviors need to be unlearned. The easiest way for us as subs/slaves to unlearn is to have some form of punishment.
Master doesn't use physical on me either. I enjoy it too much so that is reserved for bedroom play only.

perfection

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From everything that I have read on the boards, the silent treatment is the worst punishment.

i told my 1st domme, if She even thought about it, it would be a big joke coz when my wives did it i had the happiest days i remember. i just go off somewhere and enjoy... i am a recluse. i like being alone. it has zero effect on me.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 4:01:43 PM

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ya know, in my strict upbringing my ole man told me to walk the straight and narrow. and i have a perfect record, 15 months real time zero punishment zero discipline.

You must also have an incredibly memory.

As I said before, being punished isn't always aobut being dirrectly disobedient.

Most of us forget, on occation, to do everything we've been told to do. We'll take the car in for an oil change, but forget to finish folding the laundry. Punishment is an effective reminder to help one keep ones jobs straight.

Again, aslo, it's good behavior modification. I find it hard to believe that you -never- had trouble doing what you were told to do, and that you -never- had difficulty following through on an order. Punishment helps with that. Like i've mentioned, I have difficulty talking sexually explicitly. My partner digs it. So he tells me to do it. If I hesitate, or seem overtly embarassed, I am in trouble. I haven't been disobedient, he's simply helping me change my mannerisms through consequences.

In some cases, I'd see having to be punished as a failure on my part. However, in others it's a tool of growth.

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 4:12:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

quote:

ORIGINAL: asissyforher

ya know, in my strict upbringing my ole man told me to walk the straight and narrow. and i have a perfect record, 15 months real time zero punishment zero discipline.

You must also have an incredibly memory.

As I said before, being punished isn't always aobut being dirrectly disobedient.

Most of us forget, on occation, to do everything we've been told to do. We'll take the car in for an oil change, but forget to finish folding the laundry. Punishment is an effective reminder to help one keep ones jobs straight.

Again, aslo, it's good behavior modification. I find it hard to believe that you -never- had trouble doing what you were told to do, and that you -never- had difficulty following through on an order. Punishment helps with that. Like i've mentioned, I have difficulty talking sexually explicitly. My partner digs it. So he tells me to do it. If I hesitate, or seem overtly embarassed, I am in trouble. I haven't been disobedient, he's simply helping me change my mannerisms through consequences.

In some cases, I'd see having to be punished as a failure on my part. However, in others it's a tool of growth.

quote:

Again, aslo, it's good behavior modification. I find it hard to believe that you -never- had trouble doing what you were told to do, and that you -never- had difficulty following through on an order.

and why do you find it so hard to believe? for one thing, i am allowed, at that time, to set my own pace and schedule. two==i have a pocket notebook and i know everyday what i am doing...
now why is that is SO hard? if "I" can do it,..why can't anyone else?
and i am proud that i have a perfect record. i am 51 not 15.
as "I" see it............only children need punishing. an adult should have no problems keeping things done.
"I" never have.

and my 1st Ms was as proud of it as i am. She knew i could be left alone and nothing would be out of place and the house sparkled when She came home.
i am damned good at my domestics. i did it as a pro on contract for years...as a service to joe public and did commercial accts.
it is so easy for me i have it down to a science!!

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RE: Punishments - 6/21/2005 4:52:38 PM

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Why do we need punishments? Mmm I think it's different for everyone, I so very hate to displease the one I am with just His displeasure alone is a bad punishemnt, but when He does punish me, normally with a sit down and being spoken too with His "Im so disspointed Im using my quite voice so you have to listen" tone. As silly as it sounds, it makes me feel more cherished that He would take the time to correct the behavior that displeased Him, we had a bit of trouble with this as we are both growing, though I dont have a set of guidelines voiced by Him, I am learning what pleases Him and what doesnt

We havent had any physical punishment such as spanking, He only uses His hands for pleasure though there have been times when He will delay touching me in any way when He is displeased with me, I think honestly at that point I would rather feel His hand in punishment then not at all, but then He knows this about me and that is why He uses the not touching

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